hey. my name is ashley and i started this advice colomn a long time ago but just started using it a lot now. you cna talk to me about anything. i am always giving friends my advice and usually things always work out. i hope all my advice helps everyone !!!
xOx ash-
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heyy, well im going out with this guy, kevin. i really like him a lot i been going out with him for a month. theres this other kid tho, jeff. i used to like him over the summer and he liked me until one day he went out with this other girl. i liked him for a while but gave up because he was still with this other girl. i went out with kevin and i still am and i like him and everything but sometimes jeff flirts with me and i cant help but do it back and then sometimes i have feelings for him still but then theres still kevin (link)
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well i think you need to think about which guy you like more. because right now your in the middle of them two. so pick which one you like more. but then again if kevin doesnt like you then dont give up on jeff if hes a really great guy.
hope i helped !! sn - x0O ASHL3Y
xOx ash-
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heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate) (link)
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yes!! he definatly likes you !!! now why he doesnt act like it at school im not sure. guys are confusing. but yes he definatly lieks you !!
xOx ash-
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Ok, so theres this boy in my class, michael. We were going out, and you kno, all that bf/gf stuff. We were really close and great together, we never fought, but of course there was a lil argument here and there. Well, one day he just broke up with me. He didnt tell me why, he just said we cant go out anymore and left. The next day, my best friend was wearing a shirt that said I love my bf. I asked her who her bf was and she said michael. She ddint even try to hide it or anything. I got really mad at her, and stopped talking to her. Now there are rumors going around that they had sex. I am really mad at my friend and i dont know what to do. I mean, i like her, but im really mad at her for stealing michael from him. What should i do??? (link)
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ii think you should talk to them both. ask him why he dumped you and why she took him from you. tell her you really liked him and she wasnt a good frined for doing that. if she doesnt care then shes definatly NOT a good friend.
xOx ash-
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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what? (link)
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well it seems like you dont actuallu LOVE each other if you have only been going out for a day. but when you get more into the relationship then you well actually start meaning it
xOx ash-
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There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.
Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.
But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?
I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think? (link)
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you should flirt with them. guys like that lol. but yah smile, be nice etc.
xOx ash-
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ok i am 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs now. i want to trust him but its hard b/c there are so many girls after him and he has a myspace right.....1 of his comments even says from this girl i know that she had FUN with him LAST NIGHT! whats that supposed to mean. he says he loves me and stuff but i dont know what to believe. i rate 5s!!!!! help...
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well maybe she was joking or maybe she was serious. if she was joking then just laugh about it. if she was serious ask him what it means. and if hes studdering or something then he deff. cheated on you !! im sorry to say but its probably right. or you can ask her and see.
sry that was kinda hard lol
xOx ash-
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i love this boy.
he keeps himself completely closed off from the rest of the world.
but i know he hurts inside.
how can i get him to open up to me?
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you should tell him how you really feel and he will probably tell you how he feels to. or talk to one of his friends since guys tell their friends everything. so whichever but eaither way you will probably get the truth.
xOx hope i helped ! IM me- x0O ASHL3Y
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My ex hates me now and I don't know why. He's the one who broke up with me, actually he had his friend call me to tell me he didn't want to go out with me anymore instead of doing it himself. if anything, i should be the one hating him.
Me and this guy I was going out with broke up last Tuesday. I don't know why we did, there was no fight or anything. I didn't do anything wrong to him or anything. Then on Friday I was at the football game hanging out with my friends, and he was there hanging out with his. And apparently, him and his friends were saying things about me, just making fun of how pale I am. Pffft.
How nice. I STUCK UP FOR HIM even after he dumped me and this is how he thanks me? I never said one bad thing about him, so why might he be saying this stuff about me? (link)
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well he might like you if hes making fun of you. it sounds weird but actually its a known fact so if you still like him thenn play hard to get and then he might wanan go out wit u if u wanna go out
xOx hope i helped .. IM me- x0O ASHL3Y
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My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better? (link)
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Yes it would. If she still calls you then she obvious still cares. And you should still talk to her so you can maybe hook up again if you still like her
xOx hope I helped .. IM me x0O ASHL3Y
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Alright there is this girl i really like her she is funny and beautiful and all that good stuff but i don't know if she likes me to. Well i want to know what is the best way to go on about this. (link)
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I think you should tell her. girls love it when you tell them those things. and if she likes you back she will soo tell you !
xOx hope i helped !
