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XtineMaximus
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Hey there,
I hate the fact that the only place I have for comfort is the net, lol! I am afraid to tell anyone else! I am a 21 year old gay guy and my bf is 18, we have been dating for 8 monthes now and have had a mass of high and lows.
He has the worst temper and shouts at me for the silliest things, and threatens me with breaking up, killing himself,not loving me, hating me when we argue.
Last nite we got into an argument, things got heated, and he pushed me, so I decided to walk away to let him calm down, then he came runing up behind me and stuck his fingers into my arms, it was the most hurtful thing! I tried tyo walk away and he wouldnt let me, so I end up beatinghim upo basically, in self defence, I wasnt gonna be shouted at and physically hurt for no reason! Again I tried to walk away and he grabbedme, wouldnt let me go, my arm wasin agony, and he was screaming at me in the middle of town, so I turned round punched him a few times, and kicked him when he was on the ground. He was scaring me, I am not a violent person, but he was hurting me and wouldnt let me go.
Then he screamed "I AM GONNA KILL MYSELF!!!!"
After I cooled down, regardless of what he did to me, I went back to him, he spat in myface and started beating me up, to which I didnt do anything back, then started screaming he was sorry for hurting me before!
What am I meant to do? Was I wrong in defending myself? How canlove be like this? Idont wanna leave him, but how can things get sorted? (link)
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Maybe with your next boyfriend ( If you are smart and dump his immature ass), you could find someone at least your age or older. Contrary to what anyone thinks, younger guys are immature. Not all, but most. The minute he threatened suicide, you should have left. You sound like a smart guy, you need to get yourself a smart, mature guy who has his head on straight and his hands to himself, unless it's in a good way.
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i met this guy through my friend "stacey" and he asked me how you doin' like joey on friends! and i was all like aww then the next day we tlaked in the hallway and then he gave me a note that say your hot and to call him and stuff. stacey is going out with his cousin. Stacey is sometiems known to strech or bend the truth and same with her best friend "robin" whichim really good friends with too. they are both telling me he jsut uses girls to sleep with them and he is a jerk and lies. he IS SO CUTE THOUGH and my otehr friend told me that i should tottaly go for it. i dont get guys very often, idk waht i should do! HELP! (link)
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As opposed to everyone elses answer, My advice to you is don't do it. You may do it anyway, but I'm older, I have gone down that road and I went out with a guy JUST like that one. Sure, you could try him out, but he may want to only sleep with you and that could bring you a world of hurt, low self esteem, and if you actually do have sex with him, possible problems there to. I would very seriously weigh the pro's and cons before doing that.
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