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Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?

I wouldnt! Think of it, do you really want to sell youre sister out?! I mean youre family are youre loyal friends and you should(even though sometimes you think you shouldnt) hold them the closest. And think that guy might only go with you for a while then dump you,whereas youre sister wont, but i doubt she'll be in the mood for talking to you if you sold her out. The best way is if you think you really like this guy, is to talk to youre sister and drop hints about her liking this guy and that.. And if you find out that she only likes him as a good friend then go ahead and meet the guy and take it from there. If of course she does like him then hang back and grit youre teeth. Because just remember.... BLOODS THICKER THN WATER!

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ok i love my boyfriend and everything but whenever well be on the phone and hell have to eat or something,..hell say ill call you back in like 20 minutes...and hell be like i love you so much ill talk to you in 20mins babe i love you...but then hell acll me back in like TWO HOURS!! i talked to hmi about it earlier tonite and hes like well stuff comes up i either have to leave w/ my parents or have to do chores or something and then hes doing it again right now!!....hes not getting the hint!!! what can i do??

I think you should seriously talk this through with him. I know you have, but tell him that you want straight answers and not a mask of the truth. Otherwise you have two options, believe him and stick with it and get angry, or jus leave him, i say that like its easy but i know its not.... Or wot else you could do is call him back if he hasnt phoned, dont do this all the time or youll frighten him. But youve gotta ask yourself.. is a guy who lies to you worth the hassle and stress. Talk to him mainly
hope i helped
anthony

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I had a dream that my boyfriend's, mother's... boyfriend poisoned them and killed them. I woke up from that dream in my dream and went to see if it was true and it in my awaken dream, he really did die like that. I was crying and tossing. My parents heard me crying and tossing and turning. Then my dad woke me up and i was so relived it was a dream. The whole time though i was thinking, its just a dream call buck make sure he is still alive. When i woke up from both dreams called my boyfriend and he was alive. I have no idea, why i had such an awful dream like that. What do you think this is suppose to mean?????

I dnt think it means anyting at all. Its just youre imagination tht causes dreams and perhaps u where having a hard day or sumthing. YOur brain wood have reacted like th say if u had ghad a fight or an arguement weith Buck. But it means nothing so dnt go stressing over 1 dream. Dreams are just your thoughts and imaginations, nothing else no matter how many ppl tell u otherwise!! So dnt panic jus take it as it was and leave it in the past, as a dream

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i have a crush on a senior that i know at my school (i'm a junior, so no worries about any freaky age difference stuff) anyway, i don't really know his thoughts on me, and i don't really know him well enough yet to just out and ask him. so i was wondering, what are some good ways to get a little closer to him and give him the green light to maybe ask me out. i'd really like this to work out, so thanks for any help that you all can offer.

The best way... well there is no big secret really, just tlk 2 him!!!!! Get to know him better, make friend with him. U know how 2 make friends so iwnt tell u how. Yea but thts the best way, make him lieka friend, but not 2 gd a friend or it cood back-fire(throo xperience)Then as u progress throo it all make subtle hints about how u like hima and how gd lookin he is etc. Get clooser with jhim, flirt more and do nethin afterwards 2 make it work u know. If all else fails tho and u dnt wna look stupid. The best thing 2 do is to get 2 being his friend, then like tell him uve had feelings and that u think yud b gd together, and tht u have nothing really 2 lose throo it all so y not?!

Hoepfully i wos of help,
Anthony

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