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Ok I'm scared to kiss my bf. I'm pretty sure he wants to kiss me too, but we're both really shy. How do I get him to kiss me or gather up enough courage to kiss him myself?
I'm 13/f by the way.
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well ive been there!! its very nerve racking, but hey we only live once, so live it up!! just go for it, im sure he will like itt!! just Stay confident, and it comes natural, take it easy..make it slow..(preffuabully in the movies) and just have fun and dont worry about it, its a moment you will always remember so make it last, and make it worth remembeing!! and p.s.make sure u chew some good smelling gum or a mint first, or just brush your teeth before you go and dont eat popcorn or anything, but if you wanna have a good time, eat popcorn and just chew gum..or take a mint, or those listerine strips!! just remember we only live life once!! SO GO FOR IT!! hehe well i hope i helped you..
goodluck!!

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this guy i really like always stares at me in the hallway and alot of times comes up and talks to me. and he sat by me when i was on his bus one time. i dont know if he likes me.. what do i do?

try and get as good friend of yours to ask him if he likes you as mroe than a friend, or get one his guy friends to ask, but make sure they dont tell him its because you wanna know, and make sure they dont just go up and say.."hey do you like_____"..tell them to ease into the topic, well hope i helped, goodluck!

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I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?

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hhmm...well it may not be LOVE LOVE like our parents have, but i think of it as..."our kina love" like..lets say your a teenager, id call it teenager love, theres not only ONE kina Love i dont believe, theres all kinds of love! love isent Notebook (the movie)..it is, but it doesnt have to be, love can mean you would die if something happened to them, or if they got hurt. see..i think of it as, your own kina special love you have for somebody, so yes, it could be a love feelings of your own!!
kina confusing to explain lol
but i hoped i helpedd!

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how do you find out if a guy likes you without having to ask him straight out? please helpp

get a CLOSE friend of yours that you trust to ask him, but easing her way into it, not just.."o do u like_____" tell her to just..ease into the subject, or get one of his guy friends that your friends with to ask him, and making sure he doesnt tell you wanted to know.hope i helped

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i like 2 guys at school but dont know who i should pick to really like. 1 of them i have liked for a year and a half. the other i have liked for only like 4 months. please help me!! what would u do?? i am a female and i am 13.

hhm ive been there before!! well i cant tell you whitch one you should like, but i can tell you that dont go for the looks..i would say go with the person you know best!, makes you laugh more, ect. and follow your heart on whitch one to like. Now..also..no one ever said you couldnt like 2 guys at once ;), but since you only want to like one..just follow your heart, and look for the guy you find yourself more attracted to. well i could use advice on this subject to, lol, so i hope i helped!! goodluck! *p.s-im sure whoever you choose will be the right desision, let me know how things turnout!!

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what happens when ur best friend likes you and u like them but going out might ruin the friendship??

i have totally had this problem before!! yeah sure it might ruin the friendship, but before u ask her/him out..make a promise to eachother wutever the reason being that you break up will not cause yall to ruin your great friendship!! and if not that...dont do anything to make yall break up and hate eachother lol, but if after you break up and its just wierd talking, sit down and talk to him/her, and tell her/him you would like to put the past in the past and remain good friends as before!! so go for itt!! never know until you try, hope i helped!! goodluck

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i think i like this guy...but i have dated him before. i dont know why i like him. everytime i see another guy who is really cute, he always comes into my mind. i dont know why he wont leave my head. the problem is, he has a girlfriend now and we barely talk. we go to different schools and we are barely friends. even though i never see him the past always comes back to me. can u help?

ah this is the EXACT situation im in!!! hopefully i can help a little!!get to talking to him again, give him a random nice phone call one day, or text him, become good friends again! maybe it will make you feel bettter by talking to him again! its totally normal to still have feelings and trying to get him off your mind..doesnt work, hes still there!! but this is some advice a GREAT friend gave me..maybe it will help you..
***its hard to get over a breakup with a guy you REALLY liked/like! Trust me.. I went out with a guy for 5 months.. and I felt TERRIBLE after the breakup.. wow I cried and cried my eyes out.. but thinking about it now i laugh and we are pretty good buds now!
talk to your friends.. thats pretty much what I did.. I didn't get over this guy until about 4 months after the breakup, but I always went to my true friends and told them anything that I was feeling or thought, thats what friends are for right? My friends kept me busy so I couldnt even think about it!! Ask your friends if they could take you out, but you may not want to go out with your friends and their boyfriends for a while, becuse that could ruin your whole night out. It's hard to know that you just can't go up to the person that you loved and talk to them like you could before, and that that feeling may never come back, but day by day.. you'll realise.. he's so yesterday!! *hahahah
but feel free to talk to me about it anytime if this didn't help ya out.. and I know that I am trying to get over someone myself!
When your alone, do something maybe to keep your mind off *him*! Listen to music.. talk online.. watch TV.. exersise*haha they say it relieves stress!!* Hope i helped a bit! talk to me netime!

