"ive made many mistakes
but i live my life with no regrets.
yur only young once,
so be bad,
break the rules,
get caught and make it count!!".
My name is Erika. Iam 16 years old. Going to 11th grade. Though that may seem a young age to be answering advice i would like to update your thoughts on that and for you to know iam very mature and i have been through so much in these 16 years of my life. Weather it be experincing love , death , divorce , and hate. i have been through it all and more. iam here to help any one at any age. Everyone deserves a answer.
Just ask Dear.erika
per sempre.
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I have been dating someone for roughly 3 months now. Their last relationship was a very unhealthy, verbally and emotionally abusive one. My SO has decided that in order to move on in life, and our relationship, that visiting the ex to gain closure is necessary. The ex lives several hundred miles away. My SO intends on staying at the ex's apartment. I feel in general I have been really supportive, but I do have somer reservations, and am not comfortable with every aspect of this trip. In particular, do I have the right to ask my SO not to share a bed with the ex? Or is this something I should just expect (I do expect it, but should I make this expectation clear?)
thanks in advance (link)
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No you should tell your SO not to share a bed with The ex thats not what closure is. Your SO can simply meet the ex for lunch and TALK. There doesnt have to be any intimacy between the two. More than likey if Your SO spends the night with the ex some old sparks will imerge and something may happen. He can get a hotel for the night, Why do u have to stay with the ex.
Just tell your so you rather have your so to get a hotel for the night because of the fact your not comfortable with the idea of staying the night in the exs apartment.
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I had sex with my girlfriend for the 6th time today, and she bleed a little.. and she just told me that i popped her cherry and it wasn't her period. but she's used tampons and she has already had sex with another guy before me... so is it possible that i really was the first to pop her cherry?? (link)
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It is possible. Maybe the guy didnt enter all the way and you did. Or it could be the fact the her period is on its way.
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basicly theres this guy who used to like e and i rejected him, now i like him and now hes way outof my leage and we never talk.
how to get him to like me again? (its been a few years) (link)
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He might say you had your chance and you blew it ,
and maybe he is out of your leauge now because you rejected him and he wanted to be liked so he stepped up his game.
My advice for you is never give up on what you want but dont be obsessive just cashually send him a cute and silly text and go from there.
When the right time comes explain to him why you rejected him and why it was a mistake but make sure thats days away from were you began talking to him again
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so I have nooo idea what to get my boyfriend for his 19th birthday! he likes sports, he's gonna be playing pro football most likely, but idk what to get him ! :p he's such a sweetheart so I'd like to get him something meaningful I just don't know what :p any ideas? lol try and keep it under $100 :p (link)
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Since he likes sports maybe you can take him to a major leauge football game or get tickets to watch hIs favorite team in training games. You can also search on ebay for signed noveltys or such by his fav football player.
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14/f
I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. I invited him to a party on behalf of my team. He couldnt come (he tried, but got lost and had to have his mom come find him) but he invited me to hang out the next day one on one. I said he should bring some friends and we could go to the beach. He seemed really excited, but the next day he said he couldn't go because he had to work. We haven't talked since then; he's been off work for two hours. What should I do? Forget about him, text him, wait for him? (link)
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I always tell the girls if he is who you want go for it. Dont ask him personal questions and dont ask why he hasnt talked to you. Just be cute and simple. If he doesnt text back just leave it he wasnt the one for you and go on to the next cutie.
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I really dont get it but no guys like me. I understand that i am not the prettiest or skinniest girl but i think that atleast some people should be interested in me. Alot of people tell me i am beautiful but i dont get it because if i was guys would like me. I am a nice person and have a really good personality but guys always are just friends they never pursue me am i just destined to be alone for life? (link)
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No every one has a chance for love. You have to have confidence in yourself though. Be patient and if that doesnt work for you. Just let loose and go for the guy youve been wanting,You take the chance and you break the ice. If that doesnt work he wansnt the one and its just minutes untill he comes to find you.
Good luck
-dear.erika
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I went on an awesome date he he texted me after and everything. i went on vacation he told me to text him when i get back. i texted and invited him out with a bunch of my friends. he said he really wanted to go but didnt know if he could make it and we could hang out later. i said thats cool just let me know. its been four days and i havnt heard from him. what is with that? will he ever text me? should i text him? (link)
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Maybe he felt pressured to meet your friends and wanted it to be a solo hang out. Sometimes guys feel uncomfortable with other people around because it makes it harder for a connection to spark and harder to impress you.
I think you should text him and simply say
"Hey stranger :)"
Just be silly and cute with it dont ask him why he hasnt texted you or any personal questions.
Good luck
-Dear.Erika
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