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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.

okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?

Hang out with the both of them....But remember stay close to your ex incase this new couple doesn't work out!

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It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;

I rate! ^_^

I don't cuz I'm not that pretty lol

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ok i havent seen my godfather and his wife and step kids in the longest time.......well 2 weeks ago i did and his step son had his friend ova......me and him liked each otha right off the bat....then at night my cuzins(godfathers step-kids),me,and that kid went down stairs....my cuzins told us to make out..we did

now im afraid that my youngest cuzin is gonna tell her mom even though we told her not to...

how do i make sure her mom doesnt know or find out?

Okay well here is your excuse if she does find out....Just say I was dared and you know I can't take being made fun of so I did. But thats all that happened and I won't do that again and you do have the right to punish me.
Heres something else though,if your cousins dared you too why would they tell?

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