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Q: I have this guy friend that i have liked more than a friend for a while. I thought he kept dropping hints such as putting his hand around my waist, talking to me alot and gointo the movies. But when I asked him to go to homecoming with me he said i dont know. he still talks to me in the hall after that but it took a while. Should I keep flirting with him or just leave us as good friends?
~*Confused*~
Guys are confusing like that lol, but if you want him, keep flirting! Maybe he's just shy and was shocked that you asked him nd he didn't know what to say. But ig your out there and you want him keep flirting, if you just wanna be friends then just keep it the way it is. Also try to talk to him to see how he feels about you. ((~*JULiA*~))

Q: Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!!
And you are still going out with him why? You need to find someone better who won't act like complete strangers in the hall. You need to get over him and move on ((~*JULiA*~))

Q: My boyfriend and i have been goin out for about 11 months and between the first day until maybe th 6th month mark he was the sweetest guy in the world he sang me the dumb cute little love songs and he'd lay on the couch and like wrap his arms around me and say the sweetest things and lately i ask him if he's lost intrest and hes like no baby i love you but i just dont get it, how he doesn do or say the sweet things any more. whats going on??
Talk to him. You need to know what is going on with him. If its a serious relationship, you should know what your bf is doing. If he doesn't want to talk then screw him, find someone better. ((~*JULiA*~))

Q: 13/M and i don't get what girls mean when they say he's guy friend material? Does this mean that girls won't like to go out with them? I have a lot of girls friends and some of them even consider me their best friend but no gf for awhile does this mean im a "guy friend" not a boyfriend?
No it doesn't mean girls won't go out with you, its just saying you are a great friend to have. There are probably plenty of people that would go out with you, everybody has and like different personalities, so don't just judge based on one friends comment. You may be a guy friend to one person but to another a boy friend. ((~*JULiA*~))

Q: Okay here's the deal I'm a freshman in high school. I know, I know ugh freshman. Anyway this's the deal I like a guy, and he's kind of a senior. He's taller than me and we... sort of get along. We argue about almost everything, I love it. Only thing, he has a girlfriend and there's a three year age difference. Now I know some of you are going to tell me to move on and try to find someone my age, but I really like him. =(

And I don't want to tell him I like him at least not yet, I love him and his friends, and I like his girlfriend too. So if I say something then they're all going to act ackwardly around me.
Well just try IMing them if they have aim, if you all get along so well they will care about your feelings. And a freshman with a senoir is not the best idea. lol But you are right the best thing is to move on so just try to!! lol *hope i helped*

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