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Rose
i like this person..but i've NEVER talked to him before..well like in middle school like once but that was like "can i have a pencil?" kind of thing..and i see that in the other advice that you have given people, you just tell them to find out if he likes you..but i don't think he does if he doesn't really know who i am or even i know i go to the school, and theres like no way i could hang out with him..well theres like ONE way but that would be pulling alot of strings just to hang out with him or even like see him..and that would be really weird because i would be like the only girl there..yeah and i don't want that to happen..so its going to be hard giving me advice but i really need some..oh yeah, he's liked me before like in middle school but i havn't seen him in a long time...soo got anything? (link)
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well this is a toughy. I think you should hang out with him with a group of people. Thats how my friend got with her boyfriend. Like just go talk to him about some random thing like "Did u watch some show last night" then get into a convo and ask for his sn or soemthing, and then be like we should chill sometime...it usually works, or have a friend talk to him for you. Or are you friends with any of his friends? You can have them talk to him!
well this was hard
but good luck and write back
xoxo,
ROSE
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Rose,
i like this person that i've like never talked to before. I have no classes with him but i want to like get to know him. now don't tell me just to go up to him and start talking because no one really does that. Now i like him before he's like the outgoing one so i know more about him...what should i do? and remember..i am not going to walk up to him and start talking thats lame.
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heyy--
okay well i like a guy i dont know either. Is there some way you could like hang out or soemthin to get to know eachtoher better...based on experience from my friends, that works.Also, try to get a friend to find out if he likes you too. Also, if you know anyone thats friends with them you can tell them to set you up that also worked for one of my friends. well good luck and im not SURE i fully understood your whole ? soo if this isnt what you wanted then let me know!! if you need more help let me knoww!!
xoxo, rose
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Rosieeeeee!! I asked him! And he totally avoyded it! Ya know girlie, the one about the bf who lykes me for my pooty and goodies. OMFG!!!111!!! what the hech am I supposed to do babe? Ask him agaen? PLEASSSSSEEEE HELP MEEEEE! (link)
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yes, ask him agen!! and if he avoids it be like i asked u a ?....if he still avoids it then he doesnt care so leave him! lol!!
good luck
xoxo, rose
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Hey Rosie girl! I need some help for real chica! See, I've been dating this real hawt guy for like 3 weeks now, but I'm totally not sure if he likes me for who I am inside. I think he just likes the booty and the goods. Please help babe! I badly need your help Rosita!! I (link)
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heyy--
okay so i think you should ask him. Just be like what do you like about me and see if he says like your personality or your looks. If he says your personality than be liek ok because sometimes i feel like you only like me for my looks!! i think i know who this is!!! lemme know if u want more help!!
xoxo,
rose
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Hey,
I went to Spain this summer and it was awesome. While I was there I was with my best friend. I went to her school one day. And she introduced me to her friends. One of them named Gloriana, was really cool. We just clicked, she was just really nice. At night my friend had a party and she invited all her guy friends. One guy named Pablo. I really liked him and he was really hot. We ended up kissing and I found out that Gloriana really loved him but I didnt know that until after we kissed. She heard (from someone that was there) what had happened and she asked me if I kissed him and I said yea. Gloriana asked me to chose her or him. I chose her but I really really love him. What should I do?
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Um i think you made a good decision. That is the kind of friend you can stay with forever even though you live far.
xoxo, Rose
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Hey Rose!
I kinda like this guy who's 18 and I really want to hook up with him!I was supposed to hook up with him a few times but it just never happend.Now when i ask him to hook up with me he won't because he says I'm too young.I know I'm too young for him but we can't get in trouble for kissing it's not like were having sex or anything.So what do I do? How do i get him? (link)
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hey--
okay i think i know exactly who this is. Well okay if he thinks you are too young then you cant make him do anything. Just tell him that you only want to kiss and you promise nothing else. Then see what he says. Yes, you cant get in trouble for kissing but it COULD lead to something else. So id say just talk to him and if you dont like what hes doin then move on!
