Hey, my name is Laine and I'm 14 years old! I know it maybe young for all you older people here ,but I give good advice and am very smart! Anyways I love to help people and give them advice! I well always try and give you the best posible answer! You can trust me and be honest with me! I'm very nice and I don't judge people!
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So I'm 14/f.
How do you use your tounge when you kiss? thanks i wanna make out. (link)
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Start to open your mouth and he/she will follow. Ok just sorta put your tounge in his/her mouth and people say to spell your name in cursive on his/her tounge. Put your hands somewhere comfortable then and just continue.. Hope I helped!
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KIND OF LONG BBUT MUCH NEEDED ADVICE.
Okay, so I really like this guy and he's my neighbour and as far as I know he likes me too. He's going into grade 12 though and I'm going into grade 9, and well, I want to find away to get close to him because I am very shy and I don't want him to think I am retarded, ya know? And now my mom doesn't like his family, because his brother who is my age is my brothers best friend, and well my mom just doesn't want me to see them again, and I don't know how I can get to see him without it being weird & looking like an idiot! He works til 4 pm as well.
WHAT TO DO? as many replies as possible please! (link)
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I totally agree with the other girl! Get his IM screen name, his myspace, his cellphone. Also if you have those call him or IM him and say hey do you wanna see a movie you can bring a friend and I will. And say to your mom that you going to a movie with a friend! (even though thats kinda lieing) But hey ask her to drop you off there and meet up at the end of the movie!
Or even tell your mom that you really like this guy and say that it doesn't matter if she doesn't like him and that it's that you like him. And he likes you!
P.S. not to freak you out or anything 95% of neighbors get married!
P.S.S. Hope I helped!
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ok so this is it, my fian lstraw! please help. me bestfriend and i, we are close, super close, and we like eachother, alot. only problems we are both girls.i of course like her more then she likes me she goes on and off but me i stick with it because i actually am in love with her. and you never forget your first love right?? well im just done imm well aware of whats goin on i keep getting hurt my heart keeps getting broken. like she opens the door and brings me closer but when i take my own step in she shuts it! and im just tired of it! the thing that makes me so upset is she is the one who brings this together every time. the 1st time the only reason we got so close was beacause she told me friend she wanted to go to winter formal with me , more then a friend. so we did that after a while we started holding hands at school and everything not caring what people thought. one day she stpped likin gme i said ok and stoped going after it we stayed bestfriends. but then about 3 weeks ago she told me after not likeing me for a month or two taht she liked me again, i said ok but she was like its diffrent i want something to happen this time. so once again she started. but we have this bet that she has to be the first one to make the move and make out with me before the end of summer, she has had so many oppertunitys but wont do it! why?? is she scarred she doesnt want to what? i eman she is the one taht wantes something to happen and trus tme so do i, i mean i like her alot! but i asked her toda ywhy last night(the lasnt night i'll see her before summer) she didnt do it and she was like becasue if it was ment to happen we will see and it will happen on its own, but i mean you have to put some effort into it! gosh i dont know please help. she likes to flir tand its wierd you think she would flirt with the ppl she likes more then ppl she doenst but its not. its the oppeset. is she teaasin gme what? plese help
16/f (link)
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Let's see! Well maybe she wants you to make the first move. When it's happening you should probably in a room or something with out anyone staring cause if not it might be a little awkward! But go some where where you girls are alone and then maybe if she doesn't start then maybe you try a little peck on the lips and see where it goes from there! Best of Luck though!
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ok i have been friends with this boy for about 2 years now and im starting to like him more than a friend but if i ask him out it might ruin our friendship but i think he might like me to because he kinda flirts with me and when were in class and we need partners he always picks me and when im doin some work and i look over at him somtimes i catch him lookin at me wat should i do?plz help me!! (link)
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You should definatly ask him out! And if it doesn't work out and you brake up say like can we still be friends I really want to get back to that and stuff! Those are some signs of him liking you back! Hope it works out!
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15/f
Okay, I realllly like this guy. & sometimes I wonder if he likes me back.
He acts like he does but then we dont talk for a long time. I met him about a month ago at an amusement park. But I kinda knew him before.
Anyways, he messaged me on myspace maybe 2 or 3 days ago. & he said that he was in Tenn. & that he would come over to my house when he got back the next day. But he didnt? & then I messaged him back telling him that he was supposed to come over, i noticed that he read it, but he never replyed. It kinda pissed me off and I really like him alot. & He said all I want to do is hold you and kiss you, im not going to try to do anything that you dont want to do. and I thought that that was really sweet and not a lot of guys do that. Ever since that I cant stop thinking about him, literally and its breaking my heart. What do I do?
Thanks in advance and sorry its long. (link)
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Ok be honest and real with him! Tell him that you want to be his girlfriend! Don't be afraid because you know he likes you back so trust him and tell him! Hope I helped!