^^my friend erica told me that! it helped me ALOT..hopefully that helps you to maybe get him off your mind or to get over him!!

another idea is to..
get to talking to him again abd become goofriends,oviousally like a goodfriend..Support him!! and his girlfriend! when they break up..give it time..start talking alot, and maybe he will come back around and decide he likes you again!!

i kno this was long,and i hope it helped!! lemmie know how things goo!!goodluck!!-

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i liked this guy and then he liked me and everything was great and he waited to long to ask me out and then i stopped liking him.... and then we stayed friends for a couple of months and now he was a gf and im starting to like him again..... i dunno if i should tell him i still like him or not

well this is wut i would do! are you good friends with this guy?? if so..this is wut i say..
*if your good friends with him, then he is probabally expecting you to support him in his relationship as hard as that might be!show him you care, and you will always be there, and that you are very happy for him and his girlfriend! once they break up..if he gets dumped..comfort him...and wait a while to start flirting, and ask him if he has feelings for you!..if he dumps her,then theres no need to wait, hes obvoiusally PROBABALLY ready for a new relationship (if not..give it aleast a week or 2)..then maybe confront him on how you feel about him ask him if he feels the same way! but overall follow your heart! i hope i helped out! let me know how things go! goodlucky!

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he does have a girlfriend and he has moved on i asked my friend and she said that he doesnt like me anymore!!!!!
but i am still having feelings?
u kinda helped with looking up his number in the phone book
-Kittie-

well maybe just wait until they break up, then ...kina work the charm..haha, and well im glad i kina helped..:) hope everything tuns out ok!! goodluck

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Okay I'm goin out with this guy and it's goin good and stuff...but i think im starting to like one of my good friends and he likes me back. i dont no if i should dump my boyfriend and go out with him or just keep goin out with the person that i am goin out with. help!

toughie!!..but think...who makes you laugh the most?who makes you feel better? who makes you feel more importaunt or special! just follor your heart!!..and remember that if you decid to wait until you and your boyfriend now break up, the guy you like may not like you back then, so choose fast!! and go with your heart, it most liky wont let you down, let me know how thing work out, i hope i helped.goodluck!

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ok i need help me n' my x broke up brutal and he likes my best friend but my best friend says he's a sissy and she doesnt like him at all but the problem is i still like him

ok ill try my bestt!! first of all..that sucks he likes your best friend!! but it is good she doesnt like them..that would hurt worse!! and if you still like him..here are some ideas..hope they work
*try making him jealous and want you back
*try MAYBe telling him you still have feelings for him, but if he likes your best frind, i duno if that would work
*or just maybe try and forget about him, and find a new guy to sweep you off your feet!!because remember there are So many great guys out there! boys will come and go! but you will find that onee!!
*this one ALWAYS ALWAYS helps me..
Remember that..friends last longer than boyfriend/girlfriend anyways! (unless they get married) but we arent talking about that riht now lol..so like become GREAT really good friends with him, and then he will come to you whenever hes down..and you see those movies..once you become best friends..maybe he will relise he wants you again, but anyways..just remember friends last the LONGESTT!!..well i trie my best and i hoped i helped! goodluck! let me know how things turn out!

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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

no dont feel bad, sure most of your friends probabally have..am i right? but it will come, trust me! i thought mine never would,im 13 also! but it did! so dont be worried, you will get it sooner or later, there are tons of people that havent gotten there first kiss yet (some i might mention are even in like highschool) so dont worry! you will get it!! just keep your confindence high!! goodluck and i hoped i helped

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Kay... well there is this guy and he and I started talking about 3 weeks ago at a track meet and now we flirt a bunch at the track meets.. he is in some of my classes and like yeah I always catch him looking at me and then he always like brags about how good he is at trfack and how much i suck in a JOKEING way... but Iono if he lieks me or what.. and I am really confused plese HELP!

I think it sounds like he does like you, but then again he might just be the flirt type, and may just think of you as a really good friend. but the way to find out without embarrssing yourself is get a GUY friend of yours, and that is friends with him to ask him if he likes you! if you dont have a ny GUY friends that are friends with him, ask one your girl friends to ask him!well hope i helped, goodluck

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I reallllllllly like this guy.. and he and I went out before.. and yeah we hooked up in eveyrthing.. but i regret it tootally!!!! and thenw e broke up after about a week :( and then he and I kept talkign and stuff and were realllly tight.. but now we like never talk.. and he acts as if he hates me or something.. but deep inside of ME I really want him back!! is there anything I can do to make him want me again?