good luck! lemme know how it goes
xoxo,rose
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So i was at my friends house hanging out with our boyfriends and a few other people..my bf left so i walked upstairs with him to say bye.. and when i came back downstairs..my friends were like drinking..i was really shoked but i just sat there..about 10 minutes later i walked back upstairs to call my parents because i really didn't want to stay there..i came bak downstairs to tell em i was going and they locked me downstairs..i was really freaked out so i walked out the back door and waited on the porch for my mom..i havn't talk to them in a while and they all say that i was acting babysish...but i think they have been tellin my bf wut happened..i just hope he still ikes me :( (link)
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hey--
okay well you shouldnt have to do something you dont want to in order to be friends with them. You did the right thing by calling your mom, but the fact that they locked you in like that shows that they are not good friends and not worth your time. Talk to them about how you didnt feel comfortable and tell them how you feel
good luck!!
lemme know how it goes please!
xoxo,
rose
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Hey Roseee!
I have a good personality a lot of people say! And i can talk to older guys in like high school but i can't seem to talk to any guys my age. I try to tlak to them if they talk to me but i always end up sounding like im not intrested and bored, or i sound stupid. But im actually intrested and stuff. When im with my friend i can talk to them n stuff. What should i do? (link)
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I think you should just think of any guys as older like dont worry about them thinkin bad things of you because they might go to your school. It is easier to date someone your age, so just think of them as anyone else
good luck!!
xoxo, rose
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So i was out with a bunch of my friends and i saw this person that i liked so i started talking to him. My friends were all whispering to eachother when usually they would be with me talking to him. And one of my friends comes up to me and tells me wut they were saying pretending to be talking to the guy. It turns out that they were saying that shit(sry lol) about me and so ofcourse i went over and totally embaressed them infront of people. I was like you think im this and then said a bunch of stuff and the guy that was there and his friends were laughing at them and then i ditched them and walked around with the guy except one friend came with me..the one that told me that they were talking about me. Later that day they told me that they were sorry and stuff and that the person who started talking about me..liked the person too. And then we hung out. But then the guy asked me out and i told him that i would have to get back to him..so what should i say? I know that she likes him but he asked ME out so that shows that he likes me..so i asked her if she would mind and she said no i don't like him anymore and so i said yes to the guy and now the girl is ignoring me its soooo annoying!. Nowwwwwwwwww what? (link)
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Heyy-
Talk to the girl be like you said you wouldnt hav a prob with it so why are u ignoring me? it shows that she might be a little jealous and she might not want you guys to go out inside. But if u wanna go out with him DONT let her choose for U!!!
Good luck!!!
xoxo
rose
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my boyfriend had S-E-X with another girl. im crying what do i do (link)
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Wow! im soooo sorry! dont let it get to you, obviously you are WAYYYYY too god for him and he is an asshole to cheat on you like that. Find someone who wont cheat on you!!!
hope i helped!!
xoxo
rose
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hey rose,
ok so i had boohoo this boy friend who like totally broke up with me just because i not going to his skool anymore so like he think we wont see each other but i sooooooooo still like him and want him bak. i dont no wat to do cause a boy never broke up with me before i usually brake up with them laugh out loud (its more fun) how do i get him bak love ya hun it (jordan) xoxoxox you rock babe (link)
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HEy jordan--
well i dont think you need to "get him back" no offense but im sure he did it for a reason, and its probably whats best for both of you. So ya.... see ya tonight!!!
luv ya!
xoxo,
rose
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I really, really ike this guy at school named Logan. How do I tell him I absolutely adore him.
Thanks Rose,
~ Amy (link)
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Um hi Amy...
Just be like hey logan.... then make a conversation and then start flirting like be like You know logan youre really cute or somethin like that... ok good luck
xoxo,rose
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rose...this is not A JOKE... i relly like u..i think i mite love u. i dunno wat to do about it....how can i tell if u like me? (link)
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Um you have to ask me if i like you i guess lol
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i really like you and i think ur so hot. every time i see you i get so horny and get boners and stuff.can u please not be so hot bcz its making me get boners and they kinda hurt wen i get em? (link)
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lol haha i no this is a joke but w/e
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Hola Rosita, yup Rose its me. The guy i like is hot and I think he likes me back. He asked me who i liked and I was like thats random and he was like im jwjw and then he signed off. Then in school today he was like holding my hand and he gave me a massage and I gave him one too ;). What do u think I should do now and do u think he likes me? Thanks Rosita (link)
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HEy! Yes, i think he likes you(and he always has bc didnt he like u last year)?... he held your hand!!! You guys were obviously flirting!!! lol! I think you should let him know that you like him because he's probably wondering the same thing and i definitely see a relationship starting here. Good luck! Im always here for you !
