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My name is Stephane-Lane. I'm 15 years old and I study creative writing at Interlochen Arts Academy. I've been through pretty much everything and gotten through it all. I'll answer all questions to the best of my ability and offer insightful, helpful and honest advice.
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I just found out that the guy i like is friends with my worst enemy, whom is really very rude to me, and now Im afraid to talk to him. What should i do?
Do you already know him well? If so, tell him that you don't feel comfortable around this friend of his. If not, then I would suggest talking to him in a private setting or in a setting with mutual aquiantences so you feel more comfortable.
I can't seem to get a boyfriend. I am fat but im a good friend. Im also trying to lose weight. I have only had two boyfriends in my life, one in second grade, and my last boyfriend lived in Virginia (I live in Missouri) and he didn't know what I looked like. I think im desent looking aside from my weight. I don't have really that many guy friends eaither. I was hoping someone could give me tips on how to get a guy.
~*~Britt~*~
I don't think you should worry so much about the way you look. You want a guy who likes you for the way you are. You shouldn't have to change yourself to appease others -- that's not to say that if you want to lose weight you shouldn't, I just think that you shouldn't be doing it to get a boyfriend. I'm overweight but I've dated plenty of guys in the past, all of whom have been attracted to me for my intelligence and self-confidence, as well as the way I look. Relationships should be more than skin deep!
Well I am 14 years old and in 9th grade of high school. I have this really cool girlfriend who goes to a different school and we have been going out for 4 months. I also have this girl who's my best friend who I've started to like too. I can also hint that she likes me and I've been thinking about possibly asking her out. I mean, I love my girlfriend but i don't know what i should do. I know it isn't fair to like someone else while you're going out with someone so I wanted to know what you guys thought.
Thanks,
Confused
Often times when you're in a relationship with the same person for a long time, you start to notice your attraction to other people more. Attraction will always occur, regardless if whether your in a relationship or not, and regardless of how you feel about anyone else. However if you think too much of this attraction you'll start to consider the possibility of having a relationship with this person, even though you already have a great girlfriend.
I think you should just ignore your feelings for her, especially since they're not very strong and since you're already in a healthy relationship. If things start to get more intense, I would suggest just taking a break from relationships all together to figure things out.
i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now.but today was weird cause i got something on my shirt and he wanted me to take it off. and then he put his hand almost all the way up my shirt. what does this mean?! he did that so i pulled on his boxes and i think he liked it. this is definitely flirting i know it!
This is WAY more than flirting, honey. This guy needs to have his priorities in check. He won't go out with you because he thinks that a girlfriend will distract him from school, but somehow thinks that hooking up won't? You're starting to become emotionally involved with this guy so talk to him about this stuff, otherwise you might end up experiencing a lot of pain.
what does it mean when a guy says "he can't have a gf right now?" is that a way to let the girl down easy or is it the truth?!
In most cases it's the truth, unless you see him with some other girl a few days later. I've avoided plenty of relationships in the past because I wasn't ready and I'm glad.