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Hi! Im Sam. Im 15. I live in ATX. i go to lake travis HS. i ve been through things people really won't believe so if u need advice about ur family or rlationships or whtever else. im soo here 4 u!
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I know this is long but please don't skip it. Ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years and we've known each other for 4. I just had a baby by him. He's willing to help and he's been trying but the problem is my parents. They are extremely religious and they said that he could have nothing to do with the baby. I was 16 at the time I got pregnant and he was 20. I am now almost 18 and he's 23. My parents said that if he got involved at all with Christian, our son, then they would have him arrested for rape. They said that the only way he can get involved is if he comes and asks for "my hand in marriage" We're not in love though and it's not right to marry someone just because your parents want you to. We know that we made a mistake but we are trying to be responsible about it. But my parents are making it difficult. My father is always at work and my mom is sick now so things are tough around here. I wanted to call my bf and see if he could take christian until things got better or maybe we could work something out but my dad flipped out and said that if i did he would have him arrested. They also took my keys and I had to listen to a lecture about jesus to get them back. They said that they would rather put Christian up for adoption than have him go to his father. My question is can my bf get arrested for rape even though it was a while ago and I dont' want him to be? And also if they put him up for adoption wouldn't his father get rights to him anyways?
Please help me
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even tho u out urself in this possition. yes he can get arrested for statuatory rape, and yes he has first rights to christian before adoption, and jw wht religion are u?
I was just curious to know if it was wierd that Im in 8th grade and have never had a first kiss? Part of it is that I am too nervous but I just wanted to know...ThAnX I RaTe HiGh!! Maddie 15/f
no hun ur not alone and it dosn't really matter either cause ur first "real" kiss is around this age anyways
well about a month ago..my firend lorena had a party...it was so much fun..and nothing but lots and lots of dancing! well this guy scott picked me, and we were dacing! towards the end of the party, scott came up to me and introduced himself. i knew he was older, so before he got to ask my number i told him 2 ask me how old i am..he did..and i told him im only 14...she got all surprised n like walked off because he was dissapointed..before he left the party, he was like well you are very pretty, i had fun dancing wit you, but your juss too young for me...
now..last weekend my frend jessica seen him at another party, he asked for my number..and she gave him it..
this week @ skool, ive been talking to my frends (which are scotts friends too) they told me he has a 2 month old baby..and still talks to his baby-mama...
then tuesdae comes..and he texts me...so we texted that whole nite...n yesterday he shows up at my school...and he juss wasnt cute!..he looked so different from what i remember @ that party...i dont know what to do..because he is 18...with a baby...and hes trying to talk 2 me!...my frends dont like him...but i just dont know!
the only thing u can do is get out of that relationship. dancing with a guy is ok, hun im 14 too and i kno it's hard. I had a boyfriend who had a one year old son and i didnt think to get out of that relationship, i loved the baby more then i loved him. don't keep talking to him. you could cause a bigger mess if u do.