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hey i an from Limpopo.im in a new relationship.me n my bf we a naw datin for 1month n 3days.i love my bf so much n i try to make him happy but dat doesnt hide de fact dat my bf is still inlove wth his ex who has died.wen he need me i go n be wth him.on saturday it was his bdae n i made a suprise party for him n i invited his friends n ada gals.he was very happy n i was happy to see him happy.but dat dae at nyt he said i shuld not leave i shuld sleep ova n i did so.he started talking abt his ex who died n his ex was buried on saturday on his bdae.he told me dat he is over her n he dnt luv her anymore but his actions was telling me another story.he evn cried for his ex infront of me n didnt wt tu du or wat to say.my heart was heavy wen he was kissing me he suddenly stopped n he said he cant.yesterdae he removed de status on watsap he wrote abt me n write dat he love his ex n he change a profile pic n put his ex.i cried alone n my hurt was heavy realising dat im truly,madly n deeply inlove wth him.what do i have to do? (link)
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woah woah woah okay dont give him any grief over his dead girlfriend. hes never gonna stop loving her. its like you losing your grandma your never gonna get over it. maybe hes not ready to date yet just let him know that if he isnt ready you understand and ull be here for him no matter what happens and that you understand what hes going through and youll be there when hes ready to date.
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I really like a boy but i dont know if i should ask him out because my parents said no dating till im 16 but im 12!! (link)
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sweetie you dont need a boyfriend when your 12. im not much older than you and i regret dating boys back then because it makes your relationships when your older awkward i understand if you like him but you dont need to go out with him just become closer as friends and try to talk to him. boys are stupid. they never mature. dont get your heart broken. i know this seems stupid but trust me i was like you and i regret it. be a kid. have fun. dont worry about boys. in the future he wont even matter
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It's gross, especially when it's overt and/or persistant. I thought a relationship was meant to be between 2 people? Why do some couples try to get other people's attention? I noticed yesterday at the mall. There was this interracial couple all over each other, as we stood in line at this food place, and i'd focus on other things but they'd sometimes look back with this look on their face line they want their relationship to interest people, incite anger or jealousy, etc. it was awkward for me, directly behind them, and others in line. I have no problem with any couple, interracial, gay, lesbian, transgender, one young and one old, etc. I'm happy others can find love and be in relationships. I'm not jealous either, it's just uncomfortable to essentially be viewing foreplay without consent. There were children in line, too. Some people seem to get a sexual thrill out of people seeing their pda and that just seems sick and self centered. It makes me understand why there are countries that ban it. (link)
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There will always be people out there like that, youll have to learn to ignore it, no one knows why people do it, i dont even know why i do it but usually people who do are in their own little world not thinking about anyone around them, put yourself in that place, i mean your being a bit extreme some people dont give a fuck and will do anything, most of the time not to show off but to prove to their partner that you dont care what other people think, im not so sure about countries banning PDA thats like banning kissing anywhere but your house..
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so I'm 24 ex is 23 we were together for 3 years. I broke up with him cause he wasn't make an effort to come see me or talk to me or spend the weekends with me. The only time we'd ever talk is through text and while he was working I had to ask every night if he was planning on coming over and at least calling to talk and he always had something more important to do. Then the weekends would come and I'd hardly hear from him only a few text or so. He just wasn't putting in the effort I needed him to. But somehow that was "my fault"... Everything was always somehow my fault. Well anyway we broke up on Saturday cause it was my birthday last week and I had to ask HIM if he planned on spending it with me and when I made him feel guilty he did but then the weekend came and I asked if he was coming out with some friends and me and he refused he wanted to play games. So I broke up with him I had enough. Well since Sunday he won't stop texting:calling so finally I answered last night to tell him to stop and he was like "ok fine sorry I even bothered trying" like really?!?! A few phone calls doesn't count as trying... I'm just over the whole thing am I wrong to be mad that he considered that as him trying?! I've been trying to get him to spend time with me for months and I get nothing but excuses (link)
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Okay you are no where in the wrong at all. I had a boyfriend of 8 months, we were long distance and we never had met in person (long story) i really thought i loved this guy. Around 5/6 months in i stopped having so much interest in him. He always had an excuse not to skype me he constantly only wanted to text. He would get so mad and jealous when i hung out with friends, even if they were girls. It's bad to say but i kinda dealed with him for another 3 months until i had literally had enough. I broke up with him and he was so mentally attatched that he tried to commit suicide over me to guilt me into dating him. I told him it was too much. Anyway i think u should tell him that you want the attention, who wouldn't and not being able to see him or constantly being stood up hurts you, let him know exactly how you feel. You cant waste your life on this one guy if he won't do "anything and everything" for you. it seems as if he just doesnt wanna be alone. he wants to be able to say he has a girlfriend to fill in some of those empty pieces. i could be wrong but you jsut gotta let him know how you feel just flat out say it and if he deosnt like it then oh well, what are you gonna do about it? You really cant do anything at all.
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My classmate's friend ask for my number but i didn't give my number for a reason that i'm only have landline and replying would be too expensive. After that I still see my classmate's friend but he didn't approach or talk to me. 3 weeks or so.. he added me on facebook and i accepted it... but again, after that he didn't bother to message me.... few days past he likes one of my photo albums. but until now.. he still don't talk or approach me. His friends seems to know about me 'coz they tease him to me. I'm confused and don't want to be played anymore. Please help me.. what should I do? what is he really up to? Does he like or want to be in a relationship with but shy? or he's just playing me? Thank you. (link)
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If i were you i would make the first move. Talk to him, if you see hes pushing himself away from you a bit maybe that shows he's not interested. What i would do is get one of my obnoxious friends to ask his friends and see what they say. Sometimes it's hard to read people. Maybe he wants to be friends or maybe it's just like those times where someone just wants to show you hints that they know you exist but don't really want to be in your life so much so that you become close. Just talk to him think of something to talk about. I don't think so much that he's playing you but don't think about it so much. And if your scared to make the first move then see what he does. Usually if a guys friends tease them it's cuz he likes you or they think he likes you, same for girls, SO really jsut calm down don't obsess or think about it too much because you'll just get yourself worked up.
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