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i went out wiht this kid for ova a year and he cheated on me 8 times. i have a huge issue with trusting poeple becuz i am constantly afraid of gettin hurt. . i am way over him now, but i like my bestfriend =( he went out with my bestfriend[a girl] and she still likes him too. But, a few weeks ago i met this guy, he is truely amazing. he is everythin i need from a guy, he is sweet, romantic, trusting and he cares about me. now i have a big problem with trust and so does he bc he has also been hurt in the past. should i give up on my best guy friend and let my best girl friend have him, [bc i dont wanna fight wiht her] or should i go for the new guy? Help please!! (link)
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one quote i've heard and i really like is "never let past relationships ruin future ones"...i'd go for this new guy..since you both are afraid to commit and trust eachother...both of you know what it's like to get hurt..so you guys wouldnt hurt eachother...that's just my opinion..hope it helped =)
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ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want?? (link)
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If I were in your situation, I would tell her. I've done that before and I always somehow felt guilty for it, but after I told my friend she wasn't mad at all. I totally stressed over nothing! She just told me that she didn't want it getting in between our friendship b/c I'm with her brother and it never did. We're still cool and she doesn't care that I'm with her brother :)
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