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Whats up? I'm Alexis. Im 5'10" and 155 lbs. I currently have black hair that changes colors frequently and Gold eyes. I love tatts and piercings so beware. I have 2 tatts and 9 piercings. I Lived in germany for almost 3 years and I dont speak a lick of german. I was married for 3 years to a military man. Fortunatly that ended when I got the phone bill and made a call to his "girlfriends." Ive changed my name recently due to issues with my ex-husband and his psycho new wife. Shes mainly the problem. Not him. Me and him have parted our ways and moved on. Unfortunatly her maturity level has not yet allowed her to do so. If ya really wanna know the story behind all this just ask. I have the truth, the proof, and anything else you need. But I have to say if that didnt happen I would have never met my Beau (and yea thats his real name!)


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Although I get along with almost everyone, for some reason I dont like alot of people, first impressions are forever lasting to me. And if I knew what it was about them Id tell you. But unfortunately I dont. I hate 2-faced backstabbers. If ya got something to say to me, say it, it takes alot to hurt my feelings and Im not afarid to hurt anyone elses. You live and learn this way. When people hate me, I like it, so hate me all you want. I dont like when people I dont like, like me. Plain and simple. My biggest pet peeve is stupid people. And im not talking about spelling typos on line. Im talking about seriously dumb ass mother fuckers who dont know shit and smoked thereself stupid! Point made.


Im pretty easy to get along with and I dont throw a temper tantrum when someone doesnt like me. Everyone is unique in their own kinda way. Kinda sad how some people try to breakdown other people just because they hate themselves and try to make themselves feel better. Most people dont deserve that!

As you can see Ive been through alot and Im only 21! All of my friends, and well, non friends come to me for advice. Ive made all my own decisions in life and I have no regrets! My decisions have made me who I am today. All in all I may be grown up but Im still a kid at heart!

I think that about sums it up. :)

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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...

Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.

He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!

I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...

Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad...

Haha, thats rather cute. Most guys are afarid to admit that they can be defeated by a chick. And the best part is, most chicks really can kick a guys ass with no problem if they really tried.

I know for a fact you can take him down. If you've taken a judo class, they teach you specialized moves to protect yourself. I was in Takewando for a year when I was 13 and I could take my dad down!

Yes I have taken many men down. Im somewhat of a bitch to people if they have something to say about my friends, so if one of my friends or myself is being hit on by a guy and we tell him were not intrested, they normally through a fit and start pathetic name calling. Im like a steam roller when it comes to come backs, so noramlly my come backs will piss them off to the extent that they wanna fight. And Ive taken alot of men in my life.

I also took an army combat trainging coarse while I was living in Germany with my ex husband. Im 155 lbs and he was 225 lbs. One day when he threw me up agaisnt a wall and made me mad, I ended up breaking his nose while I flipped him right over my head.

All in all, ya just gotta know the right moves. And if your man wants to challenge me to a match bring him on! Guys dont scare me! haha!

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I'm a 19 year old female and I'm getting married in a week. I love the man I am marrying I do but last week we went on a trip to meet his family for the first time. I have tried so hard to please and impress his family but sometimes it feels like nothing I do is good enough for them. At this point I don't care anymore but since we have been on this trip my fiance has been acting differently towards me. He makes fun of me which sometimes gets annoying and a lil hurtful, and he wants me to do everything for him but whenever I ask him to do something he won't do it but throws a fit when I won't do shit for him. It seems like this is a completely different man than I fell in love with. What do I do? Should I still marry him or should we take a break? please help me...

Wow, its really ironic how much this sounds like me and my ex husband! I was with him for a total of 6 years and married for 3 years. His parents and sister hated my guts. I never did anything to make them dislike me. Hunny let me tell you. . . 6 years of trying to impress his family wore me down. I just gave up and let things happen. When he started choosing his family over me, I started leaning more towards divorce! As much as I loved him it hurt like hell to leave him. But he also started acting differently, in ways he had never acted before. Then I came to find out he had gotten a 15 year old pregnant. I wish I would have never married my ex. Of all people. In my opinion I think if hes not willing to give the world to you the best way he can, then you deserve much better. Dont break up, just postpone the wedding and see if he changes or not. Marriage is a big step, and its even messier to have to go through a divorce!

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