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Website: MySpace! E-mail: alishle@yahoo.com Gender: Female Location: New York Occupation: Aspiring musician Age: 16 AIM: WooAlisha Member Since: March 8, 2008 Answers: 8 Last Update: March 9, 2008 Visitors: 1761
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I've always been the girl who is friends with the guys. JUST friends. And I need help on what I should do to flirt with them. I've had bfs before, but I can be kind of quiet. What can I do? (link)
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Seems to me like you just haven't met the right guy yet. Over time, I'm sure you'll meet someone who will make you the happiest person on earth, and sometimes the way life works is that when so much bad has happened, you'll truly cherish the good.
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how can i make up my mind?
like i had dream about one of the guys i like but it was totally erotic and well he is my freind's boyfriend. there is another one who i think i just want to make him happy and then leave bc he is a big manwhore. omg i sound like big slut. and well i went out with this guy but i broke up with him bc he moved so fast. and well he invited me to the island for spring break but idk does that mean he wants to start talking to me again? and well another guy who has a girlfriend and wants to join cheerleading and i told him ill help and he said okay. gasp i need help how do i tell myself he has a girlfriend so i cant intervine.
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well the one who is dating your friend, off limits! sucks but you gotta respect the boundaries, yanno? the manwhore one, doesn't seem like he would be a good person to be dedicated to.
It's not slutty to have a thing for even a trillion guys at once, sometimes us chicks are just attracted to all different types of people.
the one you went out with/broke up with, sounds like he either wants to be good friends or possibly wants to get back together. maybe over vacation with him, you both can discuss this possibility.
the last guy who has a girlfriend already; again, off limits. If your boyfriend flirted around with other chicks, that would be sketchy and i dont think you would like it very much yourself. but sounds like he's interested in you. maybe not necessarily to go out with but to be friends. But who knows!
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I have a problem. There is a guy in one of my classes and I really like him. The only problem is that we don't know each other that well, and it's kind of wierd when we talk to each other. I want to talk to him and maybe ask him to hang out sometime, but I get the vibe that he's not interested. I just feel like I'll be making a fool of myself. (I'm not the type of girl that guys usually hit on and I havn't had a bf in a while) I have a lot of confidence, but I'm usually just "friends" when it comes to guys. I need help! (link)
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When you first meet someone, you never know how they are. It's how we get to know that person, that really defines the relationship you'll have. Talk to him a little each day, change things up a bit, maybe pass a note or 2. After time he may warm up. If it seems to you that he isn't interested, he could just be shy. Dont worry about making a fool of yourself, you're the one making the first moves so you've got some spunk! If it turns out that he isn't interested, it's allright. There's someone out there in the world that fits just your style and one day you'll find him. Where there's a will, there's a way!
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