wat should i do i dumped this guy i went out for five months n i dumped him...i dunno why but i didnt feel the same way !
he got angry... n i didnt care
i met a guy named peter n i kissed.. him.. he found out n the guy i dumped got angry..
2 days l8er he found a chick , i got jealous n now they seein each other..
i dunno wat 2 do no more bcuz everytime i see him i like him more...
n hear about him..
but i guess everythin wnt be the same..
Well, to be honest. You did dump him first, so he has every right to do this. But, there could be a possibility that he's only doing this to make you jealous. Try to text him, or message him on MySpace or Facebook... Than tell him how you feel, if he cares for you, he probably won't be mean about it. But if you get rejected, just remember; you did it first :/
Hope that didn't tear you down...
Hope this actually helps ;)
-Taylor (:
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ok so i saw this guy that i thought was cute.he asked for my name.we see each other every day and i can tell he wants to reach out to me..i keep dreamng about him. how can i just make the first move without suprising him or getting rejected?Hes kind of quiet so something kind of calm too.
Okay, so if you can tell he wants to reach out to you. Just be confident, and talk to him! Or just pass him a note like they said below me. Trust me, if you can tell he wants to talk; he'll definately talk to you ;)
Hope I helped!
Taylor
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Ok, here goes... I guess I should tell you a bit about myself, at least the basics: 17, female, and a virgin. Great, right? Now, onto the question.
Last year there was a guy in a couple of my classes that we're going to call "Aaron." He was a year older than me but I was in his classes because I am on a more advanced track. Well, Aaron sat in my little group during math class along with his other friend, "John." I had known John from before so we all got along really well. It wasn't soon before I started to really like Aaron. Besides celebrities, he was the only guy I had ever felt sexually attracted to. It was apparent he liked me too. As the months progressed, we started being more open with each other and joking about sex. One day when we were sitting in Spanish (our table was WAY in the back), we got on the topic of boobs somehow. I made a comment like "I don't get why guys like boobs, they're just big bags of fat!" to which he retorted, "Well, if you were a guy and saw your chest, you'd be attracted to them too." With that, he cupped my boob. I was kinda shocked! I mean, we were in the middle of the classroom! Part of me thought it was strange and the other part was in heaven! It felt really good and I completely trusted him. This continued on and we made out a few times. One day, we were eating lunch and he told me to meet him up at his locker in ten minutes. We each got locker passes and I follwed him up shortly after he left. I was really happy. His locker was located by a guy's bathroom. He told me to follow him inside. I was REALLY scared to go in. The big taboo, you know? But I was so enamored that I followed him in. He asked if I would give him a blowjob. He did not pressure me and asked very sweetly, making sure I was ok. Let me tell you, I've never wanted to do anything more in my life. I was so ready for it, but in a bathroom? No. It felt so wrong. It was then that our male science teacher walked in. We were shouted at but in the end we didn't get into too much trouble. After that Aaron became a recluse. I don't know if it was because he was embarrassed, angry, or scared, but he stopped talking to me. It really hurt me and I gave up the hopes of ever being with him.
Skip to the end of this year:
We eventually made up, but he still didn't really talk to me. It wasn't until a week ago I actually spoke to him for more than two minutes. We were confined to the auditorium, setting up amps for an assembly later that day. We talked, but we didn't mention the year before or anything sexual.
Later that day, Aaron sent me a message on facebook asking if I would give him a blowjob.
I really didn't know what to say. This was really unexpected and I wasn't prepared at all. I decided in my mind that I still really wanted to do it. I liked him a lot, and this was basically for my pleasure as much as his. He wants me to do it behind our stage, in a loft that holds all the costumes after school. It's hard to find the time, but I really want to!
So here are my questions:
1) Am I really wrong to do this?
2) Should I lie to my parents so I can do this?
3) At school?!
4) How can we find the time?
Thanks for everything and I'm sorry this thing is so LONG! I'm hyped on Caribou right now and my fingers just keep going!
1.) First off, my motto is to always make sure you're with a guy, like in a relationship before you go that far. But, if you feel that it is right, than do it ;)
2.)How would you get caught? I mean really, all you have to say is that you'll be at school setting up for whatever you're doing? Plus, let's not pretend you've never lied to your parents... Haha.
3.)Well, being at school isn't exactly a fairytale setting... But, if you think it's okay. Than go for it, but if it doesn't feel right to you. I highly advice you not to do it.
4.)Well, trust me. For these type of things, you ALWAYS find time. Haha, but you can always bend the truth for certain things. You'll neeever get caught ;)
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im 14 years old. in grade 8, about to go into grade 9. i started going to a new school last year. and this guy was just starting too, we have been best friends for the whole year now. i really like him. i told him last year, but he didnt like me back. but now i feel he likes me, but i dont want to tell him again because im afraid he'll say the same thing as he did last time. what should i do?
Young relationships are tough, if you actually think he has some feelings for you. Then follow your heart, not your mind. If he's your bestfriend, you probably know him well enough to know how he expresses his feelings. Just talk to him about it, and just see how it turns out. Trust me, I had the same experience kinda. And I turned out to have one of the best relationships of my life.
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