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Q: okay well all of a sudden my boyfriend pocked me in the stomach n he was like chicken n im like wat the heck so please tell me what it is and how to play thanks

its something people do out of no where me and my friends do it all the time but when we poke each other was say pillsberry i dont no why do it back have fun we mostly do it when we are bored

Q: Right well this might be abit of a long one..

Theres this boy i like who is sooo lovely and sweeet and i have only known him a couple of months but we have everything in common and that!

Well a couple of weeks ago i told him i liked him through myspace and he was really ok about it and that and he said that we should talk about it when we see eachtother next

So on tuesday i went out and i see him and was hanging with him all day and he kept cuddling me and stuff

I really really like him buti have no idea if he likes me or not because im too scared to ask
My friends said that he really likes me and he smiles whenever they mention my name and he kept asking them when i was coming out and that when i was grounded and he kept talking about how ' kool' i was

The problem is , how do i find out if he likes me in a like like sort of way . Im soo scared to ask him and hes really really shy aswell

I really need help so PLEASE give advice back xxxx
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you can always have a friend ask him
or just ask him whats the deal with us

Q: ok so theres this guy one of his friends keeps asking me if he were to ask me out then would i go out w/ him soo i guess he likes me but he doesnt even talk to me we went out one time nd we barely talked i do like him but i like this other guy too nd i dk what to do i dont want to hurt his feelings but hes so shy we never talk when i really liked him he wasnt interested nd this year all of a sudden i change my look nd got more popular he likes me so i dk....his friend keeps asking me if i like him nd stuff but i never kno what to say we talk online fine but when we're at skool he doesnt talk to me he gets nervous nd quiet nd stuff help!

you need to go up to him and talk
and ih doesent talk to you
just say im looking for a communicateing
relationship

Q: my boyfrind an i like to talk on the phone alot lately cuz we're not able to see achother as often as we would like. we would talk for like 3 or 4 hours at night whil we play on the computer or watch tv. we likes to play the MMORPG daiblo 2. he owns a clan, whatever that is. he sometimes has to do something on there that would require both hands so he'd have to put down the phone. i understand that. he says that he'll be right back. but a few times he forgot that he was on the phone with me after he does that. i waited at least an hour last night but he never came back. i fell asleep with the phone on my ear waiting for him. is something wrong that he would just forget about me or am i over reacting?

you should inform him
or maybe
say like well dont put down then phone i will call you latter
and soon he will get sick of it

Q: ive liked this boy for a while and when he liked me i didnt know it and then i started liking him and he likes another gurl and ive been crying for like 20 minutes and im sure i will be all tonight and tommorow i dont know what to do i know im not gonna get over him anytime soon. what should i do?

you should just really tell they guy how you feel
it will let him no and u might feel better

Q: im a girl im 13 and in the 8th grade

i like this boy in my class he sits right next to me he shows no signs of intrest in my but i need 2 find out a sure way if he likes me or not before i start 2 crush hard and get hurt worst

luv bunny

help me plez

okay
bunny,
now listen up
this is what you do!!!!!!!
im telling you this will work
write him a note saying
okay i really like you and i just want to no if you like me but if you dont i understand

Q: Hey my name is Rachel and my bofriend jesse and i are both 17 years old and the problem is that we don't have any classes together and my mom won't let me see him after school i've talked to her about it I talk to him on the phone quite alot and the only time I ever see him is about 15 minutes at breakfast before the bell rings at school what should I do?

Just have you mom sit down and tell her your serious about this guy and maybe go to the office at your school and see if you can get your classes switched or your lunch switched

Q: 16 female-

but ok this might be kind of long but bare with me..last night two of my friends and me went to our friend TJ's house because it was his 15th birthday and his cousin david thats my age was over there and his girlfriend and this other kid jake. well at like 1030 last night david takes my phone and starts calling people and called my good friend joe. i couldnt do anything about because i didnt even know he was talking to joe or even called him until later and he told joe that i wasnt doing so good and i was getting naked and stuff even though i WASNT. but then today i get on AIM and my friend joe i/m me and is like hey blah blah and then he is like so what happened last night missy and im like ohmygosh did someone call you from my phone and hes like yeah and they were like you werent doing so good and you were like naked and all this stuff. and im like im so sorry i didnt even know he was doing that! and then he's like yeah because you were proably f'in drunk or something and im like i swear to god i wasnt! and im like what time did he call and hes like 1030..remember when you were fucking some dude? and i was like do you really think i did anything last night and he was like i dont know you tell me and im like i know i didnt do anything but i want to know if you believe me and he was like yea i beleive you! the only thing i didnt tell you was that i am kinda crushing on joe but he has a girlfriend but we flirt like crazy still! joe doesnt know at all that i like him but do you think he was saying all this stuff because he was jealous that i might of done something with a guy or because he was worried about me or just because he was mad about the whole thing? i want your opinion on this whole thing =) by the way joe knows im not a slut ive never had a boyfriend and the farthest ive gone is making out!

you have to ideas:
1.you can either tell joe you like him more than a friend.
2.or you can get him a bit jelouse and play with his mind and say like.....yea this kids been asking me out or like.....im going to a party or something play with his mind and he might say dont or i like you and then you can take it from there

Q: How can you tell if a guy is interested? What if you are shy and don't like to make the first move? Also what do guys like? Like what do they look for in girls? Lol. Thanks bunches!~!~!

Whatever you do dont tell anyone you like him espically his guyfriends because they will really tell him that you like him!!!
Guys like girls who arent big mouths and who dont lie
be honest with him

Q: Well, I really do need advice. This has been something that's been bothering me for so long.

I have a friend that is a boy, named David. I really really like him, you see. I asked him if I had any chance at all and he said 'sorry, no.' After this I was devastated but kept him as a good friend.

Lately it's so confusing as to whether he wants to be my friend or not! He is really mean at some points, and then he's really really nice. He even asked me to visit him at work, and go to his beach house with my friend, Molly.

Sometimes I like to think maybe I have a chance with him, and my friend insists that things can change. But I'm not even sure if he's my friend!

Help? Is he my friend or a soon to be something more?

P.S. We are both 14 years old.