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Q: so there's this guy...
i never met him before, but my friend was like in love with him (but i didnt know at the time that she liked him at all, so dont think i'm some sort of back stabbing bitch!) so she wanted me to meet him
and we went to the movies
and we kinda um. hooked up...

and i like him now
but i dont really know him
and he keeps calling/IMing me, but i feel SOOOO bad
and we havent told her yet

should we?
i dont think we should, but i feel SOOOO BAADDDD i mean like, she's been my best friend foreverr

yeah its sucks
help please!

first off you shouldnt have hooked up with him in the first place but you did and you cant take it back. i think you should break it off with this guy cause you dont even know him, and its not fair to your friend. then you should tell her what you did but say its over..
hope i helped
-erica

Q: Okay so Iv'e had a girlfriend. We broke up. I was fine accepted it its okay. Then i asked out antoerh person. She said yes. It was a good relations ship. It ended 3 weeks ago. Now i just don't know whats going on. I was fine but like now it hurts. All i can do is think baout her. I look at her and everything. I tlak to her. Can you give me some advice to get over her?
Thx
--Single :(

single..
hmm thats a tuffy. well what ive always thought is if you cant get someone out of your head maybe they are supposed to be there? have you been having these feelings for a while. maybe you need to see if she still likes you. and if not then just try to hang out more with your guy friends .. try to get girls out of your head. also if you are just thinking about this girl then you may be missing another girl. see if you notice any other girlss if not go to your guy friends..

hope i helped `xox`

Q: im a guy 15yrs old yes im gay i need your advice. i like this guy well actually i think i love him and im not shore if hes gay or not. now my question is should i ask him and take a risk of him hating me. its not like hes like straight every one thinks hes gay so theres a strong possibility he is. my only fear is that i will ask him and he would say get the fuck away from me and hate me 4 ever and that would crush me. n e imput would b realy helpful.

thnx much

well i would get to know a little more and then when you feel comfortable about it tell him your gay and if he is, ask him out and it will be good because then you already have a strong relationship. also if your still not sure what to do, i was in the libary one day and i just grabbed a book and its called ive known since i was eight and it talks about a girl around your age and how shes gay. i would read if i were you.

Q: i need a girl
lol
im single
and i like 2 girls 1 of them like me but to make sum1 else feel good i told them i liked them(i realle dont) and said they would ask me out n shes my friend but i wanna ask the other 1 out
hit me up wiht your advice

CmPuTrGeEk53092

heyy..
you should probably tell the girl you told you liked (but dont) that you dont really like her so she wont make a fool of herself! and the other one you should just ask out. even if it does hurt the other one you can always work things out but you should deff ask the other girl out.

hope i helped `xox`

Q: you know that guy... the one that you can never get out of your head? the one that can be a total bitch to you and you'll stay up all night worrying that you did something wrong, only to find out the next day that it meant absolutly nothing and you feel like such an idiot and you want sooo badly to hate him... but for some reason it just makes you love him even more??

yeah that guy.
well... i know a guy like that...
i saw him a few weeks ago. for the first time in a whilee... and it was like we never broke up... yet two weeks later he gives me a call and is like... hey. i have a girlfriend and my whole life just goes spinning down the toilet like used toilet paper. why do guys do that to you? they dont seem to care, but you know [or in my case just sort of sit there and PRAY] that somehow they feel the same way.

i dunno
i guess my question is what do you do when your mr. right is hundreds of miles away and has a girlfriend? what do you do when you just CANT get over your ex??

ok..

i have a friend who is going through the same thing and shes not taking it well eather..at least not that i know of. the advice that i would give you and her is that this guy may or may not be the guy of your dreams but eather way you cant let him bring you down. if he would do that to you hes not worth your time. ok thats sucky advice so im gonna have an alternitive: if you REALLY think you like this guy then you need to tell him that he hurt you and that you thought he liked you the same way you like him. it may take ALOT of guts but ya gotta do something about it♥

hope i helped `xox`

Q: I stayed over my friends house one weekend and her brother is my bestfriends boyfriend. That night me and him stayed up and hung out and played around (like hittin eachother with stuff and pushin eachother of the bed) and he said 'You know what? Dont tell Cjay(my bestfriend) this but I think I'm starting to like you. I didn't like him before he said that and I started to like him.And they are the type of couple that break up everynight and get back together sooner or later, and this was a night they broke up.Then we stayed up all night watching movies and playing around and holding hands and stuff, nothing bad. But Cjay found out and she told me to stay away from her for however long. Her b.f told me that he ment that he liked me, and not to worry b/c he'll fix everything. I don't want my best friend to hate me, but I like her b.f....Idk wat to do....

i say chix over dix but that doesnt always work out..if you really like this guy then you should do something about it.its your friends fault for not having a stable enough relationship with this guy if she really did like him. she gave him a chance to like someone else it just happend to be you. if you guys are really good friends youll get over it but you should talk to her.

i hope this helped `xox`

Q: how do you get guys to like you?

well..there are more ways to get guys attention then dressing slutty or stuff like that...you should just be you and dont act weird around them. what guys want the most i think is the real you and to feel comfortable around you. go up to someone that youve been wanting to talk to and just talk to them. they'll think thats cool and talk to you back. if they dont they are stupid and not worth your time. so just be yourself and have funnn

hope this helps xox

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Heyy everyone my name is erica. i got this site from my friend lena so if i dont fully answer your question you can go to her.

i love my camp.. ramah palmer! it is the most amazing this ever. i have many friends and they are all the best! i like house, greys anatomy, and one tree hill. im pretty outgoing and spring is my favorite season. i also love playing field hockey. its my sport and we wear skirts, got a problem? yeahh random stuff...

hope i help you out `xox`