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what happens...when yu want a boyfrend but no one seems to like yu? i need help
what can i do? (link)
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It's not that no one likes you. Trust me I feel the same way at times. But you just have to hang in there until your guy comes around. Stay confident.
-Iris
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im an 18 year old male and my girlfriend has been acting very strange lately. She has been haning out with the wrong people and she is stealing and hanging out in bad places. I dont want to hurt her feelings but i want to tell her whats right and keep her safe. what should i do?
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You don't want to be a jerk and say "Don't hang out with them, they're no good for you!" Just calmly explain that she's starting to pull away from you and going the wrong way. If she loves you at all, she'll take that to heart and maybe you'll find out why she's acting that way. Hope I could help.
-Iris
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should i IM my ex-boyfriend? i've been wanting to talk/chat with him, but everytime i try to, i'm always whether scared or there's something to stop me. so, should i talk to him or not? (link)
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I don't see any major reason why not. You might be scared but you're probably going to sit there wondering if you should forever unless you just hold your breath and jump in. Try and talk to him.
-Iris
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Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\
Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore (link)
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You never know, but don't give up! I mean she just might be having trouble with something, a bad day, anything. Try asking her.
-Iris
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a guy i like asked me out. he's so shy that he actually got my friend to do it. i think that's cute though. but i'm a little old fashioned and think he should make a move on me. i said yes, but today in school we went about normally like we're just friends.
i don't want to come off too strong, but i want to get him to acknowledge that we're going out. at least say it, or hold my hand or something. i think he might be a little embarassed if i went up to him and took his hand, because he's so shy.
advice please? (link)
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Most guys are the dominant ones, they're usually holding your hand or telling all of his pals that your his girl. Once again most guys think girls that are always calling him or constantly labling him as 'hers' isn't exactly a turn on. But I'm going to be honest and say, it can get exhausting if your constantly trying to make sure he's comfortable all the time. But if you really like the guy try and soften him up a bit, show him there is no need to be shy around you.
-Iris
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Hey!
I usually don't ask these types of qusetions but this has really worried me. Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. I really like him. Me and him talk ALL THE TIME! Like last night when I went to the basketball game (he plays basketball yay!) he was sitting were I am always at with my friends. (my friends boyfriend is his friend). And anyway. One of my 'so' called friends said "Yeah we know who she likes. She likes Kody!" and he looks back at me and started smiling. My face turned blood red. Theres like some days we dont talk that much and some days we talk alot. He always jokes with me and my friend. I asked him today if he was mad at me and he said no. Soo whats going on? Rate all 5's! (link)
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Sounds like someone really likes you :) I don't see the problem whatsoever. If he's acting like he is and you really like him, then why not give it another go?
-Iris
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hi..ok i like this kid and he is really cool and hes in my classes and we talk all the time and we flirt ALL the time too...but the only thing is that he has a girlfriend..now i dont know what to do, do i flirt back when he flirts with me, or stay away? (link)
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First of all, there is nothing wrong with flirting :)Just make sure you don't get to caught up in it all. What I mean is, ifyou come on to strong then he'll think you're seriously interested. Then comes all the girlfriend problems and trust me its a headache. Anyway back to my first statement...nothing wrong with a litte flirting.
-Isis
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Is it possible to find the "one" when you're only 14? I have been thinking about this alot. I have this boyfriend, he is the best guy in the world. He doens't pressure me to do anything. We have been dating for 3 weeks and he hasn't pressured me to do anything. Just yesterday it took him the whole football game to put his arm around me, and it wasn't even fully. He hasn't even kissed me yet. Personally, I love this. I don't like feeling pressured. He texts me and or calls me everyday. I like him so much. I don't know if I love him though. But that isn't really my question. My question is, should I be looking for "the one" right now? I know it is a really small chance that I will find the one so early. I am only a freshman and I can see this relationship is going to last a long time, but the next 3 years of high school? Is it possible that we can stay together for the next 3 years? (link)
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Now some people will tell you that it doesn't work like this ever, but they're wrong. Someone I know was completely head over heals for this guy at the age of 15. Of course it wasn't always sunshine and daisies but they got through it. It's funny because they're both teachers at my school now and they're married! Technically 'The One' can come at any age, but just because you seemed to have found 'The One' right now. Doesn't mean you aren't going to be 'The One' for somebody else in the long run. Keep your knight in shining armor as long as you can is my opinion.
-Iris
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