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Well, to begin with, I started liking this guy, and when I finally asked him out, he said yes. But then after, he started checking out and hanging out with this girl he used to date. I got really mad, so I broke up with him. He also never really cared much and none of my friends thought he would be a "boyfriend". But then, I missed him so much that I asked him out again. Unfortunately, this time, he said no. But the thing is, I still like him. And I don't know how to get over him. I think about him everyday. Please help. (link)
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i have the same problem.. eventually you forget about him.. but you will always remember him.. i know it isn't the best advice.. but it's true.. hope i helped!
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i had this boyfriend and after about 2 months I broke up with him because i thought i didnt like him anymore!but then i started realizing i do but before i had a chance to tell him, he got a new girlfriend!now i am really jealous and i just can't get over it!!!!!how can i?help!!!! (link)
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well right now i am in the same situation. all i do is just talk to hima dn try to get him to appreciate me more so he notices that i still really like him. i will update you with what happens to me. i am jealous too. i just want to go up and hug him. but all i do is just keep talking to him. try to be his best friend cause in the end he will need you. and then you should be there for him. please rate
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So, last summer I really liked this guy. We hung out a few times, but nothing happened.
Then during this year I kinda stopped liking him.
Recently, my friend told me she found out he liked me now. I'm pretty sure that I believe her since he does seem to like me (he asked me to hang out a few times..he talks to me online a lot, etc.) Today I hung out with him and my other friend and my friend said she could definitely tell that he likes me.
I'm really not sure if I like him or not, and I don't know what to do. He's kinda shy so I don't think he will ask me out or anything, but I kinda want him to, so does that mean I like him? I really don't know what to do... I don't want to send mixed messages.
btw i'm 17/f and he's 17/m (link)
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I think you should talk to him more on the internet or on AIM or something like that.. get to know each other better and hang out.. if he asks you to hang out again try to go ....if you can.. then you can go with your friends and say everyone is going and you can invite him to go along too.. if that doesn't work i don't know what will.. soo as a conclusion i really hope i helped...but remember be yourself don't be someone that you aren't.. good luck **nikki**
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okay. so i dated this girl for a while. and we seemed to have a really good connection with each other. we were into the same things, we were both sarcastic smartasses, and we both liked doing the same kinda stuff. and well when i met her she was in the process of breaking up with her boyfriend. and so i was more of the friend to turn to than anything else. then slowly we started to date like after they broke up. and for about a weekend we were very into each other, and things seemed to be wonderful. then as the weekend ended she said she didn't feel the same way about me as i did about her. and so i decided to sit back and wait until she was really ready for a relationship because after some talking we kinda realized she needed some time to get back into the swing of things. and it was during this time that she began to change. she became mean, she began just totally ignoring me for days on end. the phone calls ceased. there would be whole days when i'd hear nothing from her. then i'd talk to her a bit and that was it. and now finally i come home to find out she spent the last couple days drinking, partying, and hanging out with sleazy guys. and i instantly became very mad and jealous. and i just wanna know. is it wrong for me to be mad? for me to not want her around? for me to tell her she's changed and become someone i don't know anymore? i told her not to contact me any longer, and that she had become someone else, someone i didn't know or love. and now in hindsight i kinda wanna know: was it wrong? (link)
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you have every right to be mad.. because if she is hanging out with other guys and you asked first that is totally unacceptable.. but if say.. you aren't her type then you have no reason to be madd... sorry if i didn't helpp to much .. **nikki**
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is it possible to get a guy to like you that barely knows you..i mean i have been talking to him more and he knows my name and what not..but like what are some signs that a guy likes you, and what are some ways thats you could get him to like you. (link)
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some of the ways you can tell that a guy likes you is that he always tries to say "hey" or he always gives you a little smile... he calls you at night.. ( if he has your number ) .. and you just smile back .. what i do is i tell him.. most people don't make fun of you if you tell them that you like them ... ...