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okay. well there is this boy, hes 15 & im 12 ive kissed him like 3 times, and we went out. ok but he broke uhp wit me & now im soo hurt. people tell me to forget him & get a new boyfriend but i tried and i did get new boyfriend but i still cudnt stop thinkin bout him and it didnt work out. i think he likes me but i hav no idea, hes always ignoring me now and its like he cant be around me n e more he shows off and stuff in front of me, and i think he cares about wut other ppl think too much. he wuz such a jerk about it he wuz like yo call me when your 16 ight . im like fuck you but i mean i just cant move on; i cut, a lot not juss about him other stuff too but he juss adds to it all & i dunno wut to do; i try to move on but i cant let go. and now my mom wants to move because she dunt like this house. ( he livs like next door) i see him all the time so it makes me feel a lil better but if i move ill never see him again and i dotn kno if i can say goodbye ..... plz help me !!!
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Ok well he obviously lieks you if you went out before and it sounds like he still does if hes showin off a lot .. i kno you cant get over him but if you do move then you will .. just dunt loose him number so you can still call him but maybe let him know how you feel and maybe he'll tell you he feels the same wayy and if he doesnt then at least he knows how you really feel. I know youll probably be a little nervous but youll be happy after he knows. and if u dunt wanna tell him then just keep it to urself and find another guy tht u really like and he reele like you and you will forget about him.
hope it helped =] xOx
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heyy . . .umm i really like this guy and he likes me too . . buht he wont ask me outt!!! ive liked him since the beginning of the year and hes liked me since then too . .. were friends buht not best friends. . .i really want to go out with him buht hes taking forver to ask me out should i just give up on him or wait? idkk -- (link)
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maybe just ask him out. people say that girls shouldn`t ask guys out but who really cares. if i were you i would just ask him out and see what he says. most likly he`ll say yes.
hope it helped
sn -- xhuggablle
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I am a female and i am 14 years old. Well, this is kind of a long story, but i will try to make it short..me and my boyfriend have been dating for just about a month now (since june 10th) and i love him to DEATH and i KNOW he likes me ALOT too. Although, we have unconditional love for eachother i dont know if i want to be with him anymore. I mean, he does ALOT of things that annoy me and aggravate me easily. For example, we will be walking in the mall or ANYWHERE and if he find someone he knows, he will stop and talk to them for like 20 minutes or more, and even though he knows it annoys me, he continues to talk. Also, he has immature moments where he does voices and noises like a 3 year old would do. I mean, he gets embarrassing in public too. Like he makes fun of people and walks like them and mochs them and stuff in front of EVERYONE. Also, this may sound stupid but he says i love you like 10 times in 5 minutes and it gets annoying after a while. Also he calls me baby ALOT and it irritates me. I mean, i think i want to be single because i do flirt alot and everything. My boyfriend also has ALOT of girls that are friends and he swears he would never do anything with them and everything but i KNOW for a FACT some of the girls he's friends with like him more than a friend. Also, if i break up with him i am afraid no one will want to be friends with me or they will be mad at me. And if i see him with another girl i think i will just break down and cry!! please help me!!! love always, Tori (link)
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just tell him if he keeps being immature then things arn`t going to be the same. and maybe then he will understand. if not then just brake up with him and then you will feel better. at first things wont be too great but thing will get better!!
hope it helped!!
sn -- x huggablle
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I like boys a lot and i have an outgoing personality so i flirt with a lot of boys in front of my bf and my friends get mad and at me but i really like my bf and i dont know what to do and i feel bad about it afterwards wat shoudld i do
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well stop flirting with other gys. and if you do flirt with them dont do it in front of ur bf
hope i helped!
sn- x huggablle
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whutsz a good way to break upp w// sumwun that caresz about you and you care about them just not "like that" ? tysm =) (link)
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well, just say that you want to brake up.or something like"i think we need to be friends, i care about you a lot but i think we need to slow things down"if you liek someone else ... then you can say this..."i care about you a lot and you know that but theres someone else that is in my life and i want to get to know them more"
hope i helped!!
my screennname-- x huggablle
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Hi, i am emily, lol i am sure you know me! well i have a question, my freind Caitlin, is all the sudden been just getting on my nerves, shes like a stalker, she calls me like every other hour! and it gets so annoying! And i don't think she gets the hint after i stopped picking up the phone. So what do i do? (link)
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well maybe just tell her to like not call you so much and maybe onetime answer and tell her not to call so much.
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