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Q: My boyfriend is the cutest, smartest, sweetest boy i ever met. I was head over heels for him and told him how i feel. He said he feels the same. We were together 6 months now. Well, he just turned 18, and i am going to be 17 soon. My family disapproves because hes 18, but our age difference is pretty small. He is going to college, yale, and i live in california. Hes going to be so far away. Well he told me that he loves, me and i love him. Ever since i agreed that i loved him back, hes been trying to tell me that sex is good when you love someone. He has been buying nightgowns and lingerie for me like every month. I dont want to do it yet, and i want to wait longer, and he says we can wait but next month, here comes lingerie...idk what to do, hes not like physically, but like everyone thinks i should, i talked to my sister, and she called me prude, and i dont want to be and i want to do it with him, but i am afraid. I know i should wait, but by now i just want to get it over with. What should i do?
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sorry if i write too much :)
You need to wait until YOU are ready to have sex, NOT HIM. If he says that sex is good when you love someone...yea that may be true to him,but if he truely loves you then he will respect you enough to wait until YOU are ready. if you are not ready then he has to understand that. This is a big step in a relationship and you should think about it before you take any actions. relationships arent about sex, its about love, and being with the person you love! I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and we love eachother enough to wait until we are married. You may not agree with that, and thats totally fine, BUT you do need to wait until you are emotionally ready. your first time should be
special, not rushed or "get it over with" kind of thing.
Also, if you dont want to have sex then dont!! just say no!! :) if he doesnt understand then thats too bad for him, he's losing something special.
Dont be pressured by ANYONE! boyfriends, friends, and especially family!!
GOOD LUCK! :)
hope i helped!
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Q: my neighbor is a 13 year old female and im a 14 year old male. she stalks me and she likes but id ont like her like she likes me wat do i do?
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just tell her that you only see you two as friends and nothing more. Say you may change your mind in the future but at this point in time you don't have really deep feelings for her like she has for you.
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Q: What do women really want from a guy? What will make a girl want you so badly it hurts?
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Well, every girl is different, but always treat her like she's the only person like...alive. Call her all the time, even if there is no reason to..just to talk. Or buy her cute gifts like, stuffed animals or somthing small. That will get them.
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Q: ive never kissed a guy before and all my friends have, im scared people will call me frigid and fall out with me.
has any one got any tips 4 me??
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don't feel bad or anything. Just wait until you are ready and with the right guy. its ok that you havnt kissed a guy yet. just wait, the time will come sooner or later
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Q: what do guys like in a girl around the years 15-17? Liek how do they like girls to dress, act, personality..that kind of stuff.
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Always just be yourself..if your act otherwise you are just trying to change for him..if he does not like you the way you are then he is not the one for you
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Q: see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!!
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if he is that stupid enough to break up with him gf and ask you out AGAIN...then theres somthing wrong there. You can do a lot better then that and you don't need a shallow guy like that...
good luck with that
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Q: my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.
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It doesn't matter what age you are when you fall in love. You'll deffinitly know when you do fall in love though. Love is when you care about someone so much that you would do anything for them. It is when you can't stop thinking about them. Her parents are probably just trying to protect their daughter.
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Q: What if my boyfriend does not want to wait to have sex....i am only 13
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he is not worth it...if he does not want to wait until you are ready then he does not love you the way you think he does
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Q: I am 13 and Bi should i tell my parents??? cause i don't want them to hate me so i need to know
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Of course you should tell your parents...they should love you no matter what you do or what kind of person you are...there are many girl out there just like you and the best thing to do is to be open with your parents and talk to them.
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bio
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My name is Sabrina!
And i am here to help YOU!!!
If you are having ANY problems with anything...you can ask me! I will be totally honest! Also, please rate me! I would like to know how i am doing! HOPEFULLY GOOD!
Xo Brina Xo
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Las Vegas Occupation: student AIM: Member Since: August 11, 2004 Answers: 60 Last Update: January 26, 2008 Visitors: 3952
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