Hey! The name's Claire.. I'm a fun-lovin type of girl who luvs giving advice. I can talk about pretty much anything, so just ask!
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My friend is having a pool party in a couple of days and my crush is gonna be there! What are some tihngs i could do to make him like me more, question for the guys- whta would u want a girl to do for u too liek thme, anytihng i could wear or do?
THnaks!!
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Make sure, no matter what you were, that you act very confident in yourself!! My guy friends have told me that they luv that in a girl. Try to get a flattering swimsuit, solid, bright colors usually attract guys the most! And wear cute, non-rusting jewelry around your ankles, which is also a turn-on for guys. Try to wet your hair before and use hairspray to make it look tousled and cute. Overall, just talk to him a lot, and don't be afraid to try anything new!! xox
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I go out alot and when I do I tend to hook up with guy friends or friends of friends, casually. I've realized that I have never not felt bad or guilty at some point about any of my hook ups.
I may not feel bad about all of them now but I've definetly felt bad at somepoint. I even feel bad about hook ups I've had with boyfriends.
I don't know what to do about this.I don't feel slutty, because I know I'm not, but I do feel badly.
Should I stop hooking up with people? Try as I might that's never too easy for me. What do I do? (link)
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Hmmm.... I'm pretty green myself, so I don't really know what that type of guilt feels like, but I do know what guilt itself is like. I'm sorry about the regret you may have, and although it may be hard, I think you should try to cut back on the amount of hook-ups you have. You may not be able to do it all at once, but the less you do it, the better. Soon you might even be able to have only sexual sort of relationships with just long-term boyfriends! Don't limit yourself from having a good time though. Keep partyin hard, just try not to give in to those types of people!! xox
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so me and my boyfriend have been broken up for about amonth we talk sometimes i mean we are still friends and we do talk n all that but the reason we broke up was to giv ehim space n stuff n so thats what im tryign to do just kinda let hi mcome to me if he wants to talk uk.. well theres this other guy a year older than me totaly diff grade and he is in love with me he drives me anywheres i want to go but liek when i hang out with him its just not there all i can think of is my old boyfriend and dont wanna boyfriend for the summer unless its my old boyfriend but i dont think this new older boy gets it he just always wants to hang out and always be with me and ya sure ill hang out and hes a great guy hes like perfect everythign a girl would want n i wanna like him but something just wont let me and idk what it is.. HELLPPP (link)
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Awww, hey sweetie! Hmmm, even though a guy may seem perfect, there's always gonna be the guy who's perfect for YOU. (sounds cliche, I must admit) But just hang in there, and tell the older guy exactly how you feel -- make sure he knows that you`re still trying to get over your old boyfriend and that you don`t really want a relationship right now. Let him know that you luv him as a brother though and you would really like hanging out with him a lot this summer!! Who knows, you might even get over your old boyfriend and start liking this guy! Just like whatever happens happen ; I hope it all works out for you!
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I'm going to sleepaway camp in about a week and I really want to maybe get a boyfriend there because when you go to camp you practically start over and can be whoever you want to be without the pressures of school. I've never had a boyfriend and I was wondering how I should flirt at the socials/dances. Also, how do you let boys know you exist and you WANT a relationship? Some just want to be friends.
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Heyy! I know exactly how you feel -- I luv getting a fresh new start where no one knows you yet!! Make sure that the SECOND you get there, you don't give off the impression of being reserved or anything. Don't keep to yourself, and immediately start saying hey to people! Relax, and make sure you talk to a lot of guys ASAP. Just go up to them, make eye contact, and start talking. I don't know what kind of camp it is, but dress cute, but not too showy! Amazingly enough, guys actually DON'T want sluts as girlfriends. Make sure you flirt a lot, smile, and just be outgoing! Don't be embarrassed to dance because guys luv girls who know how to have a good time. Hope ya have fun!!
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my gf Sandy and I are close..in her point of veiw. I dont like Sandy at all. But Sandy REALLY likes me. People want me to kiss her..but i dont want to.I just want to be friends. Besides..my friend Jack likes Sandy i think..so Jack gets mad at me. and if i break up with Sandy people might get mad at me. But i really want to break up with Sandy. Its hard to break up with her to.. because we talk on the phone all day and stuff. I really dont like her. (link)
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You most definitely should NOT kiss Sandy if you don't like her. I don't know if this would be your first kiss or not, but if it is, you will most likely regret it afterwards. Your first kiss should be special and shared with someone you truly love. And although it may be hard to hear, you should break up with her if you don't like her. Do it subtly though, and tell your friends that you don't want to lead her on. The longer you stay with her, the more she'll grow on you, and the more she'll like you. It's sweet that you care what she feels, but it's more important that you don't lie to her.
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i feel like im the only person my age that doesnt have a boyfriend. im 14/f and it feels like everyone around me is together. because all year this year ive heard oh my gosh my boyfriend this and oh my gosh my boyfriend that and i was lookin' around and everyone was like holding hands and stuff. i have a few friends who dont have bf's and we feel like we are the only ones.... IT SUCKS! is there anyway i can get a guys attention or should i just wait. is this a thing that everyone is just trying out? ITS SO SCARY ITS ANNOYING! and any guy that likes me is a nerdy guy! its gross...
PLEASE HELP I RATE 5'S IF YOUR ADVICE IS GOOD!
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Aww sweetie, I PROMISE you are not the only one who hasn't had a boyfriend. I'm sixteen, and I've never had one. I'm not a nerd either, a lot of my friends are guys. Maybe they just think of you as the "friend-type." If you really feel like you want a boyfriend, you should start talking to the guys more and flirting a lot. I remember when I used to like guys, all me and my friends would do was just sit there and talk about them, but nothing would happen of course. You have to get out there and show them that you're confident in yourself and that you know what you want. Don't settle for the nerdy guys, but don't reject them harshly either. Believe it or not, guys watch your every move, and they're watching to see how you turn down the nerdy guy. If you're nice to them, then they'll think you more likely to be nice to them, even if you reject them. Hope that helps!
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