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ok im 17 my boyfriend is almost 18. weve been together a year and 4 months and weve never had sex. he has a high sexual drive i guess, but were waiting.. well mainly me, and hes always respected that.. we are both virgins. theres been times when weve been at his house and ill fall asleep with him watchin tv or something, and he'll grind up against me. im a very deep sleeper so im sure hes not that worried about waking me up. i usually lay on my stomach because thats how i sleep, and he'll 'position' himself so itll feel good to him i guess. sometimes id really be awake and he wouldnt know it, other times he'd wake me up doing that. tonight, he started to do that again. after a little bit, he proceeded to get up, put lotion on my hand and work my hand around to give him a hand job and he was gettin off on it.. this whole time i was "asleep" but i was actually awake.. by this time i decided to see what he'd do because hes never done that before. if i started to squirm like i was "waking up", hed stop and kinda stroke my back or somethimg till i was back "asleep". afterwards he got on top of me.. im still on my stomach.. and he progressively pulled my pants and underwear down on the back so that he could rub up against my butt [he only pulled the back down, but his 'thing' was actually out of his pants]. he never actually went in.. id kill him.. but he kept pulling my pants down more and going lower and lower. eventually i "woke up", jumped up and yelled "what the h--- do you think youre doing???". he acted startled, just said "nothing!" and picked up the phone. i ran around got my purse and my keys and ran out the door, halfway cryin by now. he ran after me yellin "baby wait.. baby please!" and tryed to stop me but i told him not to touch me and left. i know he wouldnt rape me, hes not like that, but what could possibly be going through his mind? hes called me almost 15 times already in an hour's time and has left me voice mails begging me to call him, let him explain, but im ignoring his calls. supposedly hes somewhere, not going back home or anywhere till i talk to him. in one voice mail he says he thought i was awake.. wtf? i acted dead asleep. i wasnt going along with anything. i dont know what to do i feel so.. violated? i mean, did i do the right thing by running out? im not ready to talk to him, all ill do is yell and cuss him out.. but am i overreacting? hes never done anything remotely like this before. someone help me =[ (link)
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first of all no you did not do the wrong thing by running out on him, if you felt uncomfortable you should leave. i woulden't call him back or be alone with him ever. you think you know him but answer me this what would he have done if you diden't stop him in time? i have been raped by some one i never thought would do something like that. my brother. it hurts so pleae don't set your self up for something like that to happen to you. follow your instints. he dont respect you like you thought because if he did he would have done that in the first pace. good luck! k.i.t
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Im trying to get over this guy I liked, and my friends are trying to convince me it wouldn't have worked out anyways. hes a jock, he probalby only talkes about football and boobs. I talk about the wonderfull music were playing in band, (were in the same band class, same instrument) and how beautiful nature is, and how i love to express myself though dance yadda yadda...
are my friends right? would it have worked? (link)
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you'll never know unless you try! don't always listen to your friends they might just be jealous. but i think you should take it slow get to know him and take it from there. just try, have no regrets in life. good luck!
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Ok I know long distance relationships never work, but maybe they can?
Should i even get my hopes up? Ok let me tell you the story.
I met him in the summer of 2005 and he fell instantly in "love" with me and we kissed but that was pretty much it. He lives in Connecticut and i live in Florida. We talked a bit after that but not really much. But recently i have gotten back in touch with him, but all he wants to talk about is having sex with me. I am going up there in december so i don't know whether i should or shouldn't do anythign with him...... one he has a g/f but he says he doesn't really love her, he loves me and blah blah blah but he refuses to break up with her. two i really don't want to be this slut and have sex with him when i actually have feeling but he doesn't. but he always says he does....he says he might move down here cause he has family down here but i don't know if that will happen...... so i don't know i think i should stop but i actually have feeling so it is kinda hard
HELP!!!!
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well, it sounds to me he just wants a booty call.
if i were you i would go up there to see him and see how it feels. keep your guard up though boys can be trickey. go with your instincts. good luck!
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