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okay i have a crush on this boy named Dominick. He has been away for a month and I am seeing him at my friend's house on Sunday. She is having a welcome home/going away party because him and his brother are leaving for college a couple days after. he told me that he did have a crush on me but he didn't think it was worth fusing with. he's become very close to me..I tell him everything and he tells me everything. So on Sunday i want to kiss him. It may sound lame but how to i go about doing it, not the actual kiss because i've kissed someone before0. I just don't want it to be awkward or anything. we both don't want relationships right now so we both know nothing between us is going to change. I just don't want to do it and regret doing it. Should i wait for him to kiss me? i'm so confused on what to do so any ideas? thanks (link)
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Well you should probably go into a room where no one can barge in! And don't wait for him to make the move just maybe a peck on the lips or hug and then a kiss! If he asks what was that for say something along the lines of just wanted to get it off my chest! If your not looking for a relationship then it's kinda hard to say cause kisses usually lead to relationships ,but keep it real! Best of Luck!
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so me and this guys like eachother. we have had a "thing" for like 6 months. at school we were all over eachother. i haven't seen him since the last day of school. we talk everyday on the phone but now i am going to see him tomorrow night at this amusement park. i don't know what to expect. i still like him and he still likes me. is it going to be awkward? i don't want it to be so how can i make it not be? also, my friends are going but i don't know some of his friends that are cause they go to a diff. school. (link)
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Well I'm sure nothing has changed with him ,but just be yourself to him like you always been and play it cool and well just don't be awkward and he won't! Be yourself and maybe ask him out or something! If you both like eachother nothing should change as long as you are yourself to him!
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well see ive been with my boyfriend 4 almost 8 months. I love him 2 death. I hope he loves me i mean he tells me he does but i dont like him goin to the mall or anywhere without me. im afraid that he might find someone else.
idk im jealous i guess. will someone please help/
WHAT DO I DO??? (link)
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Ok well you should let him have his freedom ,but don't worry about him dumping you because if he says he loves you! You should believe him and trust him enough not to be worried he is going to find someone else! Hope I helped!
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well, im a 17 year old female and very mature for my age. i dont hangout with much people my age or from my school. i started hooking up with this guy, he just turned 24. we both like eachother and it sucks, because we already discussed we cant date because im just 17. since 18 is the legal age he says he wishes i was 18 but would prfer 20. it just really sucks cuz i like him alot now. and we talked about what we would do if we find other people or start hooking up with someone else, and he told me he`d probably not say anything, just stop talking to me. and yeah that sucks, but the worst part is , is that i`d be really hurt if that actually happened. what should i do and what can i say to him? i never get like this, never end up like guys, especially like this, i am not a clingy person (link)
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Well I'm only 14 ,but I have been alot of relationships. So if you both like each other age should not matter! He might be using that as an excuse ,but probably not! You should probably say like if we both have feelings for eachother age shouldn't matter and just be very nice and understanding to what he says back! And be very open and maybe if you can't be boyfriend- girlfriend say well can we still be friends and hang out and maybe if you guys hang out for a while he'll really actually believe age doesn't matter and you'll end up together! But just be nice and hang out and stuff!
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14/f
Im stuck:|
So the first guy.. lets call him Brad..
Brad was my next door neighbor for 3 years.. then i moved around the corner.. He used to tease me and stuff.. Then later on He and I started to have a thing.. we used to sneak into his garage and makeout.. Hes a good kisser lol.. anyways Then I reall wanted to tell my friend sarah so i did.. when my mom came home from work the next day she told my mom.. and yah he found out and was mad at me.. wouldnt even look at me.. so yah hes over it now tho.. but now we will be talking on msn and i will say whatsup and he will say ilu (iloveyou) so now im thinking is he playing me? Im not sure.. but i asked him to hang out with me next week. and he said yah so thats good..
Now the other guy.. lets call him Jack..
Jacks mom works with my mom.. they are good friends.. They introduced us to eachother and hes really fine lookin.. anyways so yah we got along so well like weve known eachother for years.. so anyway hes really sweet. we went on the walk for cancer together with our moms and their co workers and it was freezing out so we sat in the tent to sleep and i was so cold that he cuddled with me all night to keep me warm and his guy friend was in the tent too and he didnt care so yah and weve been emailing eachother a lot lately and its really funn.. Hes only kissed a girl.. never made out or anything.. but i dont care about that. His mom is really protective of him so im scared that his mom wont like me if we were to date.. i really like him too..
Please help.. i will apreciate any advice:) (link)
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Ok well Brad if he says i love you to you then I think you should say how you feel about him back! Mostly, if he is being real with you about liking you and you say ok what ever and stuff then he might change is feelings! So be real with him!
And Jack he sounds very sweet and that is wonderful! If you like him so much you shouldn't let his mom interfer! If you guys have feelings for eachother than his mom will except that and will let you guys *hang out*!
But 95% of neibors get married ,but you can change that if you want!
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