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14/f ..i know this sounds dumb but i really want to know....my boyfriend and i have braces and i was wondering if they can really get stuck together when you make out?ill rate high for a good answer ...thanks (link)
i was worried about the same thing before me and my boyfriend made out...and about a hudred times later im still unstuck c[= ahah dont worry about it, it rarely happens- just have fun!


Okay..so on saturday my best friend is having a party and her cousina nd I met over the summer and I had a crush on him but theres this other guy that I wanna make jelous and soo do you have any ideas on how I can flirt with the guy from the summer.Btw 13/f and my brotherw ill be there (link)
okay, first theres two ways you can get that guy jealous in an un-slutty way...
1. Look your absolute best! Nothing can make a guy more jealous than looking absooutely awesome and...
2. Dont give him the time of day! Hell know that he could of had you, but guess what? its too late! Dont even pay any attention to him, been there done that; onto the new guy ;]

Flirting with your friends cousin should be easy, just hang out with him that night! Get to know him a little, ask him how things are going since the summer, if hes coming back next summer...just hang out and have a good time! Be a little flirty too, like playing with your hair and touching his arm when you talk- let him know your interested in him! Most of all, be yourself-dont be fake, believe me hell eventually realize it; and thatll be the end of the relationship! So good luck, i hope you hav a great night!


okay so im 15/f and i like this guy alot. i think i might actually love him too. hes 14/m, a few months younger than me. but my one friend things im nuts! i mean her perfect dream guy is taller and older than her. While i seemed to always like younger guys.. (not too young though) But i mean shes just like "well are you sure you like him? i mean its okay if you though he was cute but liking him?" and i think its just so frustraighting! and i know i shouldnt care what she thinks about him but i mean... it would be nice to just have her be like more supportive about it. what do you say?? and i'm so sorry this is so long.. ill rate (link)
first of all, its your choice to like whoever you want, i mean you cant help who you like right? i understand your friends point of view, becuase guys are own age are immature as it is. But does she really know this guy? If you like him im sure hes fine for you! And its only a few months difference...i say you go for it! Just tell your friend the way you feel about him and how you dont like her putting your feelings down. You know how you feel-she cant dictate your feelings. If shes a true friend, and im sure she is, she'll understand and be more supportive! hope this helps!


Ok Me and My boyfriend broke up yesterday due to he liked another girl! It broke my heart, I was mad, and I could have pinched his head off. But now he acts like he likes me AGAIN! Like when I was sitting at lunch today with some girls he kept looking at me for long periods of time. He does that even when I pass him in the hall. And when he sees me on the bus he will look for me and when he sees me he will smile. So Whats going on???!?!? Signed Confused! (Smarty Pants will be reported.) (link)
i know exactley what your going through...my ex-boyfriend always does the SAME exact thing. Hes acting really immature and just doesnt know what he wants. Guys like that always are in between girls, breaking up with one and going to the next. Obviously hes not great boyfriend material if hes gonna keep doing this (believe me i finally realized my guy wasnt either) You just need to give him some space and let him make up his mind. Go out with other guys, get a new crush..dont feel like you have to wait for him to make up his mind, let him know theres a million other guys out there who want YOU and you cant just waste your time on him. Oh yeah, i did this exact thing and its working! Hell start to realize how dumb he was but just make sure not to give in, gibe him time to sweat it out; hes the one being immature here and if he wants to be immature it his loss! Just know its not you its him, guys just cant make up thier minds! hope this helps!


I really like someone and I want him to like me back. We are already friends. He always is so sweet and chivalris(sp?) and I love being around him. I want him to ask me out so bad but I dont know how to make him like me like me!!! HELP PLEASE!!

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well you cant MAKE him like you...but you can help him along =] just flirt alot with him and let him know your into him. hang out with him a lot too, get to know him well because the closer you two are as friends before you start going out, the more successful you future relationship will probably be! =]


hello im a gurl..me and my bf have been dating for awhile and i was just wondering how do you know if your boyfriend is still into his ex? i mean we broke up once before because he still had feelings for his ex and he still talks to her but not alot now he said they are just friends but i dont like him talking to her and i told him that but im not sure if he has stopped...so how should i know and is there any way to put into words to stop talkin to her without sounding mean and controlling?
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Theres no easy way to know if your guy is still into his ex without asking him. If hes not into her then he should tell the truth and that thier still just friends. You dont need to ask him to stop being friends with her, becuase im sure if you eventually break up youll want to stay friends; but you could ask him why it is that it seems like hes flirting with her. some guys are just naturally flirtatious and if this bothers you you hav to tell him. Ask his friends about him, im sure theyll tell the truth; its probly nothing to worry about, hes probly just a friendly guy! If this is the case, dont worry about it. But if it continues you have to ask him and be firm, tell him you dont like him flirting with her. Yu have nothing to lose- if hes worth it hell understand and if he doenst; your probly better of, theres plenty of fish in the sea...you just need to find the right spot and the right time to cast your line =]




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