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hello, im a guy and im 14. i have always been kind of quiet in school and stuff. i was just wondering, what should i talk about w/ girls? like i don't know what to say in person except like hi, how are you. and on line i just say hey, whats up, and then the conversation kind of goes quiet, i need real help. (link)
just talk to girls the same way you talk to guys! we dont care what we talk about..so just bring up a random conversation about anything! lol!


okayy this may not seem like a big problem to some people but for me it is. Well ever since september 3rd i have liked this kid luke and for a little bit he liked me but now he doesnt and i still liek him but now two more boys came in the picture. I can go out with one of the two other boys but i will feel so weird cause i still like luke but i know he will never go out with me again and even if i didnt like luke i wouldnt know who to chose with the other two guys. One guy is really sweet and hes liked me for a while but the other one is the same way only hes kinda.. well lets just say he likes sex but he has also liked me for a while and ive gone out with him twice before.. so im really confused right now if you have any ideas on what i could do please answer me (link)
if luke doesnt like you then i wouldnt even bother trying! i know you still like him and its hard to just stop! but if hes not gonna go out w/ you then hes not worth your time! i think you should go out w/ the one that you havent gone out w/ before..just to give him a chance! he seems like a nice guy!


There's someone, someone I love. We were so perfect, but if there's something he doesnt like about me, he'll confront me on it after we have broken up. We were "friends" everytime after we broke up, except this time. It's gotten so bad. He cusses me out on everything, and leads me to believe that he wants to get back together. I want him really bad again, and I keep falling for him, really hard too. It's crazy and mixed up. Everything is so weird and my relationship is way too long to explain, but from that what should I do? (link)
ok..the same thing happened to me w/ a guy..nd he was a total jerk around me nd all my friends..nd i just kept liking him..no matter how hard i tried to stop..but then i went out w/ him..nd it helped me a lot that I broke up w/ him instead of HIM breaking up w/ me..because then people asked me why i had done it..nd it started to remind me of all the things that were wrong w/ him..nd now were really good friends! i hope i helped:-/:-/ ♥


ok so i really really really like this guy. and he knows that i like him but he doesnt seem to care. hes always tellin me how much he likes other people and he has no idea how i feel but thinks that i dont kno how he feels.should i give up and move on or not let go and see what happens
please help me!!!! (link)
if he doesnt care hes not worth your time! i think you just find someone else that you can have fun w/ nd that likes you!♥


ok, i relly like this guy and i'v liked him for a bout a year. we are really good friends adn i have told him i liked him a few times in the past, but he never really liked me (exept he did otehr times, but i didn't really like him) So in other words our relationshipp never really panned out. But recentally we have become really good friends and i get the feeling he kind of likes me.

but there is a really hot guy who wants to get into my pants. He is acctually really sweat and irrisitable. And i really want a first kiss soon and i knid of want to make the guy i have liked for a long time jelouse. plus he is against this guy who wants to ge in my pants.

Should i try to make my crush jelous? and make out w/ another guy? (link)
ok..i know it sounds bad..but i think you should make your boyfriend jealous..because honestly guys like girls more that they cant get! nd if he liked you when you didnt like him..after your finished w/ the other guy..he'll be all over you! good luck♥


ok, i've been going out with my boyfriend for a month, a week, and a day.. :-p and i havent seen him since the 22 of June. I've talked to him tho. I called him twice since then. Once on Fourth of July and then last night. We didn't talk very long tho. Cuz he was playing a game on Xbox. haha. But, I wanna do something with him. But my mom is all "blah" and she wont let me. I'm planning on saying im going to the movies with my best friend and shes planning on doing that with her mom...well cuz we are going together. but we want to sneak our boyfriends but since my boyfriends moms car broke down and he cant drive, someone needs to give him a ride...so how could he get to the movies? help...and thanks (link)
my mom was the same way..she didnt want me to go to the movies alone w/ my boyfriend..nd my friends mom was the same way..so we both told our parents we were going to the movies w/ eachoter..nd then we told our boyfriends nd they both drove together nd met us up there 5 min after our parents left! neither of our parents found out nd we had a total blast!


ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much (link)
well..mabie you should wait a while first and just see what happens..or if you know anything about johns past girlfriends nd see if he acts one way when your not going out w/ him nd if he acts totally different when you are..becasue thats happened to a lot of my friends nd you would hate to loose your other boyfriend if you liked him..if john gonna be a total freak!


i met this guy at a summer camp last summer & we went out for like 6 months [it was long distance, so we only got to see eachother like 3 times but we always called eachother & stuff] and now we're going back to camp again to see eachother [we broke up a while ago] and i have a new boyfriend, but what i'm scared of is how much i've changed. i've gained some weight [i had an eating disorder] & my style compleatly changed... some people even call me goth, but i'm not. & i'm really nervous because i don't think he's going to want to be around me because of how much i've changed. could anyone help me please? i don't know what to do when i first see him [i want to hug him but i dont know if he'd be cool with it :-\], or how i should act around him... ? thanks a bunch

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it shouldnt matter what you look like..he should wonna be around you for what you act like if he went out w/ you for 6 months earlier! just have fun at camp nd if he likes you great..nd if he doesnt sux for him!


how do i get a boy to notice me? (link)
you just have to be yourself..if you act like something your not for a boy then they dont really like you..they like whoever your acting like! theirs tons of great guys out there nd im sure more then one of them will be lucky enough to know how awesome you really are!♥




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