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My crush just got on Facebook but Im scared to talk to him. What should I do??? I need an answer before he gets off. Hurry!!! (link)
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dont be a fucking pussy,just talk to him in REAL life :)
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Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl. This guy and I have dated on and off for the last 9 months. We hang out and stuff but I feel like he'd rather play football with his friends. We just started dating again today and I want it to be different this time. Not me always making the plans and chasing him. I want him to be crazy about me, how can I do so? (link)
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dude just be your fucking self and chill :)
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I'm 13/F. I really like this guy, and I'm pretty sure he likes me back but the problem is this: everyone keeps telling me he is a total jerk. My best friend said she used to live near him, and one day he was riding on his bike past her house, and decided to pay her a visit. And by pay her a visit I mean, he got into this huge argument with her dad on purpose, and called her family some names that I don't feel comfortable repeating on here...
Another girl in my class used to go to school with him, and said he told her mom to 'go f**k herself'.
Yet another girl in my class, said she also knew him, and he stole her bike. (I'm guessing that was just the start of everything, because I think that was before everything else I just mentioned.)
But... He just seems so nice. I mean not like, overly nice, maybe just as nice as the average person. The point is, he doesn't seem like the kind of person that would do any of that.
I'm almost positive he likes me back. This is probably going to sound like I was eavesdropping, but I swear, I wasn't. My teacher had gone to ask another teacher about something, so everyone was talking to friends. The guy I like's desk is behind mine, and I had just gotten back from the bathroom, so I don't think he realized I was there. Anyway, I heard him talking to his friend about how he likes someone. I didn't catch the name, but I almost knew it wasn't me at the time. Then later, I caught him staring at me. But I thought he had to be staring at the girl next to me, as almost every single guy In my class likes her. He talked to me about twice that day, which is weird, because the only person that really talks to me is my best friend, and the only people he seems to talk to are pretty much always guys.
But anyway, later, I overheard (again, I swear I wasn't eavesdropping) a few girls talking about who likes who when they said something about who my crush likes, and I realized, the girl I thought he was staring at was with them, so it couldn't have been her. Again, I didn't hear who he actually liked so I can't be sure it was me. But I thought maybe, just maybe... He might like me.
Wow, that was long. I probably sound like the stupid, boy-obsessed pre-teen thirteen year olds are stereotyped to be, but I don't usually sound like this... I just really like this guy. Anyway, I was just wondering, do you think I should give him a chance, or just abandon all thoughts of asking him out?
P.S- please don't tell me I'm too young to date either... If I ever gathered the courage to ask him out and he said yes, it would be my first boyfriend, but I think I'm mature enough, my
parents think it's okay, and I'm fully aware that I could get hurt.
Thanks in advance!
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i didnt read the whole thing,but about the guy(the "jerk") if you like him and he likes you dont give a fuck about what others say,go out and if he really is an ass just tell him to fuck off :) simple as that
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hi 13 f gay or bi yes im sure.....theres a girl i think about a lot.shes so nice and in my class.shes wonderful but very straight.i have a lot of dreams about her and us,what should i do shell never like me.i like girls and many people dont know just close friends ive been like this scince early childhood should i tell hervi like her
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u never know...she might like girls as well,just go and talk to her :)
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Is it weird that I really don't like going on dates? I don't like a guy to try really hard to make me feel special by holding the door, telling me I'm beautiful, etc. but most girls do. To me that's really cheesy and fake.
I'm an interesting and down to earth person and I've had feelings in the past for guys I see all the time, who are in my friend circle. I really want to form a natural friendship with a guy, and hang out with him with other friends first and then when we start to like each other we hang out one-on-one. I want to have the desire to hang out with someone because I really know him and like him as a person. In other words, I feel like it can't START romantically for me to feel "right" and "natural" and "comfortable" about it. Ughh dates are so stupid.
All of the dates I've been on have been with guys that I just met and the first time we're hanging out is one-on-one on a date. Date means more than friends. Guys usually expect at least some kissing and cuddling by the 2nd or 3rd date and I can't feel comfortable doing these things with someone I feel uncomfortable with! Even just spending hours trying to entertain and socialize with this person makes me feel uncomfortable.
I feel like we need to be FRIENDS first and THEN more than friends. For me, forming meaningful friendships takes lots of time. And this is an issue because there aren't that many guys in my friend circle.
I've been VERY sexually attracted to FRIENDS I've had feelings for, but not guys I barely know and have hung out with twice (unless he's really hot). I don't know how so many girls find their boyfriends with skipping that important friendship step. I want to start out with a genuine friendship and then let it blossom.
I don't NEED a relationship right now, but of course I have natural girl desires, much of them strong physical desires, so how do I get this to stop bothering me?
I'm also 21 and very, very inexperienced. Am I closed-minded? Do I need to make myself uncomfortable and do things that are unnatural for the sake of "putting myself out there?"All I keep hearing is that I need to "put myself out there" but at the same time to not "do things that make me feel uncomfortable." Well, dates and kissing with distant aquaintances make me uncomfortable. So, which way to I go? (link)
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all the romantic things you think are cheesy,well they are just bullshit.the friends stuff i agree,ive had a thing for all of my guy friends,feeling uncomfortable o. dates,probably because its not the right person,but even if hes cool sitting in some restaurant or something isnt that good for a first date,go to a park or something,its much better,somehow makes you feel not so uncomfortable,you seem loke a very cool person to me,ull find someone :)
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I asked out this guy at school today and he said yes. The problem is, we don't have anywhere to go. We are both 16 and he can drive. Any ideas? (link)
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dinner's boring and on a movie you cant talk,so do something outside,even going to a park can be awsome.really depends with what type of people you are,but if theyre cool the place doesnt really matter :)
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