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okay say i like this guy/girl and she/he just broke up with her/his boyfreind/girlfreind so im trying to help him/her and she/he says i really helped her/him out now the question is do u think it would be good or bad idea to ask her/him out right after he/she broke up with her/his boyfreind/girlfreind P.S i kinda don't want anyone to no who i am cuase i no u ............kim (link)
well.. now it's bean like a month since i got this so... lol sorry....i would say go for it, but is your gut says not to then don't!!!!

im me.... ok?

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ok so im not really in anything that i can meet any new guys besides whos in my class...and i (dont like them that way, if ya kno what i mean ) lol but how can i meet some and get to know some betteR?? if u know that would realyl help!
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You can join a club or a sport thats co-ed but other wise you can get to know somebody alot better and you probably will begin to like them.


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okay...i heard this guy likes me and he's really cute and i want to go out with him but it feels weird...do you have any idea why it would be like that?
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Well personally I think 12 is way too young to date anybody butt thats my opinion. So you can just hang out as friends till your like 13 or somthin but check with you parents to see when you can date you don't even have to tell them the situation you are in.




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OK so theres this guy and I think hes really cute and stuff but i barely see him...i only see him at games...IF he goes.. :/ What should i do...try to make it work?? or look for someone else...(u kno wht i mean)

thanks! (link)
Well, it depends. Does he talk to you? Look at you? or are you just a by-stander? If you answere no to all these questions except for the last one, then you can try and talk to him first. But if you talk to him (other than "Hey") then you can ask him what he thinks about being together. You can just be like," I was just wondering, cuz my friends said we would make a good couple, can you see us together?" I f he says yes, great. If he says, no, cool. There are a whole bunch of dudes in the world!!!!

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ok....this guy always flirts with me but i dont know if he likes me....how can i find out without actually asking him? (link)
Well, if you know any of his friends or sit next to them in one of your classes, then try and ask them. Or ask the girl in class who knows about who likes who. We all have one of those in our class! lol!

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where is the best place to buy a fancy dress not formal or semi formal casual-fancy (link)
Well, you can try this store called "Peaches". Its in the mall by Oak Lawn,IL. and they have the best dresses. Or try Marshall Feilds or like JC Pennies. My cuz needed a formal but like casual dress and she went to Feilds and got this to die for dress! And it was like $40!So try these places I recomend them!!

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Hi i'm a 6th grader an i need advice.. cuz i like this really hottie in my class but he likes a 7th grader and i thought he liked me but he doesn't! wht should i do!!?!?!?

p.s. i need SERIOUS HELP! (link)
Well, what you can do like if you have a school dance ask him to dance. Like today, I had a Christmas dance and i danced with 5 people, and I asked them! Just be confident, and ask him! He may just like you and that whole thing about the 7th grader might just be a rumor!


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okay so there is this guy that I know and he happens to be my friend's cousin and I think I might like him. What should I do if my friend is a little freaked out by this whole thing? And do you have any advice on how to talk to him without making a fool out of myself?
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Well if you really like him and hes nice and not a jerk or anything then go for it! If you friend has a problem with that then ask her why, and if its just uncomfortable for her then try to make it easyer for her.If its just that shes jealous or somthing than shes not a true friend. I hope I helped you!


Last year at camp, there was this guy who's a little over a year younger than me that really really liked me and I guess I gave him the impression that I liked him as a friend. See, I was like the only one that was actually nice to him, and most people think he is reallyreally annoying, and so do I, but I didn't say it to his face. He was like in love with me or something and it drove me crazy how he was always following me around and stuff. Stupidly, before I knew he liked me, when he was collecting screen names, I gave him mine. When I found out he liked me, I figured he'd get over it during the school year and I wouldn't have to worry about it. I was really annoyed by his having to always hang around me, but turns out he was depressed and on meds and I didn't wanna ruin his life by telling him he drove me crazy. So when he brought up the topic of us going out, I told him I only liked him as a friend. He said that was better than nothing, and with the impression that I wanted to be his friend, (I suppose that impression was my fault) kept latching onto me and following me. The rest of that week at camp basically sucked but I figured he'd get over me. When I got back home, he of course kept IMing me. I figured he'd stop in a couple months. I didn't want to tell him I didn't really want to have anything to do with him, again, because of the depression thing. So I talked to him, and I really did give him a chance then, and I also did at first at camp, and I then knew for sure, for a fact, that I'd never like him and I really didn't want to talk to him. Howeverhe insisted I meet him at the mall on his birthday. I said I would, and decided after that, I would act like everything was alright, and we were friends, and then block him and claim that I lost IM in the middle of November if I saw him at camp. I've now followed through with the blocking him. But there is a very good chance that we will end up at the same camp session next year, and even though I no longer have to talk to him during the year, at camp he's going to assume we're best friends again. I don't want to hang with him AT ALL it's one of the few things I will not do to myself. But I can't really tell him that either because he's depressed and who knows what would happen. And I really have given him a chance, he's just not my type, and I feel bad for him because he's not ANYONES type. So I'd feel really guilty even if he WASN'T depressed. Please please reply. I have no clue what to do. I have asked so many people for advice, including a camp counselor whos a psychology major and always has a solution, and even she was stumped. If you can come up with anything please let me know. I also cannot just skip camp because it is the one part of the year I really look forward to and it's the best part of my life, but with him stalking me, it's not. (link)
I would probably just say in a polight way " You really need to back off a little bit because I need my personal space" but in a nicer way.




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