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OKAY.
So whenever I'm about to kiss a guy, I get a little voice in my head that's all, "NO, what if he thinks you're a bad kisser?!"

I've kissed people before, and it was fine, so I don't know what the problem is. Just sometimes I stop myself because of that stupid fear even I WANT to kiss that person.

Do you think this a legitamate worry? Even if a girl isn't the best kisser in the world will a guy care that much? How can I stop being so paranoid?

Any help is appreciated. THANKS. (link)
i had the same exact problem!.so you're not alone!!.lol..what i did when i was about to kiss this boy and i started thinking the same thing..well i calmed down and followed how that boy kissed for example just play with his tongue or lips.. or you could have a boy teach you how!..its kynda fun..don't be ashame.
*sori if this isn't much


theres this boy i like we have broken up 4 times he recently broke up with me and im trying to get him back the first time because ............. well im not actully sure but he did and the 2nd because i was "suposably" flirting with other guys the same for 3rd and becuase we were fighting and this time because i kised another guy witch is why he broke up with me for 3rd time and i gues he thinks im gona do it agian i want him back i know he stil loves me and i stil love him ive said that i would change when he neds time to think i would give it to him but he wont talk to me and work it out what do i do and dont tel me to move on tel me how to get him back! (link)
if you love this boy why would you kiss another boy?? obviously he is insecure, maybe he just needs to trust you again. I know you said not to mention moving on but hello he broke up with all 4 times right?? i've been through that already. pretty soon if you two get back together he might be too contoling and too jealous when you are around other boys. but if you want him soo much i suggest change your ways and show him that your love for him is REAL!! by sticking with him


How do I stay on a diet..? I'm 13 and HUGE, and it isnt healthy.. I want to look awsome by the begining of school of next year. Im tired of the way people look at me, Im 13 and weight probably 215 pounds and Im not exadrating! And I like this kid well im a joke to everyone so Im thinking if i look thiner and prettier maybe they wont so, that and I have low self astem so.I was thinking if my friend Josh called me fat maybe I would stick to it but he refuses to do it because he says im pretty. Flattering as it is i know its not true.Im Huge in the belly area but no where else.. my arms are like greenbeans and ok my legs could use some work too. Well first is my stomach my mom has a ablonge how many do u think i should do and what should i eat and how much.... sorry im being really demanding.... and I want an butt! I dont have one and i only have one in sweatpants and in certain jeans so how do i gain weight it the butt part too...
Please help me!!! (link)
first of all you shouldn't care about what people think about you!! you should loose wait because you want to, not because of what people say..you could start by following your mom or who ever does the grocery shopping and pick out healthier food like veggies and fruits, stuff that are low in fat and don't have your food cooked in alot of oil. maybe eat veggie burgers for a while or fish. you could excercise by walking around your neighborhood with a friend, playing sports, go swimming try everyday for at least 30 mins. or more
*don't worry if you are really serious about loosing wait and you stick to the healthy ways you will get what you want but it won't be so easy..just try your best!!


So I have this really awesome guy friend. He's sweet, cute, funny, good looking, rich (doesn't matter, I know), and really really smart. The but part about it really sucks though. We have been dating for about 4 months now and it's great. Two months ago he started talking to me about having sex. I'm super christain and I don't believe in sex before marrige (sorry if that offends anybody). I told him that, but he keeps on talking about it. He drops hints constaintly when we are in the moment and I hate it. I don't wanna have sex before marrige. Then like a month ago he tried to feel me up. I told him no, but he begged and begged so I kicked him out. Since then we haven't made out or talked as much. THings are tense. And I keep feeling like he's cheating on me. I know he wants more and if I can't satisfy him why doesn't he cheat on me? So my question is...How do I patch things up with him? How do I get in embedded in his mind that I don't wanna have sex? And how can I keep him on his toes and still feeling physically attracted to me? It's kind of lame that I have to keep telling him no, but I really really like him. I don't love him, but he's my number one and I don't wanna lose him.
Any help will be appreciated! (link)
hunny..i know it might be hard for you to loose him because of this so try your very best to let him know that you don't want to have sex yet.stick with what you want too its not all about him in the relationship.if he continues with this behavior then i guess he isn't right for you..you will find someone that respects your descisions and everything


man man man let me tell you a story i was on the bus and i like this boy(he's my friend) i asked for his number then he gave it 2 me but he hesitated i called him at like 8:30 he was like call me back im busy so i called him back like a 1h n 30m later so he didnt answer so i told my friend to call him and see if he answers she called and she was like i got the wrong number so i waited 10m 2 call him back but he didnt answer from my number so iwas like alright then i never called him again but the next day i told my friend charisse to call him from block so he answer and she was like you like ravin and he said as a friend and she said yall 2 go 2 gether and he said no we dont so they kept on going back and forth i got mad so after mardi gras holiday i was on the bus and i didnt talk to him but after the homeroom bell rang he was staring me down i was like hey jeremy and he said hey sooooo i seen him all through the day and we never spoke but on the bus there were two seats left one next to me and one next to a girl michelle so he sat with her and he was like my seat buddy and he turned around and said hey ravin(was he trying to make me jelous?) i said hi jeremy so the boy behind me kept on askin for my phone number so i was like no then jjeremy started looking all in michelle's face when a slow song came on and she was smiling and laughing and saying move move but i reallly like him and i used to think he liked me but now i think he likes michelle !! im so mad i need advice please?
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if i were you i would just chill.don't make it seem like you want this boy soo much,maybe you should play his game too or forget about him. if you wana get back at him well don't pay attention to him and that girl, maybe be friends with other boys too u know. or you could move on becuase there ARE other boys out there.




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