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Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 11 months in 2 weeks. Well I dont see him as much as i used to and as much as i liked to. cuz i moved. So its hard but we manage to see eachother at least once every 2 weeks. But this has been going on sense oct. But we see eachother almost every mon. for about 10 min. cuz i run into town. Anyways he told me tonight he is a bit depressed but he wont spill why. Im his gf.. shouldnt he tell? I know its hard.. but he was there through everything for me. He also told me when he was over at his friends house he could have gotten high but when he was offered he said he kind of wanted to but didnt. He asked if i would be mad if he did. He isnt a stoner.. so.. I dont know. I know that might be like apart of him being a bit down. i dont know what to do like how to react.. its confusing i dont get why he is bottling it up inside when i always let him in on what was going on in my mind. At the end of the convo he said that he would tell me if he could. So im hoping its not that bad he cant tell someone. Should I write him a letter? like what should i say in it because i dont want to seem pushy.
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There could be a lot of reasons on why he's depressed. He should be able to tell you everthing and anything. Even though you dont see each other everyday I'm sure you've got a strong relationship. Me might feel that you'll think badly about him or something like that. Its ok to be persisten even if you think you maybe a little pushy its fine. Its alright to write him a little, just be honest about how you feel about the hole thing. tell him what you think......
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Q: Okay so here's my problem...I have a lot of friends, and i would say 70% of them are guys. youre probably wondering what the problem is right? Well the problem is, i have a tendancy to fall in love with my guy friends because they are so sweet and the perfect boyfriend material type for me. Sometimes i think they like me by how they act around me, but then i find out they only like me as a "friend" I'm sick of being just the friend and i want to show the guys i can be more than a friend...how can i should my guy friends that i can be more then just friends with them? That i want to be seen as girlfriend material?
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Just because he may over look you for now doesn't mean you dont have a chance with him. Just be yourself around him. If he loves another person then maybe once he's over that you'll be there to confort him. Its hard to see a good friend as some you can date, but if you lead him on he'll get the idea...
Good luck!
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Q: Hey. Well i have been talking to this one guy for close to 1 year now...but the thing is...I have never met him in my life. We met through a friend of both of ours. He lives in a differant state and the only time i talk to him is on the internet and on the phone. I have told him I loved him and he told me the same. Do you think it is possible to be so in love with somebody you've never met?
(Sorry if that was a little confusing)
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love is a great thing, Just because your in different states doesn't mean you cant love each other. I think he truely loves you.And you are really great person if he's been talking to you for almost a year. Its very possible to love someone you've never met. Even if you dont see him for, 4 years, if its ment to be you'll find each other...
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Q: Okay. I went out with this one guy, like 3 times. And every single time, I thought he changed, but he hasn't. I used to think that I loved him.. But then everytime we go out, he acts like a jerk. At first he would just completly ignore me.. Then he would go on to throwing rocks at me and other stuff like that.
What should i do? Every time i try to talk to him..He says he will change, but he doesnt.How can i help? And he told me that IM the reason HE chews. Im about to go cut myself! Plez help!
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Dont go on and take it on yourself. He's not worth you going this crazy for him to treat you like crap. Let him know that you wont be taken for granted and that you wont always be there. Even if he says he will change, you've heard it before so dont bleave him. He had his chance...
Please dont take it out on yourself.. i've had a few friends cut their self and its not fun...
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Q: I starting going out with this one guy from my school at a ski lodge. He called me at midnight and kept saying how much he loved me, and he only knew me for 12 hours? I dumped him the next morning becuase i found out he was going out with TWO other girls that i didn't know about, at the same time We were going out. he also told those two girls that he "never went out with me" and "NEVER would" I completly freaked out on him at lunch and even slapped him. He denyed everythingg! I also heard of all these gurls he apparently screwed. What can i say tomorrow to him at lunch to make him spit out the truth??
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You should talk to the other girls that he was with and go up to him with them. Confront him with a group and keep clam this time. Whatever he says just remember that he's just trying to get over on you and the other girls. Dont do it in such a public setting too, it might be a little easier for him to tell the truth if he's not trying to look cool infront of his friends at his lunch table.
I hope everything works out...
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I'm a well rounded 15 year old guy. I'm a soccer player and a swimmer. I play three instruments. (Saxohone/drums/paino) and i'm an artist. I'm just here to Help...
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Location: New Jersey AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: January 24, 2005 Answers: 11 Last Update: March 4, 2005 Visitors: 2895
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