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i would like to know what guys look 4 in a girl.be truthfull!!!
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Well some guys just like hott people some guys like sincere ppl who are thereselves.The best advice for you is not to change yourself and if they dont like it to bad for them


Ok so im trying to work things out with my bf. we have been together almost 2 years and i am now pregnant even though i was told i couldnt have kids. We have set a date for marriage but there is a problem. He will not save any money and we are stuck renting a basement apartment at a friends house and im not bringing a baby into a basement. So, i suggested that we move down south with family where we could afford the cost of living. He refuses because all of his friends are here. So since he doesnt want to come with me, should i just leave him and go by myself??? I have no family or friends here and both of our families are down south. I think he is being selfish to want me and our baby to stay in a basement just because of his friends. (link)
ok me dear he is being very rude if he loves you and wants the baby to grow up in an environment were it wont be in hospital hooked up to respirators ebcause it devolpped asthma from the mildeau he should move down south. There is no way you are being is elfish and you should move down there with or without him. You are endangering yourslef and the baby by living in that kind of place and he isnt doing much good for himself either. He is being very selfish. If he loves you when he sees your serious that you'll move he'll pack up and go with you.


i think i like a gay guy. i would ask him out if only he wasn't gay. hes cute but wears the same tight jeans that look like he got them out of the womens department everyday. i have no idea why he would wear that in the summer anyway. also with that outfit, he would wear a black shirt, black sneakers, volcom cap, and checkered belt. also only on one day he wore a different outfit. it was a marun (however you spell it, and if u don't no what i put, its that dark red and purplish color) shirt, plaid shorts, same belt and hat, and green sneakers. it looks like he took a pair of shorts out of my dad's closet. i don't know if hes gay or if he just doesn't have style. what do u think? and also i would like him if he wasn't "gay" and had better style. what should i do? thanks-♥ (link)
Okay well he may not be gay!
I am gay and well I dress like every normal guy, so you can't judge by clothes, the only way to find out if he is is to talk with him, flirt and see if he flirts back if so ask him out, although he may be gay theres a chance he may be bi.


Ok, my boyfriend is BI. I really like him and stuff like that. We haven't been dating long, and people are already making jokes about me, him, and his sexuality. I'm getting sick of it. And I need advise other than, ignore them. Because no offense, but it dosen't work. Thanks in advance. :] (link)
Okay some of you are a bit mean there. Just because hes bi doesnt mean he'll cheat or anything. And about the comments try not to let them bother you, if you guys love each other who cares what others think and once they relize you don't care they'l stop


i get jealous of all the girls my boyfriend talks to... how do i keep myself from feeling bad. (link)
It's good that your jelous its a healthy emotion it shows when you care about someone. But hes going out with You not Them. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about it or its going to keep happening and getting worse.


16/f
how can i get over or not get so sad/jealous over this guy that im really starting to like and i cant help it but has a girlfriend?!...we flirt nonstop and all this stuff but we are "best friends" as we say haha. i know ive fallen for him but i get so sad when he talks about his girlfriend and when he says he is gonna go hangout with her. i know its his girlfriend and obviously he is gonna do that stuff but i always forget that he has one because whenever we hangout we flirt so much like touchy/sexual but never kissed or really came close and everything and it feels like he is MY boyfriend. its hard not to talk to him or try not to be around him so much because its my cousins neighbor and my boy cousin is his good friend so he is over at their house like everyday and so am i! my other cousin is my best friend thats why i am over there so much and i dont have many other friends i hangout with and all i can think about is this kid..and hes not even mine..
ahh what do i do?

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Theres nothign you can really do. It might help to talk with him about how you feel about him, tell him how you feel about whats going on, and ask him to try not to talk to to much about his girlfriend. ♥


I was at my friend lillys house for her 15th birthday with a few other people. Everything was great we were doing manicures and making prank calls. But then it got really late and everyone got a sugar rush and were bouncing off the walls it was crazy! Well I was sitting on top of Lillys dresser next to her cousin Jenna and all of the sudden Jenna started rubbing my feet and telling me how soft my skin was....it really weirded me out. Everyone laughed like it was a joke...but it didnt seem like a joke to her. She looked kinda like my boyfriend does right after we make out. Should I be weirded out by this? I'm going to her house again on tuesday and her cousin will be there, and I'm kinda scared...should I be? Hellllp! (link)
Don't be scared. She was probubly joking around. But if it happens again you should tell her to stop, that you feel unfortable and that you would like her to stop.




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