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hey it's me again. sorry i keep bothering the hell out of you.
he didn't talk to me at all after we hung out last time, until today (half a week later). he was really casual and he said he was hanging out with his female friend today. and i was like, "uhm okay?" he definitely doesn't have feelings for me and he just hurts more and more because he has SO many other female friends. like he acts so chill around me yet he does things that makes me think that he likes me. in any case, do you think i should just move on or still wait around for him? should i try to make plans with him or should i just drop the whole thing? i fall for guys really easily but i can also get my ground back if i want it. he's not changing at all. he's always been & always will hit on tons of girls at once. i hate it, and it hurts. i'm asking you: keep going or give up trying? (i'll still stay friends with him) (link)
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Hey. (Your not bothering me at all f.y.i)
If you are ABSOLUTELY 100% sure he has no feelings for you and is just having a "good time" *cough* then you shouldnt try to change him, hes probably stubborn and wont change. You should just find a guy who hits on you and you only :]
If you have any other problems with ANYTHING else, you can ask me them as well.
Sincerely,
Dan.
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when i told my friend i am bisexual and that i liked her she supports me but doesnt see me in that way. the next day she text me "I HATE boys they are so annoying!! how are you?"
...okay why and what did she mean by that message? i relpy back saying i am okay and then she asked why i like her in that way....but i should've ask her what she meant by that. but what is your thought on it?? (link)
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Maybe a boy had hurt her/joked around with her and it pissed her off and she was just saying that with no thought, and your just thinking seriously, or she could be saying something regarding feelings. You should ask her.
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hey i wanted to talk to you a little further about this guy i like cause you're a guy.
well he has a lot of female friends, but a lot of them think he's annoying and they don't like him. he's sort of a wannabe-popular, yet he still has a lot of friends (at least he wants me to think that).
on a social networking site -- don't want to say which one -- he comments a lot of girls and he tells them how attractive they are & such. and we hung out pretty recently (we didn't do anything) but i really really like him. he isn't allowed to date so i'm not ever planning on tell him i like him, but he'd call me beautiful and such and i couldn't tell if he just says that to all girls or just me. and it hurt me when i saw that he was saying it to other girls.
he doesn't hang out with other girls a lot so idk i might be special in that. i'm pretty sure he thinks i'm attractive (but he thinks so of a lot of other girls) but i just wanna hook up with him. i know that's terrible but i don't want him to get in trouble if he's not allowed to date.
sometimes we talk all day about everything, and sometimes we go days without talking. we talk mostly online.
should i just wait until i get over him? i don't want to start anything, and i definitely don't want to get hurt. should i just try hanging out with him when i get a chance? should i try to, you know, make a move on him or would it make things really awkward?
i'm so sorry this is so long. i need a guy's perspective on this, and all my guyfriends have a crush on me now so i can't talk to them about it! hahaha i need youu! thank you so much! (link)
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Hello,
Okay. Now this guy is NOT allowed to date, so he knows he can hit on everyone, basicly, and not start a commited relationship. Now judging by the social-networking site accident, I think he is not understanding the emotional damage he is causing when he hits on many girls at once, as you said, you were hurt when you discovered he had said your beautiful and then turned around and said it to like 3743028754 other girls.
Actually, how do you know hes not allowed to date? He could just be saying that so he can be all "cool with the ladies " and no relationship but he just WANTS girls to like him for an ego or something.
I'm not gonna tell you "YOU NO LIKE THIS BOY NO MORE" and I'm not gonna say "TELL HIM GIRL" because judging by what I'm told this guy is very confusing. I would wait a little bit longer to see how things unfold. If anything happens again you can tell me.
From,
Dan.
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what categorizes a guy as a player, besides the fact that he's had several girlfriends / dates several girls at once? a nice bulleted list would be amazing.
i need advice because i like this guy & he might be a player. i say "might" because he hits on lots of girls but isn't allowed to date / told me he isn't interested in just hooking up with girls. he hasn't gone anywhere with any girls. he just calls them "hot" etc. (link)
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Hm.
- A "player" is technically someone who fools around with many girls at once.
- If he were do DATE many girls at once thats cheating, but may also be considered "playing".
It's pretty much a matter of opinion, so if you think he is judging on what I and what other people answer this question said, then he is.
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There are a cOuple of answers i wanna ask , but please [ guys reply Only].
- What makes a guy " want " a girl , like say your in a relationship but what would make you just " lust " or want a girl bad.
- How come guys dont care as much as girls do
- & why do yall not like to express yalls feelings like we do?
Please answer those 3 questions , thanks :)
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Hello.
First off, I would like to point out that your correct. Most guys are like statues. They dont show any emotion. I am not like that however. (yes, I am a guy, no I'm not gay) I LIKE talking, and when I ask out my crush I will talk to her alot. When a guy wants to ask out the girl and/or hook up with her, thats considered him "Wanting her". And I care alot. ALOT of guys think they should have the stereotypical guy attitude; tough, not show emotion, be all cool. Tell your guy that you dont like him when hes like that and you want him to open up to you.
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