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hi rose,
i know that you know me. i love it when you laugh, it makes my day to see you happy. i dont have any friends to talk to about this, but i really like you and i hope that you like me too. i am too shy to tell u who this is because i know that i wouldnt be your first choice. mike karlsburg is much more hansome than me (which means im pretty ugly). and i have a low confidence. if you just gave me a chance, maybe i could show you how great i am. all of the preps make fun of me. they say that im a pizza face and that im fat.it hurts a lot. but the num,ber one thing that would hurt me most, is if you would scrutinize me and make fun of me like they do.all i am asking you to do, is to be nice like you always are, and dont make fun of anybody, because it really hurts them in the long run.i dont know what to do because i dont want to be another victim of a bad joke or more teasing. just tell me if you would give someone like me a chance or not...that is all i need (no teasing or pain) (link)
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Well i dont know who you are but you seem really nice and i guess thats what matters. Since you like me, you should tell me who you are so that we can talk and see what happens. Even if i dont like you then you still shouldnt be treated like this! tell me hoo u r please... i think i hav a guess thouhj!
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hey rose ~ there is this guy that i have liked for a while. and on saturday, i was at a bar mitzvah and my friend asked the guy i liked if he wanted to dance with me. and he said no & he also told her about me doing stuff on the floor (which i totally didnt) (and we dont know who did) (ughh i no its gross) which his friend was doing to me earlier. that friend is my neighboor that i have known since i was born. the guy i like has been flirting with me for a while and maybe might like me. but he is also kind of shy at sometimes. another friend (thats a guy) of mine said (before the bar mitzvah) that he would ask that guy if he liked me. he hasnt done it yet. im scared what he's gonna say. and besides, i dont even know if i still like him or not. he is really cute & liked by all the girls and stuff. so please get back to me. thanks~ (link)
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Well well well... i think i know who you are because you wrote a few weeks ago if im remembering right... anyways i think that you should forget bout the guy who had the bar mitzvah... hes not worth your time...don worry about wat he sez if he likes you then he shouldnt be afraid to admit it and if he is then hes not right for you!! If hes really cute then have your friend tell him that you like him! hope it helped write againn if you need more! xoxo, rose
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Hey Rose, there is this guy i really like. I've liked him since the beginning of the year. And he told me he did too. So he asked me out and I said i'd think about it. I wanted to see if it would be awkward the next day since we both knew that we liked each other. The next day I told him I was 99% sure I would say yes to him. I asked one of his friends if it would be ok if I went out with him. The friend said he would be loosing 2 of his friends by doing that. The person I like had to chose between me or his friends. He chose his friends and told me that he's only known me for a year but his friends for 4 yrs. I really really like him and he told me he does too. I wanna go out with him so what should I do?(I don't ask guys out its not my style) (link)
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Well since he did ask you out, i think you should just um be like "since you asked me out, i thought about it and if u still wanna go out then im here" and like if you both like eachother, than dont be shy to speak up... rememeber, one of you has to do it, so dont be shy!!! Write again if you need more help! xoxo, rose
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Hey rose,
Okay, so there is this guy i rly rlylyk... and i think he lyks me back. he always stares at me, and flirts with me. The only problem is he isnt asking me out and this has been going on since the beging of the year and i dont want to ask me out cauz i dont want to screw up our close relationship, or get rejected!! how do i get him to ask me out ... without asking my friends to do it for me!!!
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Hey, i think i no hoo this is, well if you give me his name i can talk to him for ya... just tell him how u feel and stuff... good luck, rose
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hey ROSE i totally love this it HOT ok quesiton i like a guy rite and he like me c the problem is that i so cant seem to talk to him it werid also like i mean i want to kiss a guy but i cant like put myself up to it u no who i am JORDAN from MTC dance HIPHOP love ya thanx
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Hey Jordan... miss ya already babe! Well i think you should just talk to him and get extra close with him. Also, kissing isnt everything do what your confortable with when you want. But also just talk to him and if he seems uninterested, step away... i learned the hard way. Well luv ya babe! ur my lil 7th grade friend... awww. xoxo, rose write again soon!!
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