well im VERY sorry to say i dont think there anything you can do to MAKE him want you back. ttry calling him up just to talk occasionally..Not to much, he might think your weird, but just every once and a while, and become good friends agian!then maybe he will relise he made a mistake, and he will want you back. but if u dont wanna listen to that advice..go with this one..jusst try making him jealous,and wut a fun,crazy, or (or whatever kina girl he likes) you can be! make him be sorry for breaking up for you,make him miss you well goodluck! hope i helped

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14/f
OK well theres this kid at my school. (Hes in 10th im in 9th) Well we always got along because we have alot of the same friends and do one sport together. But I never really liked him that much untill we both started spending alot of time together. I really started to like him and he even kissed me once. Well after that we kinda stoped talking, but then one night we talked again and i started to like him again. He even asked to go to the movies. But I was talking to one of his friends and he said "well hes not looking for a relationship" but im confused because i was messing around with the kid and i said "What if I was like I love you and can't live without you will you go out with me" and his response was "i would proally be a little shocked but then prabably say yes" Help im so confused!

awww this isss a cute situatuon!!i think you both like eachother, just lets things happen, try talking to him about it, and see if he feels the same way about you as you do for him, i hope i helped, and gooduck, let me know how everything goes!xo

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ok thanks for the answer but see the thing that is confusing is that like alot of time in artclass he will like still my markers and when i try to get them back we always end up like face to face as if where going to kiss but then i like pull back!!

aww, well..ask him how he feels about you, and if he feels the same, well then there you go, does he act like he likes you?

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Me and my ex broke up like last year we kinda dumped each other at the same time. well a week after we broke up he got a new girl friend. i wasnt jealous i didnt care really. but ii didnt get over him that fast. he called me and said he still loved me and it was stupid for us to break up. ( he did this when he was going out with his new girl friend). well a year passed and i havent thought about him in like ever but all of a sudden i started thinking of him again! i dont no if i like him again or dont! i cant call him cause his number is changed and i dont no it. is this normal and what should i do?

Yes its Totally normal to just randomaly have feelings for a guy all over again out of nowhere! maybe you can find better, but if you feel you just have to see what hes up to these days, find a friend that was friends with them and ask them. or if you known his last name, look it up in the phone book. but if you do find his number, and get ahold of him, and you find out he has a girlfriend, just know your putting yourself into MAYBE getting hurt because hes moved on, but remember..everything happens for a reason! i hope i helped.goodluck

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I am 13 and a girl. i like a boy and he is my friend and we went out and then he dumped me 3days later and he still liked me or thats what he said. now i like him again but he is going out with some girl who i dont no! what do i do to get him back?

well i hate to be honest with you..but heres what i would do..it might hurt..but its what you should do..
*..Number one:if yall are really goodfriends, as much as it hurts to see him love/like another girl, you have to be supporitive of him, and be happy for him! now i kno thats hard, but it will mean alot to him if you are just happy for him.
and EVENTUALLY..i mean we are 13, they will break up, support him and tell him its ok if hes the one that got dumped, if he dumped her, than go ahead, and then make your moves on trying to get him back, i know that just being supportive and being happy for him is hard, but..think if you were the other girl, try and consider her feelings,shes likes him alot..and pretend you are her, and another girl steals him away from you, you wouldnt like it, so..dont try and get him back until they have broken up, hope i helped, and goodluck

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Ok, I'm like head over heels in love with this one guy. I know, cliche. But i'm only 15, and he already is planning us getting married and all this stuff. Now, dont' get me wrong, i wanna marry him, but i dont' want him to start saying all this stuff and end up hurting me. So i'm having trouble telling him i love him, but he means the world to me. How do i tell him without the risk of gettin hurt?

hm tricky. but..to be honest, you cannot hide from getting hurt by love. love will ALWAYS find a way to backfire and hurt you. the more you try and hide from it, the more it backfires on you and hurts you more. its completly understandable to be nervouse 2 say those words. they are 3 very big words.has he said them to you yet? maybe wait until he says them and then try and figure out your feelings on saying them back! hope i helped.goodluck

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okay... me and this guy... i dont know if were "talking" or anything.. we have made out like.. 50 times.. and he calls me everyday.. but.. then the next day he comes and tells me about how hot the girls at his new school are and how everyone knows him and missed him.. and all this stuff... the other night.. his friend was talking to him.. and i was sitting right there.. and his friend was like.. " i can hook you up with any girl you want.. " and he was like.. "na man.. i dont need help.. they already love me" and his school is known for having the prettiest girls in katy... so.. i dont know what to do? please help.. i will give you 5's

hm this seems a little tricky, but ill do my best. number one-how rude, thats very strange of him, but arent all guys strange haha! anyways,I know this might be a little embarssing for you to do, but you could call him and ask him whats going on between the two of you, like.."are we dating.." "do you like me.." or..just ask him some things that might clear things up a bit. if its to hard for you on the phone, ask him in an email. or on instant messager. or get a good friend you trust to. well i hope i helped.goodluck

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