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Hey i am 16 years old and i had this boyfriend and we were getting pretty serious but i would break up with him like everyday cause he would just do stupid stuff or ignore me sometimes in the hallways at skool...well he started to wanna do sexual stuff to eachother and he wanted to have sex and i felt so pressured so one day i ended up letting him finger me, and he just wanted more so i had a long talk with him telling him that i wanted to wait till marrige for sex..and 2 days later he broke up with me i was devistated and now he has been nothing but rude to me and the other night we were fighting and he had the nerve to ask me to wait for him over the summer after telling me that he hated me,he says that he needs time to matture and learn how to be a better b/f. well we got in another fight cause i found out he was trying to get close to some girl who is a well...whore and he got all mad and told me to forget waiting on him and i wouldn't let that happen.so he told me that i had all summer to find someone else and if not then we were gonna spend h.s together? i dont know what to think or what he wants? will you please help me i am so confused. did he just want sex? or does he really need to learn how to be matture? do i wait till summer is over and skool starts again for him? we havn't talked in over a week though...=( (link)
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He seems like he is searching for a lasting relationship but not a healthy one. It sounds like he is trying to mature into a sexual partner.If you dont want to be with him tell him because if you let him force you in a relationship then he will force you into sex.The long term relationship he wants seems to involve sex in it and if your not comfortable you need to tell him right off the back so he knows.
hope I helped.
daniknos
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my ex moved 1000 miles away almost 2 years ago. we had lost touch for a while... now we talk all the time. it's like he just popped into the picture again. I really love him... what should i do? or say? (link)
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You haven't seen or heard from him in 2 years it's normal for you to have feelings coming back all of a sudden.Just wait to find out how he feels before you say something he doesn't need to hear or you may not mean.
daniknos
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ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.
and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question (link)
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If i was in your place I would just go up to her and admitt you were wrong girls love a guy who can step back and see what they did was wrong. Just go up and ask her how she has been and continue the conversation from there. After awhile she will realize how hard you are fighten to get back in her life and things could work out for the best.
i hope my advice helps come to me when u need me
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i need to no what to do? i have a girlfriend but she says she doesnt want anyone all in her business so no one really knows we are a couple. how should i handle this situation? (link)
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tell her that no one can be in your guys buisness if you dont let them. and that you would like to make it known that your with her.
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