Hey everyone, my name is Taylor. i am orginally from texas but now i live in wisconsin. i am 14 years old- and i am willing to help people with their problems. i have been through a lot of friend & boy problems, and im here to give you tips & guidelines in tough situations. i am a cheerleader & i play soccer & softball & volleyball. Please don't be afraid to ask me a question, im willing to help.
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My boy friend andi i have been going out for a little over a month now and i dont think we are quit on the same page i mean he s a complete punk and he is bbie polar im just kinda a different of personalities i want to be punk because i could just be my self and not worry what other people think but i dont want him to think imm turning punk to copie him what do i do? (link)
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Hey-- For starters, do you want you want to do. Tell him how you feel about being punk. Asure him that you are not doing it to copy him, but to just be yourself- {inside & out}. If he still think you are just copying him, then he is not worth it at all. No one should stop you from becoming who you really are. He should be supportive. Well i hope i helped!
xox Tay
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Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
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Hey Soulsista-- well for starters personally i don't think elementary school *dating* really counts as a relationship or dating. because you really don't know what it means to date or be a boyfriend/girlfriend. She should stay single for now, since she is just starting junior high, and if she meets a boy that interests you take it slow. First, she should talk to him like a regular guy friend. then start flirting a lil bit each day, {don't flirt a lot in the beginning, that could be a turn-down}. I hope everything i helped out your friend! if you have any other questions feel free to ask me!
xox tay
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in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named *j*, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i would never ever go out with him again. well soon enough, in 8th grade, i gave him another chance, i thought he would change-- but he didn't. we went out for about 3-4 months. i was at my neighbor's house, and i found out he liked this girl behind my back. i found this conversation at his house, and it was all this perverted crap with her. i was furious. so of course we broke up-- again. this time was different, we didn't talk for about 3 months. then slowly we started becoming friends again, and 5 more months after that we got closer and i kissed him. and we also cuddled a lot. all my feelings started rushing back. i mean he was the first guy i ever liked, and cared about. a few days later he asked me out-- and i had the guts to say no. it hurt me so bad, because i liked him soo much, but i couldn't stand getting another heart break. that night i found out he started telling people he liked my best friend. my bestfriend & i both knew that he was just trying to get revenge on me because i turned him down. and later we found out that it was all just an act. he was mad at me for awhile, and i didn't blame him for being mad because i would be too. and then we became close friends again, and just recently we have became friends with benefits. he likes this other girl(lets call her *A*). and me too. but A would never go out with him. but now i regret saying no to him, because he is telling people that he will never ask me out again because i rejected him. but i really do like him, im just scared to get hurt again. do you think i should just forget him-- cuz highschool is next year(remember i have to see him everyday of summer because he is my neighbor and friends with my brother). should i give him one last chance? i really need your opinion on this. i have been confused for years, and i just can't seem to let him go. do you have any tips? anything would help at this point.
-confused (link)
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I would personally just see how things go. Summer is coming up, and you will see plenty of him. See if your feelings for him are true, or maybe it is really just a strong friendship. Highschool is right around the corner, and there will be plenty or more guys. Im not saying just forget about him, but he isn't the only guy for you. Just keep an open mind-- anything can happen. i wish you the best of luck-- and keep me updated and let me know what happens.
xoxo
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