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I'm 17 almost 18 and I fell in love with the perfect guy we've been dating a couple months now and his family loves me and my family loves him. We have both hinted at marriage and we both are going in the same direction. He's 21 and I met him through friends. But i'm scared that I'm going to get my heart broken. He's the first guy thats ever been nice to me in a relationship and didnt expect things from me. I guess I'm just confused on how to take all this in. We both act almost as if we are almost ready, but I'm getting impatent waiting for him to pop the question. What can I do to hint that i think we should take the next step or should I wait for him to do it?

love,
~Christina~

hey doll. well, to be completely honest, i'm not sure you're ready yet. you don't have enough trust in him yet. you're scared you're gonna get your heart broken. when you're ready to get married, i think you should be almost totally positive he's not going to leave you. and just wait it out, when he thinks it's the right time, he'll do it. hope i helpedd.♥

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I am Thai. 24 years old. Male.

I have been talking to this girl for about 2 months. We have a lot in common and seems like she enjoys talking to me as she laughs at my joke (she sais I am so funny). she always tells me about her stuffs like her works, friends,ect. Most of the times I am the one who call her for a talk almost everyday (I also text to her everyday). She calls me sometimes, but, recently, she asked me like: "why didn't you call me yesterday?" or "Why you call me so late? I'm waiting". I went out with her 2 times within last 2 weeks. Both times were great (just as I thought). I will go out with her again on next week. Today, this morning, she texted to me like: "Thanks for everything you have done for me and for good feelings you have been given to me". These are what happening now.
Let me take you back to 8 months earlier. I met her and I called her just like what I'm doing now. At the time she had boyfriend(s). She talked to me nicely and also with another guys. I think that time she was really flirting to me without thinking of any serious relationship. I asked her to go out several time, but she did not. After I paused talking to her for 5 months, she called me and told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. Thereafter, I have been talking to her again since then.
My questions are:
1) Does she really like me this time or just flirt to me again?
2) What does the SMS mean(Thank you for...)? It sounds like she wants to break up our relationship to me. It really bothers me.
Please advice me. I appreciate for all suggestions. Thanks.

hey thai. ehh, she might really like you, but i don't exactly tink dating her would be the best option. she sounds like she flirts too much. and like someone said before, it is weird how after 5 months she just decides to call you because her and her boyfriend break up and comes running to you. i think she sounds like she's not too serious and if you were to date her, you wouldn't be the only guy she's flirting with. but good luckkk babe.♥

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My boyfriend, well currently ex, cheated on me a few months back. We were dating for over 1.5 years, almost 2 so when I found out about it, I broke up with him.


I really wasn't planning on getting back together with him because I was really hurt. Besides the cheating however, I thought he was amazing.


Yesterday he came over to get me back. When we first started dating, I used to make him these cute little signs but I always thought he just threw them away. Well he kept them ALL! :D He made then into a book type thing and showed it to me when he came over. There was at least a 100 of them!


I thought it was the cutest thing ever! So it made me think about taking him back. What do you guys think? Does everyone deserve a second chance?

well babe, it depends on if you trust him enough. he seems like he realized his mistakes and is coming to win you back. personally, i probably would. but it just depends on how much you trust him. just watch out. good luck doll.♥

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do u think that i should kiss my bf or wait until he kisses me? I am very lost but what should i do?

PLEASE HELP

oh doll, if you're ready go for itt. i'm sure your boyfriend would be happy to see you aren't scared to make a first move. &there's nothing to be lost about, just have fun. ;)♥

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so i've been reading thru these questions and answring here and there, but then i finally realized that i need advice myself. ill rate you pretty high if you even read this twisted story...

me and my ex boyfriend had been going out for almost 3 months when he suddenly broke things off with me. pWe were good friends before we actually were going out...] When we were going out we were compeely comfortable with eachother, and when we first started going out there was no "comfort stage" as some people call it where we were awkward like new lovers. We live thru the woods from eachother so it was the perfect set up, whenever we needed eachother we could just meet halfway and we'd be together [weboth hate the phone].

however, the friday before he broke up with me, he told me hed call me[this was in school] and wed hang out with "the crew" [all of our mutal friends] he never called me that whole weekend and monday morning he broke up with me in a completely awkward and un like him self way. He hooked up with a friend of mine, and now he goes out with another friend of mine.

Heres the problem...i feel like i am over him, but i still find myself thinkin about him quite often. It doesnt help that i'm still sort of friends with our "mutal friends" who have drifted ever since we broke up, but my friend goesout with him!. i'm okay with that, or at least i think i am, but every once and a while ill have some outrageous dream that we get back together in the end and nothing changed, he loved me all along and the whole break up was stupid.

somebody please help i dont know what to do about my mixed feelings...as much as i want him back, i honestly dont want the dirtbag. i've had a hook up since them...with antoher dirtbag who is also my friend...it didnt mean much, i was smashed...and now i might have feelings for that guys older brother...but i still dont kno what to do about my ex....

oh darlingg. i know exactly how you feel. i'm preeetty much going through the same thing right now. what you have to do, is have a big girls night out, have a date with ben &jerry's, watch the notebook &just relax. what i did, was i deleted or threw away anything that reminded me of him. because it's like, you can't get over him, but he's the biggest asshole ever. focus on other guys, just flirt your brains outt. normally, that helps me and kind of lets me forget about him. &while your at it, listen to really happy musicc. this guy wasn't worth your time, and he's sounds like he's gonna go from girl to girl. and doll, you're better than that. i hope i helped, if you need anything else, leave one in my inbox. ♥___ntkkk

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