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How do I let a guy know I want to kiss him? What kind of signs should I give him? And how do I approach this whole thing? Please give me any other advice or suggestions because im going for my first kiss soon!

You could look him in the eyes, and he should get the point of that. There's always trust or dare, spin the bottle, and so on.. you know? Or tell him you need to talk to him in private, and when he comes over or something and he asks why you needed to talk to him, kiss him, see what he says, and if he doesnt then just say "about that.." and yeah.. it happened, or you theres the movies, good nights kisses when hes bringing you home or something.. you get the picture? I hope I helped you hon.
-Good Luck

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Okay well you see I like this guy. Lets call him D. And everyone says he likes me. But this weekend I'm suppose to go over to a friends house and be with this other guy who I'm just friends with. But Taylor, my friend, said that the guy I'm going to be with for the night said he'll go as far as I let him. And everyone who's coming wants me to kiss him. But it'd be my first kiss, and I don't want to waste it on someone i don't like. But then if I don't kiss him he might think I'm prude. But I'm not. But I really like the other guy and I only like the other guy as a friend. What should I do? Please someoen get back to me by Saturday!!!

Dear Boy Troubles,
I think that you should ask 'D' out, or have a friend ask him out for you. And on Saturday when you're at Taylor's house I think you should just tell the other boy that "you don't like him that way and you don't want to kiss him because you really like this other guy." and a first kiss really is a big deal. It's one of the best memories ever to be cherished! I mean seriously when you get your first kissed you're going to be flowing with different emotions - some will be good and some of them will make you think if you did it right or not but trust me you seriously can't kiss wrong when it comes to lip kissing. and before you guys kiss then you'll be nervous, excited, scared, and happy all at the same time. But once it's down you'll be so greatful that it happened to you. I hope I helped you!!
-Good luck =)

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I have a b\f and hes great! But it's been bugging me because hes so short... i no thats going to change and all but still.. it's draving me insane!And to add on to the...we have a dance next wekk and i reall want to dance with him but i think it will be werd because of this difference between us.

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Aww - over half of my boyfriends are shorter than me so no need to feel like the only person who has a shorter boyfriend! I don't think it should bug you, he'll grow sooner or later - just guys hit puberty or their "growth spurt" after girls do so that's why girls are always so tall before the guys. But it deffinitely shouldn't bug you about him being shorter! You should just dance with him and have fun! and as long as you're having fun with him then everything's perfect (well near perfect lol) but I think you should just enjoy what you have now and don't be bugged by the height difference because he deffinitely can't help that! And by the way incase you didn't notice most people who have a height difference(not a HUGE height difference but a little/medium height difference) they're normally really cute together!
-Hope I helped you =)

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i know this sounds so mean, but really have to dump him. i dont no how to break it to him. we've been going out since may of this year. he told me that he kissed a girl at school, but he told me that he was drunk or something. i dont beleive him, becuase he is 12, 1 year yoiunger than me, and peopledont get drunk in my school. now he likes this girl diana, and he made out w/ her yesterday...i really like him... he is my first bf, and the 1st guy i kissed, hugged, held...ect. so he is going to call me in an hour to find out from me whether it is okay to have 2 girlfreinds. i am going to say no... but i just cant. i am sorta shy, and cant be mad at or mean at anyone for long. how should i tell him?
please help me, i know that you hate these type of questions, but plz try...
-thanks
-confused

It's not really mean if you ask me - you deserve to be mean to that kid. He says he got drunk but yet he's going to call to see if 2 girlfriends will be alright with you. what kind of boyfriend is that? I mean seriously you don't tell your girlfriend you were drunk when you kissed another girl at school - then want to call her up to go out with another girl the same time you are going out with him. I think you should just say "I don't really think I can handle this anymore. I really like you, but you obviously don't feel the same about me, and that's okay. I can't make you like me back. I just think that you should choose Diana, because things aren't working out very well if you're going to go kissing and making out with other girls. I'm sorry but it's over." and then wait for him to respond, and if he doesn't respond just say that you have to go and hang up.
-Good luck, hope I helped ya out =)

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OK well, it's abit silly but I kissed my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago and was kinda' surprised when he went straight into frenching! It was my first time kissing properly so I was just expecting a lip kiss or whatever, but he kinda slipped his tongue in somehow... and I was like... ah no? I didn't really want to go that far + it kinda grossed me out! so I sort of pulled away... He said he was okay with waiting until I'm more comfortable kissing him, but I would just rather stick to lip kissing for now! How should I deal with this? I'm not sure how to phrase it right... It was his first time kissing aswell... any help muchly appreciated!

Let me get this straight-it was his first time kissing and yet he already wanted to french? Wow-either he was really horny that night or he just wanted to try it out? Sorry decided to get that out of the way first. Okay anyways I think that you should tell him that "It's your first time and you want to get used to just real kissing, without any tounge. Just lip kiss." and if he really likes you then he'll wait and say that it's fine with him. Plus I'm sure it kinda grossed you out. Even my first french kiss was gross. But once you're ready for that you can tell him and if he says he's ready then invite him over or something and try it out, and if you decided that you're still not ready, then just keep deciding. It can take quite some time for you to be ready for frenching. Also - I think you should just wait until you're ready then tell him and try it out, just at first don't try it out when you have friends over or he does, sometimes you can get embarrassed or it can make you nervous-so make sure it's just you and him when you try it for the first time.
-Good luck and I hope I helped =)

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i am 15 and never liked someone as much as i like "4" ( we will pretend thats his name* He was my first boy that i fell head of heels in love with. We hooked up and sadly he was the first person ive ever done anything with. and he knew that and made that night i spent with him one of the best in my life. i went to the spring dance with him, i had a great time and so did he!BUT here comes the problem, hes next door neighbor is in love with him....and shes was getting pissed at me because i was with him at the dance and ya i think they hooked up this past weekend. i never really had him but i thought i was close and i dont want him to go. another problem is he is 18 and heading off for the whole summer and then he wil be gone in the fall for college. i really dont know what to do,im sick of beeing confused can u please help me :(

wow - you really care about him. first off, it's not sad that he was the first guy you've ever done stuff with-there's gals out there who's maybe in there 30's who haven't done stuff with guys yet - so don't fret *lol* - anyways i think that you should ask him if anything happened between him and the "girl next door" because if something did happen then he's obviously not getting what he wants from you or he lost interest - sorry if that was mean but sometimes the truth hurts hun(trust me i know =\) but if he said nothing happened - you should trust what he says. about him going to college - you shouldn't be too sad about that. he's going away to get an education which equals a job for when he gets older. you can always keep in touch with letters, fax, email, IM, or phone calls - also he should be able to get the holidays maybe weekends off every now and then to come and visit you, but if you stop talking and he stops coming to see you very slowly - either he's getting tired of being tied up - or he's with someone new(sorry to tell you hun - dont worry though it happens to a lot of people)
-hope for the best for you!!
-good luck hun =)

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