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Hey, my name is Kiley Erin, I am a junior in high school, I live in CO (just moved, summer of 04) and I love to help people. Ask me a question here or hit me up on AiM: chocolate lustx. =)
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well i want u to know that i told my mom about john on thursday after school. i knew she had to pick up my brother so i told i had to tell her something important when she came back and she asked me if it was good or bad...and i said good.
My mom just said that i better be careful with him since it's considered rape. But other than that my mom was ok with it. But my dad on the other hand was kinda like he better not hurt u or anything so basically my dad is being very protective of me right now. So my parents are happy for me and arent forbidding me to not see him. so i figured id let u know what happened since gave me advice.
thanx much!!!
Crystal
i'm glad your parents aren't forbidding you to see him, even if they are just being a little protective. =)
your welcome =D
is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!
i honestly don't believe in online relationships. mainly because you can never be sure if the person is who he says he is. Plus it would be really hard if you've never even met each other face to face. in "real life" you may not have that connection.
One of my guy friends at a different school told me that his friend really wanted to meet me and take me out on a date after a football game. So we emailed all week long & talked a little bit on the phone. He seemed excited to meet me. So on Friday, we met at his school's football game. For the first minute, everything was going great. I was cuddling under a blanket with him. He was acting really nice. Then all of a sudden, a bunch of girls came up to him and started flirting with Nathan (that's his name). He flirted back and he didn't pay as much attention to me. Other girls tried to steal the blanket from me, but Nathan didn't let them. That was nice of him, but he still continued to flirt with them. When he said he was going to get something to eat, some girls screamed, "I'll go with you!" Then the girls followed him. A little later, I decided to go see what he was up to. Not only were the same girls flirting with him, but others were, too. Nathan payed some attention to me, but not very much. I waited for several minutes for him to shut up to the girls, but he didn't. So what did I do? I left the game COMPLETELY, without saying a word to him or anybody. After I left, I felt bad, so I called Nathan. I told him I would be back at the game. When I went back to the football game, it was almost over. I called Nathan again to tell him I was at the game, but this time a girl answered and said, "He's somewhere else." I looked all over for him, and asked other people if they saw him, but they didn't. So much for the date he was going to take me on after the game. I waited for Nathan to call me, but he never did. This morning, I sent Nathan an email, telling him why I left the game, but I haven't heard from him. Who's the jerk, me or him? What should I do now?
And another thing: While this was going on at the football game, I saw my ex boyfriend who goes to Nathan's school. He was flirting with some girl. I got INCREDIBLY jealous that my ex was flirting with a girl, but I didn't care as much that Nathan was. Why does it seem like I'm TOTALLY over my ex, but I get so jealous when I see him with other girls.
wow, that Nathan kid is the jerk. I'd wait a while though since you just sent him an e-mail. see if he writes you back within a day or two. Otherwise, try to forget about him. That was really rude to flirt with other girls in front of you if he supposedly wanted to go out with you. But guys can by idiots sometimes and not realize they are doing something incredibly dumb.
You might still have feelings for your ex but it might also be just a natural reaction. He was once "yours" and now he's flirting with other girls.
I met this guy that my friend jeni and her fiance roger(roger's best friend) wanted me to met. so i was ok it couldn't hurt so i ended meeting him september 19th(two saturday ago). He's 21 and i'm 17. so we all ended up going bowling. I talked i him a little bit.
that next week we all went to roger's house to watch movies. Jeni and i ended up getting there by 7pm and we did our homework until 8-8:30pm. We finally started watching movies at about 8:30-9pm. We watched star wars. John(the guy i met) started explaining the movie(s) of star wars since i had never seen any of them before. Which was very sweet of him to do? anyway i didn't get home until almost midnight. This time i got to actually talk to john more and kinda flirt/goof off with him cuz i was much more comfortable with him. Do u think we're dating, seeing each other, or being friends? What do u think about the age difference(17 and 21)? should i tell my parents about him (i haven't told them anything yet!)? how do u think the relationships going? should i tell my parent's about john even though we're not dating or seeing each other just friends? Because john and i have seen each other twice now and so should i tell my parent about him let me know? if john ever became my boyfriend in the future he was be my first boyfriend ever? should i still let them know about us?
today also jeni was telling me that john really needs some help and i was like me 2; but jeni's like he doesn't have anybody. not really even his parents. and later on i was feeling so stressed out i was like i really need him; but it seems like he needs someone too. so help me out here
crystal
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thanx a bunch!!!!!
I think you guys are just friends who are flirting right now, I don't know though, you can ask him.
I'm pretty sure the consent age is 16 so if your 17 then.... yeah, it shouldn't really be an issue legally. But you should ask him if he's ok with it.
I wouldn't tell them about it unless he actually asks you out, because now y'all are just friends. But if you guys start to date definately tell them; see if they have a problem with you dating a 21 year old.
I think you should just be there for him and see if it goes anywhere from there.
Hope I helped =)