Hello, i'm Liz Udale! People call me Lu or Lulu because that's my initials (L.U)! I would love to think that i can help you with any worry you have! Don't be afraid to ask me! I won't be embarassed to answer, and i will try to be truthful, but nice at the same time! I'm only really here for advice, not like how does my ipod work or something, because i wouldn't have a clue how to fix it or anything lol :D Also my specialist subjects are just what i'm best at, but i will try to solve any questions! :D
I'm very experienced with sex questions and will always be interested!
Love, Liz xx
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19/f College Student
There's this guy I REALLY like. He goes to my school. He looks at me A LOT. Like, he's always starring. But, whenever we actually get to talk, he get's nervous, chokes up, and is REALLY shy. I don't know how to break the ice and get this moving along. I'm not trying to push things, but I know that he has a great personality. I just wish he would show it around me more. Any advise you can give me for the next time I see him?
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I'm not too great with guys personally, but i just wanna tell you not to hold back if you think he likes you back! I built up a great relationship with someone after i broke up with my ex boyfriend, and we ended up really liking each other - to the point everyone pretty much told us to get together. But i was all 'the girl cant ask the guy' about things and he ended up getting a girlfriend. Bummer for me, make sure you don't ruin whatever you guys have by being scared to talk or make a move like me!! Good luck hunny! xx
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Okay so I am a 23-year-old female who has never had a guy go down on her. It isn't that there haven't been offers, I guess the thought just terrifies me!
I have all the usual fears that girls have about these things, you know like smells and tastes... things like that. I am about to get married to a man who says he wants to go down on me, but I am more terrified of that than I am of getting married!
Should I just relax and let it happen? Is it everything that they say it is? (link)
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If you want to then go for it. There's nothign to be embarrassed about - it's just natural. I agree that if you wash before hand you'll feel more comfortable about yourself; you'll have less to worry about. Possibly use a frangrance-free soap so that it's not strong (or tastes all soapy).
Just relaxing will make it easier - make sure your comfortable. I'm sure once you've done it once you'll absolutely love it!
Don't feel like you have to though - if you're marrying the guy then you have the rest of your lives to get your head around the idea and experiment!
Congrats on your wedding :) x
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15/f
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months now. I have no idea what to get him for valentines day. Is the classic card and chocolate bad? Or anything better I can get him? I don't want to go all out and everything. Just something to show I care. Any ideas? Thanks! (link)
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Chocolate and cards are great! I'm going to get my boyfriend a funny card (but still cute, just not soppy) and fill the envelope with love hearts that have cute things written on them. Just have a look through a packet for sweet ones - like 'True Love' or 'Kiss Me'. The rubbish ones you dont want you get to eat! I'm also making some choccies with a heart shaped ice cube tray - melt chocolate, fill tray, in the fridge and eat!! I love it! Hope this helps :) x Happy Valentines!! x
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kaayso,
my dad doesn't let me go to the movies with guys and girls like if there are 2 girls and 3 guys i wanna see a movie with he says no. i rlly wanna go cause alot of my friends are guys.
HELPP .
thanks so much for all you who reply (link)
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Have you tried talking to your Dad? Maybe if you explained to him that alot of your friends are guys and that you were just going as a group of friends he might change his mind.
If this doesn't work, then ask him what the problem with it is. Don't be pushy, or annoyed when you ask him, just sit down and stay in an adult manner (hopefully showing your maturity). If for example he says that the reason why is because your still young or something like that then try and compromise with him. Say you'll be home by 10, or let him pick you up or something like that.
Hope it goes well (enjoy the movies lol :D)
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18/f and 20/f
My boyfriend usually knows when I am on my period and knows to stay away from anything sexual during those few days. I'm supposed to be on it right now but I'm running a bit late. When I tried to well...start things with him today he questioned my period. I simply explained that I was a little late but it's no big deal because it's not unusual for me. Well, that didnt help at all and now his is over his head in fear.
I know I'm not--but he won't be satisfied until I get my period. He wants to tell his mother about it and I cant seem to talk to him out of it. I asked him to give it a few days before saying anything but he won't listen.
I dont want his mother to think we're being irresponsible when nothing is certain. If in fact we are pregnant, I will certainly go to both sets of parents with him--but not until then. How can I get him to understand? (link)
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i agree with mangy_momma (sp?) but you can get a pregnacy test (one that you have to pee on (lol)) and it will tell you whether you're pregnant. They are not always correct, but if you suspect pregnancy then leave it 3-5 days after sex to take the test (the test will explain it better) you can buy them at local supermarkets.... Just talk to him :D
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okay so i jus recently met this boy brad. so brad and i started talking. fliring non-stop. and hes taking me on a date real soon. he says he likes me already. hes a major babe. he says im the prettiest girl hes ever seen. always talks good things about me to my friends. but here comes the problem. rachel, his ex. shes a friggin bitch to be honest. they went out for 3 years. they broke up and got back together in feb. its anoyying how hes so stupid and goes back to her. i remember him telling me that i was changing is mind fast about him forgetting her. i honestly do not know why he likes her. she recently cheated on him. they broke up. then she does something to make him forgive her. and honestly it pisses me off. hes all i think about. i know me and him would be a good couple. okay hes even told my SISTER and BEST friend he likes me. YOU DONT TELL A GIRLS SISTER & BEST FRIEND YOU LIKE HER THEN GO BACK OUT WITH YOUR EX. im so confused. i really dont know if this is guna be another break up soon. but its like if me and him get serious i dont want her coming back in the picture then him leaving me for her. i really want her to just move on and get a boy. BUT he says the only reason he is with her is so she doesnt go with another guy. WOW RIGHT!? he said that to my best friend amanda. amanda and him are good friends, he tells her everything. so im realy confused. what should i do? please dont say MOVE ON. becuase i honestly have tried, its too hard. i need him in my life, more then a friend. it kills me to say this ... i think i love him. i think about him 24.7 .. talk about him all the time .. when i talk to him i smile all the time. i dont know what to do .. does he like me more then her? is he jus playing me? .. p.s this story will change daily & id realy appreciate if i could get someones screenname so you could tlel me wat to do wen he changes things up? THANKS SO MUCH!! (link)
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Not being mean or anything, but it does seem like he may be messing around with you. I know how it feels to love somebody who is torn between two, but perhaps you should talk to him when you go on that date you said about? If it were me, i would just ask him whether he is still interested in his ex and where you are with him? I hope this helps, and sure you can talk to me about it any time ;D Tell me how things go with him! :D My screename? I'm not sure what you mean? do you mean my msn? or my advicenators name? cos if it's advicenators, click on Xxx-lulu269-xxX at the top of this message to go to my collomn, and then you can mail me ! :D
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ughh ok this is really embarrassing and thank god my name doesnt show up with this. But... how do u makeout? like ppl have told me and stuff but can someone actually give me like really goood guidelines? (link)
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Well if you're a boy:
Just kiss her and put your tounge to her teeth and if she opens her mouth then go in, if not then she's not ready for tongue yet. then just move your tongue around her mouth and she will too :D
If you're a girl:
Same goes, but you might want to wait for him to touch your teeth. Depends how straight forward you are! :D
Hope this helps :D
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