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Q: This is from:why does she like what i like?

I mean come on she doesnt need to make me like her. what should i do to show her i like her? she leans and holds me wnehever and i get to shy to do something back. she flirts to me and i flirt back. i try to show her i like her but i get nervous and when i try to get serious to her about saying or do something to show her my feelings to her i always make a joke about it or tease her. why do i do that?
what should i do to let her know i like her?
should i tell her again about my feelings to her?

i know its wrogn to be with someone who is trying to like what i like but i think its her way of telling me she likes me, what you think?

the easiest way out of this is to just come out and say you like her. just tell her. and once she knows that, then ask her why she says one thing and then another. let her know that you'll accept her no matter what she likes because she needs to have her own individual personality

Q: okay she (Jackie) doesnt like every thing i like. but i told her that i like skulls on t shirts and belts and i think I'll get a tattoo of one. One week later me and her hang out with all of our friends, and she came up to me and said "i like to get a tatto too, like a skull" i respond "yeah me too but my own design"

(it might sound like she likes skulls too)

and then my friends talk about life in futuer, i said i dont like kids & i never wanted kids cause i dont see my self as a good parent. but Jackie always wanted kids, we all were at the movies & there was kidds making alot of noise in the movies, she moved up to me to whisper in my ear and said, "see this is the reson why i dont like kids." i nod okay and began to watch the movie. then tonight i was checking her myspace page and it read the persons details (that list about themself) and it read, children:someday.

whats the deal!?
it kinda sounds like she is liking what i like so i can like her. What do you think?

yeah she's deffinatly changing herself to be something she's not for you. which is wickedd not cool at all. tell her that you respect that your trying to get you to like her but it's not going to work that way. you have to explain to her that she doesn't need to change herself as a person for someone. and tell her you would like her more if she had her own personality and morals, not yours.

Q: This is from: am i stupid.

was it a coincidence or what?
i was afriad to let her have the letter cause of her respons. i wish it i said "i wish she didnt get the note" and now she tells me she didnt get the note. so do wishes really come true? or was really a coincidence?

personally, i believe wishes do come true and i go by "be careful what you wish for" it coudl've possibly been a coincidence, but then again what if she did get the letter and liked you back. you never know unless you give it a shot.

you have to fess up and ask her if she likes you or not. thats the only way this weight will be lifted off your shoulders

Q: ok there is this kid that likes me, but i dont like him. he told me yesturday thru text and i couldnt write anything back. i dont want to tell him anything that will hurt him because i kno what it feels like to like someone who doesnt like you back. so how do i tell him, hurting him the least possible. thanks in advance!!!

if i were you i'd just be honest with him. if your most comfortable texting, then text him back. tell him that you really like him, but only as a friend. and then say some nice things about him that will make him feel better about him self. tell him he's really nice and has a great sense of humor and is really cute but you think you just see him as a friend. that way he knows your not trying to be an asshole about it.

Q: I'm 20/F.

i want to tell my best friend that i have feelings for her. i liked her ever scens i knew her. i've been getting alot of body languge from her and my friend told me she likes me back cause i told him what she does. (flirt, leans on me and teases me too.) i see her mostly every weekends and i always have the chance to tell her about it but i'm a wuss. when i'm around her i'm a big clumsy person, and she laughs at my clumsyness just cause.
i dont know how to tell her and the only thing is a note.
so i send her a note telling her about my feelings.(I sent it on sunday)
i asked her if she got it but she told me no.
wensday at midnight she called me cause she couldnt sleep. (she never did that before)
we talked but not about the letter.(i thought she got my letter, and thats why she called.)
a month later i text her and ask if she got my later yet. she relpy "no it maybe got lost."

the thing is she is promblely ignoring it as i'm too. but i dont flirt with her or try to sit closer to her. She dose!
She still leans on me for no reson, flirts, calls me cute nicknames and loves to tick me off.
she must be really friendly person or she likes me?

So how do i tell her?
should i ask her if she likes me?
if i do she might think i'm stupid for thinking that she dose.
what do i do?

okay maybe the letter really did get lost?! just a thought, and i would deffinatly tell her before she moves on to someone else. as for telling her, just go straight out and say it. tell her everything thats on your mind and how you feel. don't be afraid or back out from doing it because then you'll never know what would've happened if you did tell her.

Q: Does anyone have links ... or , just quotes they can type that i could put in my info. like from songs or just websites. i recently got dumped and id liek ot make my boyfriend feel bad.

i've got some good quotes on making boyfriends feel bad (:

i know i'm usually hanging on i used to hate to see you go but this time it's different i don't even feel the distance i'm not missing you.

i'm not here for your entertainment, you don't really wanan mess with me tonight just stop and take a second, i was fine before you walked into my life

i could have another you in a minute, so don't you ever for a second get to thinking your irreplaceable

fuck what i said, it don't mean shit now, fuck the presents might as well throw them out, fuck all those kisses they didnt mean jack. fuck you too, i dont want you back

Q: This may seem like a stupid question..but when you kiss someone, like a boyfriend, are you supposed to feel something? You know what I mean..

this question's actually pretty good. and i'm pretty sure you're not supposed to feel anything. well at least i don't. hope i helped,
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Q: okay. idk how to say this, but everytime i like a guy, i
have no idea who they are and slowly get to know them.
only to realize that EVERY SINGLE GUY i have ever
liked has been a skater! and i know you're thinking, "well
i mean how do you not know he's a skater..." well i just
dont get it! like they dont LOOK like skaters (all of
them) but i ALWAYS like a guy and my friends or who-
ever are like, oh he's a skater.. and im like... why?!

is something wrong with me?? why does this always
happen?

well darling, its quite obvious that you're attracted to skaters. hate to break it to you. nothing's wrong with you its just that you have a tendency to fall for guys like that. nothing wrong with it, you just have a thing for skaters (: