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Sorry it's so long, I just desparately need help. I e-mailed my crush at the start of June about how I felt about her (yes, its me again) and she said she liked me as a friend. It was actually kind of funny, every other word was "sorry." So, anyways, I've been thinking about her ever since. If you don't know what I mean, look up the lyrics to "The Longest Time" by Billy Joel, it perfectly describes me. Well, I recently e-mailed her again saying that I just can't stop thinking about her, and how right she feels to me. A week later, after a lot of stress that I'd been through, she replied that she had been away for a while with no internet access, and that she had been thinking about me the whole time, and she didn't know if what she had previously said was true. However, she had to clear up her current relationship, as it's already pretty much over, and then once she's done with it, she'll update me again. And so I'm really happy, because why shouldn't I be? I've been thinking about her non-stop for months! But then I find my eyes tearing, and I'm still practically crying right now, fifteen minutes later! Why is this? Because I just found out she's in another relationship? Couldn't be that, because she said that relationship is practically done for! Is it tears of joy? Doesn't feel like it.
Then there's my parents. I told my dad about it last night, and he acted like it was no big deal. Ya know why? You see, I'm a really late developer, so my voice hasn't changed yet, and because of that, he doesn't think it's very serious, but I know it is!
Ah crap, I'm seriously crying now, and I don't even know why! Please, Advicenators, help me fast! (Also tips on first dates are welcomed and encouraged!) (link)
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oh my god... it was the same here. i found myself crying over absolutely NOTHIN.. it was tears of joy, it was the voice in the back of my head saying "wait, what if something goes wrong" and then the other voice says "BUT GUESS WHAT! I THINK I HAVE HER dRAWN 2 ME!" its a kind of confusion/happyness thing. i have to say i hated it. it will go away as soon as she makes up her mind. for now, just whenever you email her, be VERY nice. to make you feel better for now, look @ funny emailed pictures and listen to a happy song that u enjoy. And if your parents dont understand how serious this all is, then once you 2 are 2gether you can rub it in their faces (:
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the gurl really likes me put i dont like goin places with my best friend which is her cuzin and her we are gonnna prob go out wen the summer ends because she doesnt want a boy friend in the summer.i dont like goin wit my friend and my almost gurl friend because i cant be myself wit him around and she noes that. i dont want my almost girl friend goin out wit any guys i dont noe aboutu no so help me out if u could thanxs i need help bad i dont no wat to do (link)
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i am a girl, and i know that if i luv someone, i wudnt let them go just because theyre different around their friend.. i dont know if ur almost girlfriend is the same, but im just saying my input. because my boyfriend is always bein cool around his best friend... but i think its funny that he gives me the specail treatment.
like the other advice, i think you should talk to your friend about it and ask him if he can come do stuff another time. (but remember to tell him about the situation). u should also talk to your almost girl friend about it too, see if shes prepared to possibly wait depending on your friends reactions.
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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
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chin up girl. think about it.... he said it was going to feel weird he what was gonna happen. i bet he feels the same way.. i bet he knows exactly why u pulled away, but in case he doesnt, just tell him exactly what you told us. i bet he feels REALLY weird also. just talk to him about it
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