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Q: hiya...i have been single 4 1 month after being with my ex boyfriend 4 4 and a half years...it wasnt a perticular good relationship and it should of ended sooner..when we broke up i think i kind of craved male attention as i didnt get this from my ex and i slept with 2 or 3 people..however i met this new people when i was out in clubs and that...im just a bit worried now cos every guy i have met is just after sex? im not saying i want a relationship cos its way too soon..but im worried that these guys are all the same and i wont find anybody who i really like..and the nice guys who seem interested in gettin to know me who arent after sex im just not attracted too? i dont know if i wil ever find the right person 4 me? im 20
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theres still hope sweetie. the way to go about findin someone is takin it very slow. at first they are only gonna be interested in sex. DONT GIVE IT TO THEM. tell them yu just want to be their friend. get to know them on a personal level. ask them about past relationships...like their longest one...why they are single....why they are only after sex. just get to know them..show them yu are more than a piece of ass an yu are a respectable woman whos lookin for someone to spend time with an not someone to just have sex with.
it seems all men only want sex now-a-days...yu just have to take things extra slow...become their bestfriend that way that see the best in yu then work your way up from there. cuz yu do want your boyfriend to be your bestfriend. if yu cant stand him as a friend then yu damn sure aint gonna be able to stand him as a boyfriend.
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Q: My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend are always fighting. They fight about their past relationship and what went wrong. They fight because one of them will bring up their current love life and the other doesn't want to hear about it. I'm pretty sure this means that they aren't over each other, but don't really know it themselves and/or won't admit it. Does anyone know if this is like...a psychology term that happens a lot? What should I do? Please, any advice will help.
Thanks.
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it seems like theres still something there. honestly a guy wudnt fight wit his ex if he didnt still have feelings for her. if it bothers yu yu need to sit him down an talk about it. maybe shes really where he wants to be an thats why they always argue about there love life. just talk to him about it. dont make it an arguement tho. as his gf yu need to be vey understandin at a time like this. goin about the conversation the wrong way cud cause him to get really mad.
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I enjoy giving advice. i always keep an open mind about wuteva it is that yu may need advice about. i always try to keep my advice positive but i always keep it real.
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Gender: Female Location: Nicholasville, Ky Occupation: unemployed Age: 18 Member Since: January 11, 2010 Answers: 10 Last Update: January 11, 2010 Visitors: 2002
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