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Mattayo45
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Well, I've had a crush on this guy for a few months.
He knows because my now ex-friend told it right to his face. At first he didn't talk to me much, then my friend had given him my screen name and we talked a little on there and he said hi to me in the halls and stuff. Now, suddenly, he occasionally asks who I like (I'm guessing it's to know if I still like him) and he's been IMing me first. He seems a little more interested in me lately, and sometimes we talk in the halls (very occasionally, but either I go up to him first, or he comes up to me) Lately on IM when he says he has to go, he usually only said "got to go sorry" and got off. Now he's saying stuff like "got to go, sorry, bye, see you tomorrow," and smiley faces. Do you think hes interested? He likes another girl I know.. but I just want to know if its possible.
It sort of sucks since summers almost here and we will be in HS next year, probably never see each other. (link)
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From what you say, he likes you. He's showing intrest, and that is very good. Apparently, he wants to know who you like, and when he has to go, he doesn't want to leave you and say good-bye. I think he may be waiting for you to make the next move. Just ask him if he likes you. What have you got to lose?
I hope that I helped.
XxEmo_HelpxX
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me and my best friend started a friends with benefits relationship about a month before he broke up with his girlfriend, which i felt bad about but we have this very strong sexual attraction that has lasted for years and we can't break the habbit. ok so thats bad enough that he cheated but are people who are involved in friends with benefits relationships considered whores? just because we can screw with 'just a friend'. it's not like i'd screw anyone, i trust my best friend very much. would you think i was a whore? (link)
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In a way, I do consider that a little whorish. Now, don't get me wrong here. I'm not saying that you are a whore, but I'm just wondering why you wouldn't be able just to have a relationship with him. You two obviously have a sexual attraction, and like you said you trust him, why not turn it into something more meaningful? I'm sure that if he values your friendship and opinions [not to mention your reputation] he will agree.
I hope that I helped.
XxEmo_HelpxX
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I really need help! our 6 month anniversary is coming up on the 9th of april and what to get him something!! ( it can't be too expensive i am only 13) I wrote him a poem on valentines day but I don't know if I should write him another one or not!!! I need to give him something very sentimental (if you reply by saying I should give him a kiss I will rate you very very low!) (link)
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okay, so i know this might sound a little bit cliche, but make him a scrapbook. It doesn't even just have to be of pictures, just of things that remind you of him. Put in tickets from movies you went to or something. If you don't have things like that, just print out pictures. Put poems in it if you'd like [ www.best-love-poems.com ].
also, you can bake him cookies or something of the sort.
I hope I helped! XxEmo_HelpxX
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I'm 17 years old and a female.
Okay, So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 18 months and we are totally in love and everything. I want to do something nice for our 18 months, but I don't have any ideas. I want to do something creative and "made with love." I've already baked him cookies, gave him a picture framed of the two of us and I want to stay away from the whole scrapbook thing since it's so overdone and every girlfriend makes one for their boyfriend...so if you have any ideas, let me know! (link)
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I think you should burn him a cd of songs that remind you of him or songs that you've danced to or something. You know, love songs. [ If you need help thinking of some just ask me ]. You could also write him a poem [ or get one from www.best-love-poems.com ] Or write a song about him. Whatever you feel is right.
Good luck and Congratulations on your 18 months!
♥
XxEmo_HelpxX
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how long does it usually take before you kiss someone...(nothing big...)
like i guess how long should you wait, so it's not like considered too soon¿ (link)
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Well, there's really no exact answer to this question. I think that you should wait untill you're ready. Untill both of you are ready. Maybe you should mentioin something about kissing, like a hint, to your partner and see what they say. If they really don't say anything, then maybe they aren't ready.
Of course, if you kiss them, I'm sure they'll be fine with it.
Whenever you feel the time is right.
I hope I helped!
XxEmo_HelpxX
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ok i just now started going out with this guy,kevin yesterday but we do not connect you kno its like we are shy all the time or somthing we barley talk i need some help 2 get lose around him soo we can act like boy friend and girlfriend i need sum help on how a girlfriend is suppose 2 act this is only my second boyfriend but i want 2 get it right this time because i really like him i dont want us 2 break up because of lack of communication and intrest
plez help me (link)
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Well, since you two just started going out, it's going to be a little hard at first, all relationships are like that. You start out shy and after about a week, you start talking more. Just try talking to him and being yourself. Maybe try calling him or have him call you. As for acting like a girlfriend, just act like yourself. Laugh at his jokes, tell him you love him, maybe put your head on his shoulder. Trust me darling, it will start feeling a lot less awkward after a little while. It just takes some getting used to. I hope I helped!
xxEmo_Helpxx
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So its summer for my school and like theres this guy and we both like each other and i want to go places with him with my group of friends and can anyone think of any place besides the movies because that is soo boring:]
THANKS I RATE 5S FOR ALL. (link)
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Going to the mall is always fun, or maybe to a party. Also, amusement parks would be great. You could ride a roller coaster with him and pretend to be scared and grab his hand. Invite him over with a few friends or something and have a party. Good Luck and I Hope I Helped!
XxEmo_HelpxX
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is it okay that my boyfriend is 3 years older than me? I'm 13 and he's 16 is that bad? (link)
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Don't worry about it hun. As long as you love him and he loves you, there's nothing wrong with it at all. Don't worry about what the others think just follow your heart. Remember: age is just a number.
Hope I Helped!
XxEmo_HelpxX
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There is this person i think i like and well its a girl and i think she used to like me like that but im not sure if she still does and i dont know if she likes girls....what do i do?? And im 14.. (link)
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Well, the best way to go is to ask her. That's the only way you can really get an answer straight from her. If your nervous, you could always do it on the computer or ask one of her friends to ask her. It may be hard to do, but it's the only way you're going to get a real answer. Good Luck and I hope I Helped.
XxEmo_HelpxX
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Ok well this thursday I think im going to the movies again with a bunch of people, 2 of the guys going are moving and they were really close to me so im really going to miss them! but what r some ways to turn them on, what makes a girl stand out to you at the movies! (link)
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Maybe try wearing a low cut shirt. Flirt with them a lot. Maybe do something different with your hair and wear something pretty. Good Luck And I Hope I Helped!
XxEmo_HelpxX
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ok, so i've liked this guy for a little bit but he's never shown interest in me before. Now he's suddenly started flirting with me and he's even tried to kiss me but he won't act like this in school. He'll only do this when we're hanging out alone with some friends. He's also notorious for being the biggest flirt in the world. I don't know what to do! (link)
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Try flirting with him in school. If he flirts back then that means that he's not afraid to flirt with you around anyone. If he doesn't flirt back try flirting with other people around him to see how he reacts. Good Luck and I hope I Helped!
XxEmo_HelpxX
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any tips how to talk with my crush? (link)
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It's best just to stay calm and be yourself. Be honest and go with the flow. Don't worry about anything. Act like you've talked to him your whole life. That should work.
Hope I Helped!
XxEmo_HelpxX
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