hi..my name is dana!....i heard about this site from a friend!...i love to give advise so i decided to get a profile!..i hope to give some great advice..and i probaly hav gone through some of the same things tht ya'll hav so i hope that my advice helps...
**DaNa**
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Location: houston texas
Occupation: school
Age: 14
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i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me (link)
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hey gurl!...ok...it seems to me that since your boyfriend isnt making you happy anymore..you really feel the need to have someone by your side...you need to make it clear to your boyfriend now that if he wants to be with you there is going to have to be some changes..:
1.no lieing
2.no going to [arties behind your back
3.no smoking and trying to hide it
ok?also tell him that if you dont see these changes soon then it is over...
as for your ex...if you and your urrent boyfriend break up then wait a few weeks to hook up with somone new...if your feel like taht person is your ex..than go with it..do wutever would make you happy!..well i hope i could help!
**DaNa**
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I like this guy whose name i will not say and he flirts with me and he has a girlfriend already. he gets annoyed by his girlfriend and says we are cute together. should i ask him out or just pass him a note (link)
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ok..if anything you definately need to wai until him and his girlfriend break up!..you dont want to become "the other girl"..that would not give oyu a good reputation!...however once him and his girlfriend break up..feel free to ask him out!..especially if ya'll flirt already!..that is a great sign!..but always waituntil they are single!..you really do not want to get yourself caught up in some "he's my boo" drama!..lol.. so yeah i hope taht this helps you!...
♥ danerox
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Alright I'm going to make this as simple as I can:
There's this white girl at my school and I really like her a lot but I don't get the feelin sometimes that she likes me but I've been leavin hints here and there letting her know how I feel about her but I think she still hasn't caught on we're both 13 I really like her and I'm black we get along but she's more of the I'm too busy into my work type and the silent type like I don't want to get in trouble in school type you know just the complicated type can u give me advice on how I can get this girl to know my true feelings besides askin her out on a date I only rate 5's so if your advice is bad you get nothin if it helped you get a 5
Thx
Signed, The Ebony Prince (link)
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i agree you should either right a letter to her expressing how you feel or you should one of both of yall's friends to tell her how you feel......well if you right a letter dont do smething dumb and write anonymous .....write your name.....and tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same well i knopw that youll do great......good luck!
**DaNa**
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ALright my ex-girlfriend still likes me appearently and i kinda like her but not as much as i used to and we NEVER see each other anymore or talk that much so it'd be a doomed realationship. But i really like a girl at my scohol but she doesn't liek em liek that anymore she sees me more as her big bro. And i don't know if i should go for the girl that doesn't like me or my ex. Becuase their friendships mean a lot to me and i don't wanna lose either oen of them or how close we are becuase i said no or i didn't take the chance and we grow apart. What should i do? (link)
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okay well i am a female and i totally know what is going on ....this has happened to me a couple friends......i agree with helpchick......i think that if your ex is a doomed relationship and you hardly see her then go for the girl at school......and if she hasnt actually told you that she doesnt like you like that then .....get a little flirty and then if she flirts back tell her that you like her and that you dont want that to freak her out or anything and then ask her if she likes you and if she does then wella .......so i think that you should go for the school girl!
i hope that you take the advice and i know that everything will be fine!
lotz_of_love_here
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Hey! okay so i like this guy named zach. he's my best guy friend's friend. I barely know him at all. He doesnt really know me.. So what do i do? (link)
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well what you should do is introduce yourself make friends,learn what he likes,not stalking though, just make friends and see where it goes from there
love/hearts
dana
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this might seem weird, but i fell in love with a guy i met online. last night we talked for like 7 or 8 hours, maybe longer. but the thing is, today i remembered that i had lied to him about something. and i felt bad so i e-mailed him and told him. he just kind of laughed it off, but then he was like "so does this mean i can go out with someone else?" so then he explains to me that this whole time he liked another girl and that he can't trust me now...yet he still "loves" me. it makes me feel awful, i told him that i was a year older than i really was. he says it doesn't bother him, but yet he's confusing me by saying he loves me but he just wants to be friends so he can go out with this girl. i guess my question is..what can i do to get his trust back? i'm really going to miss talking to him the way i used to... (link)
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first off how do you know that he isnt lying to you that happens alot these days,....and if he isnt lying what i would tell you to do is tell him that you wish that you could earn his trust back tell him how you feel .....tell him that you wish you could admit the way you truly feel and you want him to understand that you didnt mean to lie you just didnt want to be talking to some guy 5 times your age and you just want his forgivness. i hope i helped you in someway!
♥ Dane
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