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ok i was hangin out with my bf who i only get to see wednesday, friday saturday n sometimes sunday bc we go to diff skools n stuff...and hes PERFECT i love him alot n weve been goin out for about 4 months...well he ALWAYS forgets to call me or watever but today was reallie pissing me off...last nite i told him to call me when he got home n to not forget so he laffed n wrote it on his hand n he neevr called...and today we wer gonna plan to do something since we both have it off and he didnt call ALL day! i decided i wasnt gonna call him bc its up 2 him to call me now! wat shuld i tell him when he finalyl does call? i kno hes gonna make up some excuse on why he ddint call or he wont bring it up at all...how can i bring it up n tll him wat he did wat messed up..

why don't you just call him and say that you are really mad he forgot? it is not solely up to the guy to call all the time because they do forget a lot of times or get caught up in what they are doing and lose track of time. if you want to talk to him be calm and ask why he never calls, what he is doing when he forgets, and if he doesn't bring it up then you have to bring it up. you need to talk about it because it won't sort itself out. ♥

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Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!
im very scared and confused!!

I agree with your friend Brittany. If you don't ask him out it might end up being one of your greatest regrets in life. We really only have one life so we need to make the best of it. If you are afraid of rejection, like most of us are, I would ask in way that won't completely put you out on a limb if you are not completely sure of what his answer will be. When I was your age and I was in the same situation I asked my guyfriend "What would you say if I asked you out?" If he says I don't know it probably means no but he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings or if he says no then you no. If he says no, don't push it because it may ruin your friendship. If he says he would say yes go on and say "Well then will you go out with me?" Hopefully all things go well for you, good luck and let me know how it goes! ♥

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OK, well I've gone out with a guy multiple times, and he broke up with me one time. The last time we broke up we both decided to try to get a little comfortable around eachother..but the thing is..i really love him..and i mean REALLY love him. He is pretty much obsessed with me, it's just the communication when we're face to face that has a little problem. And that's it. But I really love him, and do you think it would be wrong to go out with him another time? Don't say "omg you went out with him a lot don't go out with him anymore" cuz that's not what I want to here. If it's what you're going to say, don't bother saying it. You can IM me on pinkxbaby 09 if you wanna talk about this more too..

If you believe you do love him and he loves you I don't see why you shouldn't go out again. A problem in communication can be easily sorted out in my opinion. Since I don't exactly know what kind of communication problem you are having I will just tell you what I've learned from experience. If you have a problem talk about it as soon as it comes up so it doesn't develop into a bigger problem. If you need more specific answers let me know. ♥ rate if you want.

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Ok, this might sound a little weird.. but my vagina keeps breaking out! I don't know what it is.. but there are all these little bumps on it. Sometimes i even get in grown hairs. To top all that off it smells HORRIBLE! My boyfriend went down on me last week and he almost threw up! What should I do?!? HELP!!

the little bumps are razor burn. if you have any other questions about that just ask me. for the smell- i would recommend eating pineapple and drinking the juice a couple hours before doing anything with your boyfriend. the smell comes from different things and changes, it can come from eatting meat or just not washing down there enough. but pineapple is supposed to make it smell and tasty better. hope that was helpful.

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