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I had been going out with a boy and he was like, the best boyfriend possible except he just would suffocate me kind of, but not a lot. I started to like this other boy so I broke up with my boyfriend. My boyfriend was sad and stuff but then I started liking him again and not the other guy. Now I really want to get back with my ex but he is just like considering it. I am having my friend talk to him because I am soo shy. I have never loved someone so much in my life and I really want to get with him again. What should I do?

first of all hunny, make sure he knows you know you screwed up. No guy likes to be "second choice" and while I know thats not what your saying about him thats the way he is possibly seeing it. You broke up with him for someone else then want to go back. Guys don't understand this type of action. If you think the suffocation is going to be a problem then talk to him about it. and hunny, talk to him yourslef, not through your friend. He might not take you back cause you've already hurt him once but you need to actually talk to him yourslef or you'll never find out. Good luck hunny.

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well i like this guy but he started liking my friend. well my friend had a boyfriend but her and the guy still hung out and talked all the time. i talked to the guy all the time too. but then he started not answering her calls or her text messages. i think its because she is leading him on when she has no feelings for him. but he wont talk to me either and i have no clue why. last weekend we pranked called my friends boyfriend and told him that my friend was having sex with another guy. and my other friend used the guy i like's name. but then we told my friends b/f it was a joke. well the guy i like ended up finding out and he got really mad. but then we apologized to him even tho it wasnt my fault and me, him and my friend hung out the next night. but he wont answer her calls or wont talk to me online or anything. i just dont get why?!?!? i really really like him. i dont know if he still likes my friend though. what should i do?
(16f)

first of all hunny, alot of times guys will say it's alright when in all reality it's not. It seems like you really messed up. It might not have been your idea but you were involved in the prank and therefor it is in a way your responsibility for what was. said or who was accused of what. Give him some space and time and instead of apologizing show him that your sorry. Actions speak louder then words. And if you really like this guy try not to let your other friends use him in pranks like that. That is not a way to get a guy to like you or notice you.

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