Im bascly your typical 16 year old girl! Ive had my share of boy friends, friends,litle sisters, skewl, humiliating situations ... the whole teenage drama kit... im in the 10th grade i love swimming, biking, animals, camping, drawing and helping ppl!
E-mail: xox_a_mandy_h@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ontario, Canada
Age: 16
Member Since: June 5, 2006
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hi im a 15 year old soph guy and i like this frosh girl thats in my geomotrey class...i met her about 2 years ago and havent seen her since then at the highschool game on friday we were talking and we talked online the other night and she is pretty and smart..and she seems pretty relaxed i seem to like her and i wanted to go to this street fair in another town with her her best friend and my bestfriend but they couldnt go becuase we would get back too late so this frday there is another game at our highschool and i want to hang out with her there and maybe me her best friend and my best friend can hang out on saturday night as well...so my question is should i tell her how i feel this weekend have her best friend who is also one of my friends talk to her or wait and do it later..because i feel if i wait to long she maymove on if she does have feelings for me but i dont know if she does so please help thanks in advance! (link)
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Tell her yourself, getting freinds to do it is so imature. Let her know how you feel befor its too late.
hope this helps!!!
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well i was thinking today if matt came over to tell him i love him turns out he didnt ne way i iwas going to say that and i was nervous to b.c what if he didnt feel the same way and said nothing talk about emabarrasing and heart breaking. so hear is how the dream went last night.....
ok i had a dream last night. well im in the alter area and i look im getting married! and next to me was a fat kid rite and im like ok well then we are starting to get married and then i was like i cant do this!! so i run away i run into the person i really love. Matt his name is i wanted to ask him if he would marry me instead. i couldnt say it so i said come to my wedding he said ok. well i get ther he sits down i look at him then get married again then i push the fat kid away and then look at Matt he comes up and we get married...
what does this mean?
i thought it meant b.c i was scared to ask to mary him(scared to say i love you to him) then like i get married to him i told him about my dream and i was like hesitating to say i love you on the phone b.c i wanted to say it in front to be less awkward if he didnt say ne thing ik weird but... like i sorta told him and he was like so your trying to say you like me 100% and im like ya sorta but not in that way so i didnt really tell him so im still scared to tell him im seeing him thursday so read and see if im rite and what do i do? (link)
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If you realy like this matt kid you have to be real straight foward and tell him. You dont want to miss out on your chance with him beacaus of the of rejection. Besides if the guy does'nt feel the same way about you that just means theres someone better out there waiting for you.
So I say tell him...you never know what might happen.
Hope this helps! ;)
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Ok agian I am a 14/m in a wheelchair and I have this friend lets call her S and she and me talk almost once a week on the phone or online cause she is in minnesota for the summer and she has been asking me advice about this other boy that has a girlfriend but they both lik eachother and well after all of that talking with her I was sitting in my room going through the year book and I kept thinking "Why Can't I be that boy that she likes" and I have been having this crush on her and I am scared to tell her cause I don't want our friendship to go bad and have her mad at me cause I have had that happen before
What should I do? (link)
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You have to tell her before its too late! You dont want to always wonder "what if?".
Hope this helps
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I'm foureen female. Here's my problem: I like my best guy friend, but I don't know how to tell him I want a more than friends relationship. He waits for me after classes, when I'm scared he calms me down. He really isn't like that to anyone else. I mean there have been times where we've come close to kissing. We always hint and stuff too it's just he hasn't made a move, and I really want him to. So does anyone know cirtain things to say or hints to drop to get a guy to make a move? I'll rate five. (link)
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Hey there, my advice to you is to tell him (mainly somewere u can have his undivided atention) Guys realy dont tend to pick up on hints and read between the lines there for the only way you can get the messege to him clearly is to be staight forward.
Hope this helps! and every thing goes well! good luck!
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In the movies do you talk fake a yawn and put your hand over the girl's shoulder hold her hand? Kiss her? i dont no what to do or when to do it.. (link)
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I think the whole having to yawn thing is well a lil lame... just put your arm arround her. Just hold her hand and just kiss her.
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Dear Columnists,
I need help really bad. Last weekend I was at a sleepover with me and my 2 other friends. They are my best friends. I was talking to my -ex and he said that he liked my friend...(one of the ones that was sleeping over)They went out for a while and I cried the whole time. She broke up with him because she felt bad ad that she did want this kid to Jepordise our friendship. She is giving me time but I feel inside as I never want them to get back together...Even though I am being selfish. I still love him! We have been off and on for a little. What should I do?
Srry it was SO long.
I rate 5's for good answers!
PLEASE HELP! (link)
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hey! im kinda in the same situation as you and sadly the only thing you can realy do is step asside and let your ex go out with your friend despite your feelings for him seeing as they don't seam to be returned. Its going to be real hard but its time to let go... As they say
" If you love something set it free. "
hope this helps you out a lil.
