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Q: ok me and this guy had a thing for a long time . then we started going out but one of my friends pressured him to do it . he said he wanted to tho. our thing was 2 months and it was perfect everything was going great. when we started goin out he wasnt himself anymore . we didnt feel right together. one of the girls that is obsessed with him started a whole lotta stuff so we broke up. and he said i was gonna get a second chance but later on he just wanted to be friends for right now. well i couldnt do that cuz i had feelings for him and he made me fall for him so much because he said the sweetest things.well the next day in school she was wearing his jacket and i got mad and i told him i wanted him to die. ever since then he hates me and now its so hard. its been 2 months but i still have feelings for him. and everyday at school i go up to the stairs where we signed our names. now its really hard to talk to him because he wont even look my way. idk wut to do all i know is i want him back..wut do i do??
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I suggest writing a letter of apology. Then, try approaching him at school. If he runs away, then try from the back next time so that he doesn't get a chance. Then, hand him that you're sorry, hand him the letter, and walk away. Give him a chance to read it and come to you. If he doesn't in the next week, go up to him and ask him if he read the letter. If he says no, tell him that you wish that he would. This time, don't check on him after a week to see if he finally read it. If he never comes to you and accepts your apology, then he's not worth it.
Good luck! :)
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Q: I like this one guy in my school... he's really athletic, nice, and funny. but heres the thing... i've liked him for about a year and a half and i'm so confused on if i like him or not!
sometimes he's really shy and other times he's just his normal self around his friends. He hangs out with the wrong group of friends, who always get into trouble. He sometimes gets into detention in school, he's smart but then sometimes just is lazy. He plays 4 sports and the last thing is that he's shorter than me by about 7 inches!!!!
sooo i'm always getting mixed feelings about him. I like him one day, then the next i decide i don't like him anymore.
whats going on here? does this mean that my heart truly says that i like him? should i just forget about him? Whenever i try to forget about him, i act as my usual self, but then when i'm around him i'm still nervous!!!!!!!! even when i say to myself "just forget about him, he's not for me"
aghh i'm confused
signed,
mixed feelings
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That sounds so familiar that it's no even funny. I liked a guy like that for years. evry summer I'd forget about him and think that I was over him, but when i would go back to school i always got nervous again. If you're not planning on going anywhere with this guy, then it doesn't matter whether you like him or not. But, if you want to ask him out or think that he'll ask you out, then i suggest giving it a try.
good luck :)
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Q: Ok well Im 13 & I have never kissed a guy. I really want my first kiss because I just want to know what its like. I had my chance to kiss a guy before because when I was going out with my boyfriend(i dumped him a couple days ago) he asked me for a kiss but I said no because there were to many people around.
Im not say that im ugly or a geek or something, because I have had plenty of boyfriends, we just have never been at the right place at the right time ya know?
But anyway is it weird that im 13 & I havent had my first kiss yet?
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No! Absolutely not. Most people in my town didn't start kissing until high school. If you said no to your ex-bf, then you might not be ready, but if you are, I suggest the movies. There are still people around, but it's dark, so you won't have 10 million people staring at you.
Good luck :)
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Hola, everyone! I'm muy excited about this. This column isn't really about any subject in particular; I'm just here to help with anything that's on your mind. So... ask away! :)
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Gender: Female Location: northeast Member Since: January 18, 2007 Answers: 23 Last Update: January 19, 2007 Visitors: 2991
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