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my name is hannah. im 13. i love mcr. i have short dark brown hair and i say random things all the time like ill be in the middle of class and all the sudden say moo.

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me and my best friend love eachother. everyone is trying to get us together as in dateing. but i want to but im just scared. im never scared to do anything. and im never scared to talk to guys or even the ones i like im not afraid to make a fool of myself i do what i want when i want im never afraid to do anything. but im just afraid to loose him again. we tried dating before but it fell apart and we grew apart but were bestfriends again. we love eachother but im afraid to loose my bestfriend again. but i wana go out with him. we said if we would go out wed never loose being bestfriends. id die with out him. i wana date him but then i dont wana loose him like last time. what do i do so we dont break up? or so we stay friends? or so im not as afraid? can you list the pros and cons please. help me this is the only bad part about your best friend being a guy. to marrow is the last day or school and i need help by 6am or its over my life is over.

How to get over your fear of losing him:

I was so afraid to ever go out with anyone once becuase I had been SO heart broken and I never wanted to feel that constant pain again. What gave me courage was someone new that I liked a lot told me to try again. I knew this person well and I trusted them so I did. I tried again. You may not no me well but you can ask anyone and they'll tell you to try again. If you love this person put your fears behind you and just have a good time with him.

How to make the realtionship last:

On this I'm not the person you should ask because so far in my life my longest realationship lasted a month. What I would do to make things last longer would take things slow.

If you stay friends:

If you can't put your fears behind you and you decide to stay friends with him its okay because he still loves you and you still love him so does it really matter if you just say bf and gf. You don't really have to be bf and gf, do whatever comes to your heart.

If you go out with him

Pros: Yippie yahoo you got him and hes got you! Everythings great. What can possibly go wrong? Take a risk and try once more.

Cons: Things might not feel the same around him if you stay friends with him and not date him.

I'm not sure if I made it in your timeline but at least I tried. Good luck.

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is it bad to go out with your ex boyfriends friend? if your still good friends with your ex? thanks

If it is bad then i've made a few mistakes. If your friends with your ex bf and he knows that you don't like him anymore then he should be okay with the idea with you seeing other people. No matter if its his best friend.

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My friend is having some people round hers for a certain tv series fest. The guy I want to invite and his friends love this series, and so do we.
I would say I'm a friend of his, but a very new friend and I don't know him that well.
Already coming are me, my friend who's house it's at, our other friend who he knows as much as us, one of his guy mates who's one of my best friends and one of his best guy mates.
We've also already invited his best friend, but we don't know if she's coming yet.
I'm comfortable with him but not when it comes to asking him if he wants to do things.
I don't want to ask someone else to invite him cos I know if I always do that there's no way I'm going to overcome my shyness.
But, what's the best way to ask him?

Thanks in advance, xxx

people always overthink about what to say right before they go up to someone and ask them out or anything. my advice is don't overthink. its really all in your head. just take a deep breath and say what comes to your mind and your heart. It has worked for me and good luck i hope it will work for you.

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Well I'm 13 and I am a girl.what happened was my brother found my message to my boyfriend about us planning to kiss. Then He confronted him, and now I think my boyfriends hates me. What should I do?

kick your brothers ass. then tell your bf that you hate your brother and ask him to ignore the whole thing.

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last night i had some friends over and one of them took my fone and text my ex saying "i love you" now i dunno if he got it or not because he never answered but how am i supposed to explain that to him? he's not gonna believe that someone else wrote it, hes rather cocky and still thinks i have feelings for him, which i kinda do but thats besides the point. What should i do?

if he did get it...

get your friends to talk to him make them be like hey ________ get your ex's txt message?
and blah blah blah. make them explain it to him.

or make them say she meant to send it to her mom or something

if he did not get it...

nothing to worry bout. but whoever did get it will be a little weirded out.

to find out if he got it...

get your friends to ask if he got any txt messages.

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