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I went out with my boyfriend for 6 months during the school year and for lots of different mutual reasons we broke up for the summer. I didn't really get to see him too much over the summer party because I was busy with lots of things and we live a little ways apart, and second b/c I had been going out with somebody else and that relationship did not end well. But anyway...when we got back to school we had mentioned how we still loved each other and out feelings fr one another had never gone away. After a couple of months we started going out again. Throughout this second time that we were together we ended up talking more about our summer and such. He had mentioned that he was no longer a virgin. The first time I had gone out with him he was. That means that he had lost his virginity to some girl that he did not go out with over the summer. Now, I love this guy with all my heart, but I have to admit that it kinda of breaks my heart that he was actually intimate with some random girl when we weren't together. A lot of people will say that I had gone out with somebody else so it's all the same thing but, I NEVER would have had sex with the guy I had gone out with. My boyfriend and I have now been together for almost 8 more months and I still love him to death. He's the only guy I have ever done ANYTHING other than kiss but we have not have sex. He NEVER pressures me to have sex and I would really like too, but I do not believe in sex before marraige. Personally, I think that there are too many consequences to having sex at my age (16) and I am also a Christian. However, I know that he is a guy and that guys need certain things. I would never break my belief system or my morals for sex...but at the same time I know that there are other girls who like him and I get jelous because I know that they're willing to give him the thing that I can't. I hate that I'm jelous of that but I am. I'd hate to think that in some ways he's just as attracted to them as he is to me just because they'll have sex with him. I don't exactly know what I'm looking for here in terms of advice. Maybe reassurance or just any thoughts. So whatever you got let me know.
ps. I have talked to him about this before but he said it's stupid and not to worry because he loves me. I guess I'm just worried that I might lose him one day because I waited too long. (link)
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Don't feel preshured into having sex with him becaus other girls out there are willing to give it to him. He seams to be real comfterrable waiting until your ready...trust his words and if he loves you he will not preshure you into anything you dont want to do, but if you do consider having sex befor maraige make shure that your doing for the right reasons be smart take the pill and use prectection.
Hope this helps! ;)
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tonights the formal at my school & since your not allowed to being anyone from outside the school my boyfriend can't come. I really didn't want to go since I wouldn't be able to dance with anyone (like grinding) But one of my guy friends says he does it with other girls during dances (and he has a girlfriend) and that the point is to have fun & he thinks it's not cheating. Is grinding with another guy, just as a fun thing not like like you have feelings for the person, considered cheating? thanks. (link)
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Dancing should'nt be considered as cheating, but you should talk to your boy friend and see what he thinks. Its better if you tell him... explain him the situation and consider his fealings.
Hope this helps!
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Okay soo I have a boyfriend who I really like and I have been seeing for like 7 months. But now I have started talking to another guy who likes me and I think I am starting to like him too. What should I do? Break up with my boyfriend for him and see how it works out or what? I'm just not sure. (link)
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If your realationship with your boyfriend is going well there should be no reason to date other guys. But if you find great interest in this other guy consider taking a break from that 7 month realationship and use it as a reflection time in wich you and your boy friend may date other people.
Hope this helps!
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So there is this guy and well he really likes me, I fooled around with him for a while, but got really bored of him, now he text messages me and Calls me and he's even said he comes to my house in the middle of the night in his car and watches it all night cause he misses me, he seems really weird, what should I do?
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Wow! thats creapy... that could be considered stoking, make shure you get the point across that he is not wanted and if that dos'nt work and he still watches you get the law involved!
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ok so like ii really like this boy in my class. he is like PERFECT for me ((lets call him Bryan)) && he is SOOOOOO CUTE! he has blonde hair, blue eyes, && is only a lil bit taller than me ((awesome seing how short ii am)) and he jokes around w// me sometimes. he is all over me sometimes, like lookin or goin down my shirt or feelin up my leg or somethin. nothing really bad, ii mean, we are in school. like ii kind of like it just b//c ii know he is givin me attention. and ii really like him but here is the problem. my best friend ((lets call her sarah)) likes him. ii was tryin to hook her up w// a guy that she thought she was in LOVE w// but she decided she didnt like him any more! && now guess who she likes!BRYAN! ii love Sarah more than anythin, she is my BFF && is ALWAYS there for me, especially w// guy problems! so ii really dont know what to do! ii really like him, but she is my BESTFRIEND! should ii help her get him or try to get him for myself? any helf would DEFF be appreciated! ii rate!!
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Boys will come and go but best friends are 4 ever!... If you and your friend are really as closs as you say then there should be no problem talking to her about the situation, if your comfterble with it, explain to her how you feel about him. You guys could come to an undertsanding that could help you make your decision.
Hope this helps!
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