... some of the ways to get him to like you is to be yourself.. smile at him.. but don't dress slutty or whorry or ne of that. . that is the worst thing to do . . . .another way is to just help him with homework when you can... like if you have time.. offer him to come over and study for history or something.. but like i sed earlier just be yourself.. that is the number one way for someone to like you .. and if he doesn't like you for you then i would leave him.. simple as that.. hope i helped..*` Nikki*`
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There's this guy that I've became friends with this year. Surprisingly, we've grown really close. We talk all the time on the phone and on the computer. There have been certain signs that have made me think he likes me:
1) He makes direct eye contact when talking
2) He's sweet to me and mean to the rest of my friends
3) He never wants me to get offline or off the phone when I'm talking
4) Though this isn't a reliable sign, he has had a "boner" twice when talking to me
5) He smiles at me all the time
6) Tries to show off in front of me
7) Makes the kissy faces online and says that it was an accident
8) Suggested we hang out sometime after school
9) Told me I look better with my hair down (not really a sign but wanted to throw it in there)
10) People always come up to me and tell me that they think he likes me
I'm not sure if that sounds like a match but, lately things have been weird. He's telling me how much he likes this other girl and she knows. Today she turned him down (even though he didn't ask her directly) and now I'm thinking he really doesn't like me. What should I do? I want to make a move because it seems like the signs point to yes but then, he likes her!
14//*jANe (link)
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i would just talk to him more.. then online .. just talk about being lonely and talk to him.. he mite ask you out.. i was in the same situation
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ok, so i have this friend and i really do like him and i cant tell if he likes me back. he gives off really indirect emotions. i mean we are like really good friends and have all the same interests. i just really cannot tell if he likes me. any ways to tell? also, if he doesn't what would be a good way to try to get him to like? please help!!
thanks! (link)
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just keep talking to him .. then after a while he will get to kno you better... after you get to know him he will probably kno you better and that is the key part in a relationship.. knowing each other .. then if you have AIM just have a conversation with each other.. that is what i do .. and i found out that this guy really likes me
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hey,im 16/f. i hav this friend(also 15 /f) and she thinks me and her are like really close but i dont really like her and we like the same guy(hes 15 too), only she doesnt kno i like him and i like him alott. me and him hooked up a few times and she has no idea and he says he likes me but he doesn't want a girl friend rite now and stuff but he said he will soon , im not sure wht that means tho? but wht if he asks me out bcs then my friend will prob get really mad and ill feel really badd so wht shud i do shud i like stop talking to her or stop being involved with the guy ?? (link)
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i would just stick with being friends w/ the boy and still buds with the girl
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So my name is Danielle, and I'm terribly in like with this guy. I just realized yesterday night that I might not ever get over him... The one thing I hate the most is him, but hes the one thing that can put a smile on my face within seconds of his presence. I've tried mutiple times to show how that I care for him alot..and that I like him. He only wants to be friends though..or thats how he shows it...actions speak louder than words correct? I don't know whether I should just be there for him or just move on and erase him from my life and consider him just another stranger ... (link)
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all i can say is that .. you need to be by his side.. then maybe he will take a liking for you and show that he cares about you .. as long as he likes you as a sister or somthing.. it is better than him hating you ..
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ok sry for the length but i need help...
i have this ex-boyfriend that i like alot still i dont know why..we've broke up a million times but i can seem to get over him..we my friends are telling me we should go back out because they say hes changed and stuff but my problem is my best friend doesnt want me going back out with him..he said if i go back out with him then he'll never talk to me ever again...and i dont know what to do help plz (link)
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All I have to say is that I have been in the same situation before. I couldn't eat or sleep without thinking about him. But then i realaized that I don't care if he hates me , I need to try to see if i can have him. So i asked him out... he said yes.. it never hurts to try..
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Hi, I'm in 8th grade and about to graduate, I really like this boy and I wanted him to ask me to our last dance. Every time I'm around him I can never get the nerve to talk to him. What should I do? (link)
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For my advice, I would just say, hi how are you every once in a while so he knows you are there. After a while he will start o notice you more and more. Then you can start an actual conversation, then he might have the nerve to ask you out.
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