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im in 8th grade i go to Anthony wayne.
i love volleyball. I also love music i would def. die without it. i love having fun and hangin wiht my friends. my friends and my family are my life.i have one brother and hes older.all my friends come to me for advice, and told me i should do this so here i am. :)

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ok well i like these two boys and we are always flirting. but one says he doesnt like me and the other says he likes someone else. i dont know what i should do because i like them both but i dont know if they realy like someone else or if they are just saying that. because we are always flirting. what should i do?

Well hello someone who i cant say. hah.

hi,

umm okay well this is easy since i know the situtaion. But i dont know the perticuluars. Ummm are thses boys flirts with everyone? cause that might show something. Well maybe you hsould talk to them and say we flirt alot but i like you in a bf gf type way not just flirting fun way. And you can give it a shot and see what they say. but if they both say they like you in a boyfriend girlfriend way then you need to pick one. Two boyfriends at a time isnt too good. But you just need to pick which one your more confortable with and stuff like that. But please dont say i cant do that, because you can you never know until you try and youll regret not tellin them if you find out in the future they liked you. and you could have been going out with one of them this whole time but nows its too late. well i hope i helped.

thanks :)

Abby.

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um hi i dont think i know you but my name is shaneyah, and im 15. i need some major help and i think someone around the same age as me would know whats best for me. well me and my boyfriend just had sex not to long ago, and it was wanted. but when i fell asleep he took the condom off and raped me, and got me pregnant. i dont want a baby at this age, and my mom has no idea yet what has happened to me. i cant dump my boyfriend cause i dont want to be a single mom, and i dont want my baby to not know his/her dad. i have no idea what to do, and i dont want to tell my mom what has happened. i cant leave my boyfriend hes really the only thing i have, please help me.

heyy,

Ok well uhmm your in a very hard situation right now. If a boy would do that to you then he truly doesnt have you at heart. You should deftinely tell you mom you will not regret it. Moms always know what to do and trust me theyve been in a situtaion at some point like this. But maybe different. Your mom will prob band you from seeing him and thas not a bad idea. and i know you dont want to be a single mom but you need to start thinkin whats best for the baby. Maybe you are someone that doesnt mind oboration and i am not here to say if that is right or wrong. All im saying is your family WILL be there for you and yes they may freak at first but theyll be there for you. and you said you dont want to tell your mom but you should they,l prob figure out once your belly starts devolping. sooner the best. You could always have the baby and go through with rasing it, or obortion, or adoption. I am not gonna tell you my opinion which is wrong or best as an option because its up to you. i hope you make the right decsion thats best for your daughter. and remember if u want to finish school so you put her/him up for adoption you can make a deal with the paents that adopt your baby that you could see the baby as it grows up. theres always a way. well i hope i helped.

thanks :)

Abby.

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Ok...the other night i went to a party with my cousin and some of his friends. Well we were all riding in one his friend's jeep..and none of the guys made any conversation. I didnt know understand why? I just sat there and looked out the window while the guys were talking about all sorts of nasty stuff. It bothered me because im not a bad lookin girl? Most guys think im pretty or w/e but i didnt understand? So it made me start thinkin..i wanna be sexier..and more of a catch. Any advice on how and why these guys did this? (17/F)

ok. first you should never have to change to impress a guy. if you dress sexier like 2 inch eyeliner and lots of mascara and smokey eye shadow like alot of it and short short short short skirts that barely cover your butt and hooker heels. all ur doing is giving them the wrong impression completly. theyre just gonna think your easy and u want some, and guys talk about sexual stuff in front of girls to look experience and tough and cool. or theyre just immature. dont treat your self like meat that has to get dressed up for guys. be yourself. dont sell yourself short. your better than that.

thanks
abby :)))

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okay so basically i like this guy a lot.
and i think he likes me but im not sure.
and i wanna tell him that i like him back, but i'm scared that im going to get rejected and then feel like a complete loser.

anyone wanna help me?
i have no idea what to do :[

it is very good that you like Him and the only way that you can find out if he likes you back is if you tell him. you have to be open with your feelings or you'll never know if he likes you. because he wont wait around forver. so dont take to long. you wont be a loser. at least you were big enough to say i like you.
hope i helped.

thanks.

abby.

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