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I had an boyfriend in 6th grade but he left for Canada. But before he left (like 2 months before) We has a huge physical fight. I talk to him like 3 times a week on MSN and i totaly forgive him. I love hime and he loves me and i'm planning to move to where he is. But the problem is, his absece has made me depressed, i love him so much!! And my school grades have dropped significantly.. is there any way to cure that missing ingredient??

Find a new man who won't hit you. Dont stand for that behavior. You are worth better, Any man who hits a women does not love them like they deserve to be loved.

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My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been together for over two years now and we've celebrated many holidays together. For my birthday, he got me a Dooney and Bourke purse and for Christmas, he bought me a Tiffany's bracelet! He has bought me many gifts that I have loved, and I thought this was great, because he knew my taste and what I would like!! I recently found out that his mom has been telling him what he should get me for these holidays. It kind of hurts my feelings because it makes me feel like he doesn't know me very well at all. He just goes to his mom to find out what he should get me. I have a feeling that someday, she's gonna pick out the ring he should propose to me with!! I hate this!! I want him to pick out this for me himself!! What should I do about this?

Get over yourself......Your boyfriend is taking the time to go and ask what you like...which means he is taking the time to learn about you. There are men who just dont care and even forget. Count your blessings and stop complaining.

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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.

There are 2 consending adults. I am 22 and my BF is 26. if she was under 18 and in high school then there would be a problem. I think its ok leagaly and moraly.

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Today i found out from alot of people that my boyfriends been cheating on me with this girl that i absolutly hate and wen i asked my boyfriend about it he sed it wasnt true and they are lying to me, but i dont know wether to trust him or not because he has cheated on me before and tryed to hide it but i found out and idk why but i let it slide (plz noone give me a lecture on that). His bestfriend even told me that which is why im questioning him but he keeps on saying its not true. I dont know what to do, should i break up with him even though hes saying it not true or should i stay with him? someone please help me! btw me and him are both 15 and weve been together for 10 months, and we also dont go to the same school. thanks for your helf

Track him down....get sneaky....Catch him in the act then make your desion weather or not you want to be with him. Dont rely on rummors to be true. See it with your own eyes before you go acusing.

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I am thinking about dating this Christian, even though I am not religious. Please dont tell me not to care what his religion is-because I don't. I just want to know other people's opinions on christians. I want to know how they act and how other people view them. Thank you!

It all depends if they are very devoted to there religion or if there parents just make them go. I am christian but I dont go to church and I dont practice anymore. I dont see anything wrong with them as long as there not preaching all the time.

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I know that I might sound a little jealous or over protective but just put yourself in my shoes for a minute.... Ok my boyfriend cheated on me a couple weeks ago and I gave him another chance, but I can't trust him anymore, Well tonite he is goin over to his ex-girlfriends house to help her with her "homework", i am really worried and I am also scared.. I was messing around and asked him if I said it was ok if he would do something with his ex and he said hell ya and I said well im not giving you permission. But do you really think that is going to stop him? Any ways i am really confused.. if you help me I will definetly rate you!! thanks

Sweetie if you dont have trust then you shouldn't have the relationship. I say leave him and find someone you can trust.

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hey may name is kate ! i have a huge crush on this guy well call him "bob" and i have for a while hes just soo sweet and a super nice guy and hes hott! but i dont knoe if im in love whwen i see him my stomach like flips and i get sweaty palms and my knees get all week! and i think he feels the same way cuz hes always smiling and stuff and winking and starring but ne ways do i sound like im in love ! by the way im 15 if that helps ! please help me quick im seeing him tontie and i need to knoe wether to tell him how i feel ! plz help !
kate

I loved that feeling back in the day....It was great to feel so happy when you see a person you like. Now i would say if he is your Boyfriend then go for it and tell him how you feel...but if you guys arnt together yet.... then wait a while...my experience with guys is when you tell them something like love too soon it scares them away. def let him know you like him and are intrested in him. But dont drop the L bomb too soon. Most important thing to remember...Guys always want what they cant have. In other worrds do seem to egar, play a little hard to get. when he calls you dont call him right back..make him sweat it out..little things like that. I hope this helped. e-mail me with any questions?
xoxoxoxoxoxoxooxxo christin

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