dancing is just about everything that makes my life sooo... good i guess. Advice i love to give out and help my friends with... I'm A Christian... I proud one! :] hehe if you wanna ask me one-on-one advice, IM me... only for Advice... I can't really speak to people I really don't know and next thing you know I'll get raped... JKK JKK! hahaha well um just so... outgoing... i love people and never judge people... :] :]
E-mail: cutahbaabee32@aol.com Gender: Female Location: New York Occupation: giving advice! Age: 15 AIM: cutahbaabee32 Member Since: March 9, 2009 Answers: 8 Last Update: March 13, 2009 Visitors: 2080
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I am almost 16 years old and have NEVER kissed a guy before.wtf?!! It mostly has to do with my size though. I am 5'11, very big boned and has some chubchub.But still/it is pretty pathetic. i'm not grubby, i shower everyday, where nice, clean clother, have good hygeine...and still nothing. I know some guys have liked me but i mostly just think they are too embarassed to ask me out and stuff. I'm not a mean person, I have many many friends and people and teachers talk well to me. i have never once been in a bitchy/girly fight. People like me.(yea....sounds pretty cocky) sooo what's up??..i need love!! (link)
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lol same here! except for the bitchy/girly fight... hahaha im kidding im kidding. Well, guys... they are just so... wierd. They would show they like you then the next day they would be on another girl. What im saying is that it's ok that you haven't. (because I haven't either) and they just too scared to. What you should do is try and talk to them. Show that you like them--err, just a bit though. Don't go all boing-flippy-Ahmahgawddd! on them because they'd think you're weird haha. You seem like a nice person... It'll come, assure you. Just the little "I like your shirt" or simple conversations will get you there, garitee it... wait is it gerinty? um whatever. So there you go. tehe :]
Always there 4 you 24/7, XxcutieXx
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So i met this guy and he is really sweet.... I didnt think I was gonna fall too hard for him but i think did. He's really nice to me and we have good conversations. I sometimes picture him as like a best friend that i can go shopping with and he can help me pick out an outfit or maybe we could go to the movies and just have fun.... he is leaving soon for a few months and its kinda got me down in the dumps... Im really confused about this... do i have feelings for him or do i not and what do i do or say.... I dont know really just let me know what you think (link)
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and the cards go up, scribbled yes! Yes as in, YES you do have feelings for him!
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well my boyfriend or ex boyfriend ( we were dating and went on a break but are now trying to figure things out because we still love eachother but we arent officially dating again) whatever he is, has been talking to this girl he used to hook up with ALOT. he pretty much hooked up with her all while we were talking. and he told me about it and it sounded like she was just another girl. so i didnt care because me and my bf wernt even dating at the time. we were just best friends so he told me everything. well from what he told me, he had stopped hooking up with her a week before we started dating. while we were dating she always told me he talked to her and when i asked him, he didnt deny it. she said he would ask her how she was and he would tell her about the problems we were having in our relationship. so i thought maybe she wasnt just another girl to him and it made me mad that he was telling her all this. then he told me that he cared about her. well he has always been a player and never cared about any girls he had hooked up with except for me because we started out as best friends so this kind of made me a little weirded out that he suddenly cared about her. well now that we are on a break, she told me that they had been talking and he tells her alot of stuff about our relationship and about me. she came up to me today and said he had told her something about me that she couldnt tell me. this really pissed me off. i want to know if they have started hooking up again. i mean i guess my bf or ex bf whatever, can hook up with people now since we are broken up. but we still act like we are dating and are trying to make things work so we can date again. but i really dont know what to think. i dont want to seem like the jealous clingy ex because he tells her everything and i guess it is like him telling any other friend about it. but they had a thing so its not like theyre just friends. me and this girl are friends, or i pretend to be just to stay on her good side. i dont know what to do because i think maybe she is influeincing him to leave me. she tells him stuff like love at this age isnt real and other dumb things and i think he listens to her. i dont want her to take my spot and i hate how he talks to her about me. what should I do? (link)
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whoa, well... since you wanna be his friend still, be it. She can't make you not be it. I dunno, I'm sorta confused with the whole situation (im sorry!) but, it sounds like you wanna be his... "BFF"? Im not sure but... Yeah, just stick to being his friend and talk to him as if he was just your best friend, like before you started going out with him. So... YEAH :] (er... i don't think that made any sense... :[.) I hope it works...haha
Always there 4 you 24/7, XxcutieXX
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okay so about 6 or 7 months ago i broke up with this guy jeremy for a multiple number of reasons. during that 6 and 7 month period he has been harassing the hell out of me!
he's sending me messages on facebook that say 'your a dirty whore go f*** yourself'
i got phone calls from restricted that had his voice on the other end saying creepy things.
i got strange screen names iming me saying they were one of my friends and when i asked my friends about it they had no idea what i was talking about.
so now me and this guy kevin are talking and were kind of going out... but not really. weve been on dates and were talking constantly and we've admitted to liking eachother... the typical.
so i get an inbox from my crazy ex boyfriend saying 'your a f****n bitch cuz you like kevin!' and hes making fun of him saying all these bad things.
he is in the same network as me on facebook so he can look at everything i do. and i talk to kevin a lot on facebook... and kevin is in the same network.
hes also been telling me that hes put a knife to his throat cause of me and crap like that. i know he's lying but he just won't admit it. half of the reason i broke up with him was cause of his lying.
i removed him as a friend on facebook, myspace, blocked him on aim, and blocked his youtube account!
he still finds ways to send me annoying and creepishly harrassing messages.
he wont leave me alone! i never respond to these messages cause i assume it will just be feeding the monster. but this has really got to stop before he gets carried away. hes coming to my school next year because of me and i feel as if hes stalking me!
i told my parents and theyre thinking of calling his parents and telling them everything thats happened. but i dont know if that will make things worse or not.
i honestly dont know what to do and hes scaring me.
help? (link)
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Yes, telling your parents was good... :] but his stalking, ha, it's making me scared just reading this! Well, like you have been doing, ignore him, and if you need to, tell the police by going with your parents to talk to them... Ehh, i know it sounds... EHH. But, just try it because it's going too far. What my guess is, is that he's jealous of you because he misses you. You should... if you wanna... just try and IM him and ask why he's doing this to you (before you go and tell the police) then if he's doing it for no reason, tell the police because that's harassment obviously. And, if he says something that you wanna hear (I don't know what you wanna hear... lol) tell him you forgive him... Uh, I think that advice wasn't good enough... I don't think this made any sense... just try it... if it doesnt work, blame it on me.. :[ haha... If I could, I'll beat his ass 4 you! lol!
Always there 4 you 24/7, XxcutieXx
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Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now and i thought everything was going pretty good, but latley he has been acting really weird, almost like he doesnt want to be around me, and its really starting to bug me. I mean i love this kid with all my heart and i honestly dont want to lose him does anyone have advice?? i mean i dont know if he likes someone else,or if he is just losing interest. What should i do??? Thanks =] (link)
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What you should do is to talk to him, come out with what's on your mind saying, "Alec (whatever his name is lol I'll say Alec
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